5 Signs Your wife is NOT Attracted to You ❤️

Do you feel like your wife is no longer attracted to you?

First of all, every marriage is different.

But there are some things that are universal when it comes to signs that a woman is not attracted to you.

Some things are very peculiar to your particular relationship with your wife. 

Well, let's  assess together and see if she's no longer attracted to you or it’s simply just your feelings.

Sometimes, how you feel can be far away from the reality of things.

signs my wife is not attracted to me

In this video newsletter,

I will share 5 different signs you should look out for

...in order to determine the level of your wife’s attraction to you.

Keep in mind that attraction in any given moment in time is temporary.

So the last thing you want to do is overreact if you feel like your wife is not attracted to you;

at this very moment.

The key phrase there is "in this very moment”.

These signs are only valid if they never existed before but now your recent suspicions.

Sign #1 - One-Word Answers

If you get a one-word answer every time you ask your wife open-ended questions,

that's a sign that she's probably not attracted to you at this point in time.

That's a sign that your wife is not interested in a conversation with you.

An open-ended question is a question that requires somewhat of an elaborate insight, and opinion.

Average human being loves to share their opinions under normal circumstances.

If your wife has gotten to a place where she's no longer interested in sharing her thoughts

and opinions when you create opportunities for her to do so,

That could be a sign of low attraction.

If that suddenly starts happening from time to time, over and over, consistently over time,

...you should look into finding out the underlying reasons.

ON THE PREVIOUS POST: How to Deal with an Unsupportive Husband

Sign #2 - She is Disrespectful

When a woman is not attracted, her behavior may start coming off as disrespectful.

What is disrespectful?

To be honest with you, it depends on how you feel and the unique Dynamics in your relationship with your wife.

So if you feel like she's being disrespectful, you would know because you know what it feels like when she's not being disrespectful.

A woman that does not respect you cannot love you; at least they can't be in love with you at this moment.

So with respect to how things normally are in your marriage to your wife, if you feel like she's being disrespectful,

Then she clearly is not interested in the intimacy that you are used to in your marriage.

 A woman who is attracted to you will not be disrespectful to you.

Sign #3 - She Suddenly Started Avoiding Argument

Arguments are extremely toxic, they create slow but sure death for intimacy and attraction in a marriage.

By the way, a man who understands women does not argue with women and it’s really that simple.

It really doesn’t matter if we are talking about your wife or your mother.

A disagreement is not the same thing as an active argument.

With that being said, if your wife used to engage in argumentative conversations with you and she suddenly stops,

That could be a sign that she's losing respect for you.

If she has to lead in any capacity consistently, over time, she will lose respect and attraction towards you.

In a little bit of a twisted way, the sudden stop is a sign that she is no longer interested in needing you to be on her side of an argument.

It's not the argument that she's avoiding, it’s a conversation with you that she's avoiding, granted that the argument may have gotten to that toxic level.

While I do advise every couple to avoid argument, being dismissive is not the way to go about it.

Avoiding it should be more of a deliberate Act of building your relationship with your significant other and never about “being dismissive.”

But she is a woman who may have had to lead in avoiding arguments in your marriage; she cannot be attracted to you right now.

If things have gotten to that toxic level where one of the parties is now being dismissive, that could be a sign of loss of respect.

As I stated earlier, loss of respect is almost if not equivalent to loss of attraction.

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Sign #4 - She Stopped PDAs

PDA stands for Public Display Of Affection.

As always, this sign is only valid if you are used to a wife who used to be very interested in public display of affection such as:.

  • Cuddling
  • Hugging
  • Kissing
  • Holding hands and so on

If she suddenly stopped showing interest in these things that could be a sign of low attraction.

But like I said, if the Dynamics of your marriage were never like that, this may not be an indication of anything with respect to attraction.

I do think it’s weird when I see married couples who don’t flirt at all because most couples that are attracted to each other tend to do these things.

Sign #5 - She Never Initiates

In most marriages, there's always one of the spouses who initiate sex most of the time because of unmatched sexual appetite.

However every now and then, the one who doesn't will take it upon him or herself to switch things up and that's usually an exciting spontaneity for the couple.

But if you're in a situation where she never initiates at all, there's a chance that she is not attracted to you; at least not sexually.

Conclusion.

