Question: “How Do You Tell If Your Wife STILL LOVES YOU After SEPARATION?”
There are a couple of things that I wanted to mention here.
First of all, you don’t try to tell, it’s not worth it.
I know you want your wife back or your family back and wanna make things work again,
…but we’re talking about emotional and psychological factors that play a big role in this situation.
If you don’t show that anyone else wants you or if you don’t show that you have options, there’s a good chance that your wife doesn’t want you back.
At least not yet.
So, How do you tell if your wife still loves you after separation?
You wait until she tells you.
That’s number one.
When she tells you that “I still love you”, believe her.
Even at that, you don’t want to just jump at it and like “I’m excited. She still loves me.”
You don’t wanna do that because that will backfire but if she hasn’t told you there’s a good chance that she’s not in love with you.
By the way, if your wife was ever your wife and she ever told you she loves you, she probably still loves you,
…But that’s a completely different thing from, she’s still in love with you.
Does she feel like she’s in love with you right now?
There’s a good chance that she’s not.
It depends on how particular you are about that.
You don’t wanna make that a big deal, if you make it a big deal that becomes a big deal.
If she’s not in love with you right now, she’s just not in love with you right now.
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Depending on your level of patience and if you’ve been working on yourself, that is what’s going to determine if she will ever come back to you,
…or if she will ever say to you that she loves you.
See, a woman will not tell you she loves you if she doesn’t feel like she’s in love with you.
Love and Being in Love with you are two different things.
Loving a person is the action thing that you do.
There are multiple different meanings of love but for the purpose of the scope of this video,
…we’re talking about being in love with you, or she loves you.
She can tell you should love you and not be in love with you.
That really doesn’t do you any good.
The real question you’re trying to get answered is that,
…is she in a place where she can come back to you, if she can come back home or if you can go back home, because you’re in the midst of a separation.
I would say you’re worried about the wrong things.
So first of all, wait for her to tell you.
There are a lot of things that will happen before she actually gets to tell you that she loves you again.
Which means she feels like she’s in love with you.
A lot of things that have to align depending on the damages that your marriage has encountered over time.
How far is the damage?
We don’t know, I don’t know unless I actually coach you personally and I talked to you.
So I don’t know the extent of the damages but either way, it doesn’t matter.
You’re gonna have to have what I call infinite patience.
You have to have patience.
That’s extremely difficult when you don’t have a personal purpose and mission in life that basically preoccupies your time,
… that you don’t really have time to be wondering if she still loves you or not.
So if you’re wondering if she still loves you or not, there’s a good chance that she’s not attracted to you right now.
There’s a good chance that you have too much time in your hands and you’re busy wondering if she still loves you.
You need to find a way to deliberately create attraction between you and your wife in a way that she’s the one that starts to wonder about you.
If she starts to wonder about you, that’s directly equivalent to still in love with you, wanting to get back with you, wanting to move back home or asking you to come back home.
Basically saying, “I love you. I want us to work on it now”.
Now, how patients can you possibly be in order to wait for that to happen?
If you don’t feel like you can be that patient, that’s exactly why she doesn’t love you right now.
Basically, you don’t respect yourself.
You don’t have self respect, you don’t have self love, you don’t have a healthy level of pride about self love.
To the extent where, I’m not telling you to be arrogant.
That’s not what I’m telling you.
I’m just trying to tell you that she doesn’t want you if you don’t come off as confident about yourself.
She will probably not want you, she’s not the only one that won’t want you.
Everybody else would not want you if they feel like you’re lacking confidence because there’s something that all of us are attracted to.
Even us men as far as being attracted to a woman, we love a confident woman.
You love a confident woman.
She also loves a confident man.
So how can you showcase confidence?
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How can you showcase confidence that “well, she’s gonna come back to you. She belongs with you”
See that attitude?
It’s not an attitude as negative or arrogant or nasty or narcissistic in any way.
It’s an attitude of confidence that you know that God has the best for you and any time you see her,
…I just showcase that by still being loving.
I’m not saying you love her, but being loving, friendly and giving her the freedom to decide when she wants to come back to you.
That’s how you tell if your wife still loves you.
How do you tell if your wife still loves you after separation?
Wait for her.
The real question is that, “how can I tell if you still love yourself?”
I can’t tell that you still love yourself.
You may love yourself but I can’t tell you still love yourself enough for her to love you,
…because you are still asking this question, How do you tell if your wife still loves you after separation?
How about getting the attitude of,
“she loves you anyway, I know she loves me anyway but I’m gonna wait for her to tell me, and I’m gonna move on until then. I’m gonna live my life,a blissful, happy, fruitful, purposeful, mission driven life”
…Because that’s exactly what’s gonna attract that.
That’s all I have for you on this video.
Hopefully you’ve been enlightened and educated.
You need to read the book 10 to 15 times.
If you cherry pick around videos, it won’t work.
You need to learn the skills of attracting a woman even if she is separated from you,
…by the way, it’s easier if he’s separated from you but you have to learn the skill set.
That’s all I have, see you on the next one, peace.