QUESTION ⁉️ “My husband want quits. He complains about my accusations of him cheating and he doesn’t think he can do it anymore. How can I save my marriage from divorce ? ”
Most people think of infidelity from an actual act. What if it’s pure 100% infidelity spirit in the form of accusations as a result of insecurity.
So you are traumatized with the effect of infidelity and cheating from childhood. Then you carry that baggage into brand new marriage in the form of insecurity.
What’s the effect?
In this video, you will discover how to save your marriage from divorce when it has suffered from insecurities derived from old infidelity
QUESTION ⁉️ “How can financial problems affect a marriage?
I’m not married but my boyfriend wants combine finances. He says we can get married after we are debt free.
I am very hesitant. Any advice? ”
This question is such a great question and we have taken our time to answer and break it down for you.
If money stops coming in, it can kill attraction.
If the discussion of money takes away fun, it will kill attraction. How? Isn’t that irresponsible?
If you are experiencing financial issues in your marriage, that stress can kill attraction.
So learning how to create money and income as a couple is one of the keys to avoiding problems and stress in a marriage.
There are also many financial benefits that comes with a marriage.
But you can’t benefit from them if you are not on the same page much less planning and building together.
Is your spouse a good digger or a dead beat or the breadwinner who can’t stop reminding you?
You may have found that counseling is not helping to remove your stress.
Many couples tend to shy away from calling it is as it is; financial stress.
Many women don’t want to be called a gold digger by their breadwinner husband but then; deep resentments against their husband.
Finance issues in a marriage can lead to social issues as well as you may not be able to afford certain lifestyle that friends may be showcasing on social media.
Couples would find themselves in these finance related but camouflaged problems but can’t solve them when they are not on the same page.
It’s connected to every facet.
Money affects every part of our daily lives and it has to be counted and accounted for in our actions and reactions.
So how should you manage your household finances when you are in a marriage with another adult?
Is it about money and finance or it’s about the emotions around these issues as usual?
In this video, we share some creative ways for couples to manage their emotions around finances intelligently.
One theme you probably should pay attention to is the team work and anxiety control.
QUESTION ⁉️ “My marriage has been a long journey of ups and downs. And for some reasons my wife keep texting other guys behind my back.
Anytime I catch her, she says sorry and promises to stop. What can I do to make sure she won’t do it again?
I have been there by her side supporting anything she wanted to do. Married for 10 years since she was not even 21.
She has a child from a previous relationship and kept that from me. I’m the one that don’t want to leave her because she is my whole world.
She makes me feel I am the reason why she is doing it.”
In this edition of how to fix a broken marriage, you will discover how to handle a situation where a married woman is texting other men outside the marriage.
Is it appropriate? Is it allowed? Is this another sign of a broken marriage. In this video, we answer that question with precisely why a woman feels it’s okay and exactly how dangerous it is if dangerous at all.
QUESTION – “What can I say to my wife to stop a divorce?”
In addition to what to say to her to stop the divorce, you also need to learn how to say what to say.
Believe it or not, there is not much to say other than “I UNDERSTAND”. You can’t afford to start begging or apologizing once a woman get to this stage.
It doesn’t have to be her idea to stop the divorce but it needs to feel like it’s her idea to her. If she feels smothered into stopping the divorce, that will become a confirmation that continuing the divorce is the right decision.
When a woman asks for divorce, she has lost respect for you and no longer values the marriage. Any manipulative move will further decline the value of the marriage from her perspective.
Watch the video for more insights on how to talk and relate with a wife who has asked for divorce.
On August 16th, 2016, Popular YouTuber and Influencer Jacki Aina @jackieaina published a video titled “Unpopular Opinions: Marrying Young and Societal Pressures | Jackie Aina”.
In the video, she expressed how she is very happy with the new wave of women who do not feel pressured into the ideal or old ideal of a woman to submits into the pressure of being a 2nd hand in a marriage.
Apparently, she had not so pleasant experience being married in her early 20’s.
Recently in her early 30’s, she just got engaged to be married again.
Another Nigerian popular YouTube Influencer Dyna Ekwueme @dynaekwueme has chosen to take a seemingly polar opposite stand on the issue.
On August 20th 2019, She published a video response or reaction to Jackie Aina’s video titled “UNPOPULAR OPINIONS: MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR JACKIE AINA.”
Inside her video, she expressed reasons for the societal pressure and encouraged young marriage.
She out rightly said married does define women.
She in fact said it can make or break a woman.
Since then, she has received lots of backlash on this issue.
Lola and OLA find it interesting that 2 people with no extensive experience in my marriage have so much opinions about it.
The are both either right or both wrong. Find out in the special edition of GET MY MARRIAGE BACK which one is it.
Enjoy!
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