There may be other signs outside of the scope of this video newsletter, but it really doesn't matter as the solution is the same across board.

If you're feeling like your wife is not attracted to you in recent times, the solution I will recommend to you has everything to do with just you and you only.

Start paying attention to some self-love, self development and less attention to how your wife may be feeling.

Allow your wife to wonder about what you are up to.

If you take some time off wondering about how much attraction your wife feels towards you, that alone can make her start to feel attracted to you again.

But also, you will be literally building yourself to attract the type of love that you desire and deserve.

If you allow her room for her to wonder about what you're up to, that's literally almost if not the equivalence of building attraction back up in your relationship.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do you know when your wife isn't attracted to you?

If your wife has suddenly started avoiding arguments, stopped PDA’s, started being disrespectful, giving you one word answers, and making you ask these questions, she is losing attraction to you.

Why isn't my wife attracted to me anymore?

One sure way to get your wife to continue to lose attraction towards you is taking attention off self love and self confidence.
Ultimately, it depends on the particular story that led you down this path.

What does it mean when your wife doesn't show affection?

It can mean a lot of things including loss of attraction but the first best way to find out is to ask her.
If you lack the confidence to ask her, that is a good reason for her to lose attraction towards you and stop showing affection.

How to Deal with an Unsupportive Husband ❤️

What is an unsupportive husband?

If you have found yourself in a situation that makes you feel lack of support from your husband,

You may be wondering if you are now amongst the thousands of women dealing with an unsupportive husband.

Unsupportive Husband

So let’s dig in some 5 of the signs you should look out for.

In addition to that, we will talk about a few ways to attract the support you want from your husband.

Before we dive into the signs, it is important that you know that there is a difference between your feelings and reality.

Our feelings in general tend to exaggerate matters on ground.

Therefore making us attack the people we love and creating a back and forth mix of defensive and offensive behaviors.

You may be feeling unsupported and there may be a blurry line between that feeling and neediness.
Neediness will kill attraction in your marriage but it is quite possible that your husband is simply unsupportive.

So let’s get to the signs.

5 Signs of Unsupportive Husband


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SIGN #1 - He Treats You With Disdain

If you’ve found yourself in a marriage with a man who goes out of his way to make you feel unworthy, that’s a classic sign.

SIGN #2 - He Doesn’t Listen

It’s one thing to feel unheard but it’s another for your husband to shut you down every chance he gets to do that.

I don’t know which is worse but that is a sign that you are in a marriage with an unsupportive husband.

SIGN #3 - He Doesn’t Help

As a woman, not only does the society expect that you make sure all house chores are done, YOU probably have put that expectation on yourself.

If your husband doesn’t seem to put any effort into making sure you are not overwhelmed with this culture, he is not a supportive husband.

There are men that would be this way even when their wives are in illness or pregnant.


ON THE PREVIOUS POST:
Unhappy Marriage But Can’t Leave Does he Love Me


SIGN #4 - He is Abusive

There are 3 main different types of abuse namely:

  1. Verbal Abuse
  2. Emotional Abuse
  3. Physical Abuse

All 3 can end up in the same place; worst of which is death.

So make sure you seek professional help if you feel like you are in an abusive marriage.

That’s definitely a sign of an unsupportive husband.

SIGN #5 - He is Numb to Your Feelings

As a human being, we have feelings and yes they can be an exaggeration of reality.

But that is the more reason why the man in a marriage must be aware of those feelings.

If you can’t even get him to listen and see how you are “feeling” specifically, you may be in a marriage with an unsupportive husband.

Maybe he takes everything as an attack, gets defensive and never takes responsibility for the feelings in the marriage…

These are the common signs and issues that wives deal with in a marriage to an unsupportive husband.

Complacency can cause these behaviors; we tend to take each other for granted at some point.

If it’s that simple, you still deserve what you desire in a husband.

The first step is to communicate your feelings in words.

Make sure you are not just being needy and you are in a position where you can support yourself emotionally and in other areas.

If that hasn’t worked, you need to make yourself less available in the relationship and that should increase your value in the relationship.

Remember if you do not have a strong sense of self worthiness, no one else including your husband will find you worthy.

Below is a question for us to address with this lesson…

“What if you are trying everything to make your marriage happy again?

Going to a counselor is what we need.

