“…why do you use me? I didn’t ask for this. You raised me up and I told you I’m not the one. I told you I got all of these stuff I have been praying for years, my answers never come. But I pray for others and you answer them right away. Why did you raise me up if you knew that I was gonna miss it and in the process of trying to serve you, my humanity would explode from behind the facade of religious perfection…” – John Gray
He just blamed God for everything, “I told you I’m not capable of being a pastor and you make me a pastor?”
But he’s been collecting the money.
He did a show called The Book of John Gray, I love that show.
He was also a background singer back in the day.
I actually think he is such a wise guy until this issue happened.
When he speaks, It’s his talent you can’t take that away from him.
A gift is a gift and he has that gift,
… but that doesn’t mean you are not going to be responsible for your emotional affairs or happenings.
See when you tender an apology too early this is what happens,
… you will say the wrong things.
First of all, that apology was too long.
He should have done the PR thing.
The wisest people in this world, what they do is they send a PR to go tender an apology statement because your truth varies.
Your truth now when this thing just happened is only based on your reaction.
While the truth you have a few weeks later from now would have changed because you would have settled in.
You would have used the wisdom of God to process what happened.
Plus, you will have more information and everything would have been calmed a little bit.
You are busy apologizing to the world, when that’s not the least of your issues because he said it, he is strong bone.
Below is a question for us to address with this lesson…
“I have a problem.
My wife wants to separate.
She said she doesn’t love me anymore but she also said,
I love you because you are the father of my kids and also because of the struggles we’ve been through.
We have been together for 11 years and I still love her.
What can I do? I’m just so confused.
We haven’t even talked about a divorce.
She has never brought it up and of course I don’t want a divorce.
This is just so confusing.
We still live together with our kids in the same house.
We still have sex and sometimes we kind of flirt.
But she doesn’t want to kiss me like she is afraid as if something.
It’s just so weird.
She said she doesn’t love me but she still has an affection for me so it’s very confusing.
It’s like do you love me or not.
And also, she has a big pride; she wants to be right all the time and never says she is wrong even when she is.”
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