But the other spouse doesn’t think you need it.

What do I do in that situation?

I am alone in this and trying to get him to see how I am feeling.

My husband isn’t supportive.”

Enjoy the video.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do you deal with an unsupportive husband?

The first step is to write down moments when he has being supportive in the past and express how much love those experiences.

If there are no changes, communicate your feelings to him without coming off like an attack.

Why does my husband show no emotion?

It depends on the context. You will need to specify your experience a little more precisely.

How do I deal with an unsupportive partner during pregnancy?

During pregnancy a lot of reality can seem exaggerated; your feelings may be an exaggerated version of your reality..

However, the best thing is to look positive experiences caused by him that you can highlight, appreciate and exaggerate.

It will expand and occupy your present negative feeling and most important encourage him to create for positive experience like being supportive.

5 Tricks to Fix Your Marriage ❤️

Want to know how to fix your marriage using 5 simple tricks that work 100% of the time?

You see people, including your spouse, are predictable.

That is to say you too can learn a few tricks to attract the love you deserve and desire.

I have to assume that you are experiencing a crisis in your marriage now and that must feel terrible to live in that kind of misery.

Your spouse has probably shut down and is using these moments to emotional abuse you and your marriage.

Use these 5 simple tricks to turn all that around and fix your marriage.

How to Fix Your Marriage Using 5 Simple Tricks

(1) Relax

Rejection breeds obsession.

So the feeling of rejection that you are experiencing at the moment will naturally give you the illusion that the world is about to end.

You and I know that it couldn’t be further from the truth.

So the first step is for you to take back the control of your emotion

And keep in mind and prepare that more triggers will show up temporarily to make you lose it.

Be determined to stay in control.

Here is good book to read as you do...

(2) Listen & Give

This is a marriage and you should always only go into relationships to give; not give and take.

The very act of complaining shows that you are in the taking mode and as you can see, it’s working against you.

Sure it’s not easy to “give” to a person who is not giving love back to you but I am not asking you to give love.

But you need to find opportunities to give.

So you have to listen effectively in order to determine what will be received when you give.

For example, if a spouse is shut down, they are asking for space and that’s an opportunity to “give” some space.

Here is another article: Marriage Separation Advice

In fact, I would argue that you also need that space to regain back your emotional control and escape potential emotional abuse.

Remember.. No one can abuse you emotionally unless you allow it.

Focusing on giving has a direct correlation with fixing your marriage successfully but it must accompany a generous level of patience.

How much you give has a lagging and not a leading indication in your marriage.

(3) Avoid Predictable Reactions

You are responsible for your actions and your reactions are your actions.

Essentially, you don’t get to say “he or she made me do it.”

You are an adult and…

Therefore you are responsible for your actions even when you are not willing to take responsibility.

But you are in a better position of control when you take responsibility without confusing it with guilt and/or self-blame.

When a spouse shuts down, it tends to create triggers for overreaction in many aspects.

So one of the tricks you can use to fix your marriage is to identify scenarios where you would normally overreact and simply do the opposite.

This trick is not a one size fits all.

If you are normally dormant in reacting, then you should gain courage and speak up using words.

But say what you want to say once and leave it there. Arguments will create an undesirable effect.

The idea of this trick is to not be predictable; being predictable kill attraction.

If you can successfully make your spouse wonder why you act the way you act, it will build attraction and with patience, you will fix the marriage.

(4) Detach from Feelings

You are probably feeling like your spouse is no longer in love with you right?

Well first of all, know that feelings are temporary in nature and tend to exaggerate the reality of what’s going on.

So start with how you feel… you are probably exaggerating naturally.

And if you are not exaggerating, your spouse has probably expressed that feeling in words. “I am not in love.”

The in-love is a feeling and it reflects hurt; that’s okay because that can be fixed.

In-love is not love… that’s just butterflies.

And you can probably figure why he or she feels that way at the moment; it’s temporary if you use trick #3… RELAX.

It is better to not get attached to how you feel and your spouses’ expression of how they feel.

Instead, focus on creating a new alternate experience and be patient because it will create a lagging indication and not a leading indication.

That means you will see moments that feel like your effort is not reflecting but that’s a feeling; focus on giving.

But don’t forget to give to yourself too.

(5) Avoid Approval Seeking Behaviors

Some are very quick to apologize but there is a problem with that.

There is blurry line between:

  • Apologies
  • Seeking Approval and
  • Manipulation

These, including apology itself, are not attractive behaviors and it is better in a marriage and relationships to focus on changed behavior.

Changed behavior is the best apology and it’s also attractive as it makes you less predictable in the eyes of your spouse.

You should only apologize once if you feel you should and only if your spouse specifically asks for it.

Think about it, if you have to apologize over and over, you are probably not going to get a different result that you desire with doing the same thing over and over.

In general, avoid approval seeking behavior as it indicates lack confidence and that’s very unattractive at subconscious levels.

BONUS TRICK: Patience

You are not meeting your spouse for the first time so fixing your marriage will be a process.

But it’s worth it because of the level of personal growth that comes with giving over and over when it seems like you won’t receive.

It’s worth the process and your marriage will last that much longer.

Below is a question for us to address with this lesson…

“I need help.

I have a wife and she doesn’t talk to me near her mom and dad.

She says she is shy but sometimes she talks to me and sometimes she doesn’t.

Only sometimes she doesn’t talk to other guys but I don’t know if she loves me.

She says she does but I don’t believe it.”

Enjoy the video.

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I know... The harsh reality is that your marriage is over... IT'S BROKEN... "Can it be saved?"

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It feels very dark in your matrimonial home and you can’t even share your ordeal with anyone. You try so many moves to save your marriage but your spouse just doesn’t care anymore;

...you feel as though he/she is no more the person you married.

Finally, you thought may be you should communicate more but the very act of communication digs deeper and deeper holes of arguments, fights, emotional aches and more.

Exhausted, you share your experience with your family and now the whole family is in feud; your parents, siblings, on both sides of the family etc. They have all caught feelings.

You wonder if your kids will have a home with both parents 6 months from now... it feels like no one cares or ever cared. If you feel a connection to this reality at any level, I feel your pain. Lola and I know what that feels like.

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I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here. But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

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It doesn't matter if divorce has been filed and completed even years ago.

There is still hope for a happy and exotic love affair with the person you love again when you learn these secret techniques.

i checked out... Affairs, infidelity, 3rd party and extended family influences, vendetta, bitterness, resentments.... Eventually she said it all...

"I need space."

"I need time."

"I need to find myself."

"I don't love you anymore."

As you can imagine or probably experienced already, that's not a fun thing to here from your spouse or a person you love.

Because of the unusual bond and friendship we've always had, it was even more confusing for the both us to be in that space.

In her words....

"I was lost and cried on the wrong shoulders."

Once I was ready to put my home together, I engaged in 3 simple secret techniques that attracted her back on a journey in joint forces with me.

HOW?

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In the book, you will learn why that's the best thing that actually happened to us in the 9th year of our marriage.

By the 10th year of marriage, she filed for the divorce.

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Lola and I are 100% responsible for the invitation.

Guess who's responsible for our brand new and stronger marriage. Besides God, we both take full credit for that as well.

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The real BIG DEAL about these secret techniques is that they lead with ensuring your happiness which is EXACTLY how you will attract your spouse back.

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How can I fix my marriage by myself?

You can fix your marriage by yourself when you put the focus in fixing and working on yourself.

How do you rebuild your marriage?

You can rebuild your marriage by treating your spouse like you just met them; get to know the evolving person.

What are the signs of a failing marriage?

Toxic arguments and broken down communication gaps are probably the biggest signs of a failing marriage; especially when your spouse shuts down.

How do you fix your marriage without talking about it?

The arts and science of attraction is key to fixing your marriage; it requires minimum use of words and that’s not until you see signs of better vibes in your marriage.

How long do you try to fix your marriage?

There is no set rule outside for as long as you are attracted to your spouse; but also as long as they are still available.

Keep in mind that fixing your marriage if done right is almost synonymous to fixing yourself.

“My Wife DISRESPECTS Me” 9 Points Advice for you Especially in Separation… ❤️

In this lesson, I am sharing a 9-point marriage separation advice in order to give you the best chance to attract your spouse back in love with you.

At the bottom of this page, you will find the question that inspired this lesson.

Marriage Separation Advice - My wife disrespects me

(1) Give Yourself Space

It’s most likely that your spouse has asked you for space.

So if that’s the case, it’s very important that you don’t see it as a bad idea because frankly you probably need the space more.

You just can’t see that, because rejection breeds obsession.

Take advantage of the space apart to build a better “you”.

(2) Don’t Overrate Affairs

While your spouse may be distracted by an emotional or physical affair with another person, don’t highlight it.

The affair will never be worth what you have already shared with your spouse

But it is important that you showcase being unbothered by anything or anyone outside of the relationship you have with him or her.

The worst thing you can do is to spend your space apart bickering about affairs; it will only expand and you will push your spouse further away.

(3) It Takes One But…

Insisting that you stay together is not going to help save your marriage as much as attracting your spouse back.

It only takes one person to create attraction but that requires a process and insisting otherwise will interrupt that process of attraction.

Instead, let go as it only takes “you” to build attraction which is the single most important thing that is missing right now.

(4) Don’t Use/Abuse Children

The marriage separation period will come with a lot of temptations

And one of them is trying to inflict emotional abuse and blackmail on your spouse.

Another one is abusing your children as a tool to accomplish that goal.

It always backfires.

The most common one, believe it or not, is not as obvious as you may think.

It happens more in the form of manipulation under the pretense of protecting the child or children.

What you want to do is stay focused on what you want and don’t want

And leave the children out of it even if that’s painful for you emotionally.

Your emotional feelings are temporary.

The only exception to this, is physical abuse of the children; in that case, it would be non-negotiable to get the children removed from harm's way.

(5) After 3 Months, You are Free

It’s not advisable to engage in transgressions with other people during separation but we are all humans.

Technically, you are free to move on after 3 months of lack of sexual relationship when it is not medically related in my personal opinion.

But also in my personal opinion, the most profitable and worthwhile thing to work on in this period is self growth.

If you don’t, transgression and the lifestyle that comes with it can destroy everything you care about.

It can be even worse when it’s done in retaliation.

If you decide to move on, seek legal counsel to avoid exposing you and/or your children to unfavorable legal loopholes.

(6) More Actions/Less Talking

That should be pretty clear but be careful not to confuse certain inaction with emotional centered-ness.

For example, don’t abandon your children and/or your normal responsibilities in the name of less talking.

That would be irresponsible and such behavior will continue to lower your spouse's attraction towards you.

Just keep in mind that changed behavior is the best apology.

So for the most part, verbal apology will work against you because of the expectation for instant results.

Stay away from arguments, approval seeking behaviors and focus on building your self during this period.

(7) You Allow Disrespect

If there are any type of disrespect and/or disregard from your spouse during your separation, ask yourself first,

“How did I put myself in that position?”

“How did I allow that”?

You need to take the time to extract the answer to that question as it will help with clarity as you move into the new phase of your marriage.

The bottom-line and the result of this exercise should be that no one should be taking anyone for granted again.

When you take yourself for granted, your spouse will see it as a permission to take you for granted if they are weak like most people.

(8) Never Bribe for Sex

Don’t manipulate with whatever you do for your spouse, children and family at this time as a bribe for sex.

It will work against your desire.

Do it if you find it honorable to do and you don’t have to if you don’t feel like it.

The worst thing you can do is do it and then blame them for not reciprocating.

(9) Work on Yourself

That should be self explanatory.

Use the marriage separation period to build yourself and attract the love and affection that you deserve.

It’s simple but I agree…

It’s easier said than done.

Below is a question for us to address with this lesson…

“ I really enjoy your content on IG: @LOLAandOLA and I need to ask you a question.

In April 2017, my wife said she wanted space for 2 weeks because we were not in a good place and she was distracted by an affair at the time.

Initially, I objected and wanted us to get a fresh new start.

She did not return and recently found out she is in a full blown now having sexually intimate moments with her partner on the same bed as my 6 years old daughter who told me she’s uncomfortable.

As a christian, am I totally free without guilt to remarry even though we are not officially divorced.

I’m not going to crawl and beg her.

I did all I could to fight and save the marriage. But it’s clearly not working out.

She finds joy in disrespecting me and talking to me anyhow, rudely and distastefully.

Mind you, I am financially okay and earn 8-figures per annum.

I still give her monthly up-keep, 120K per month, for my daughters, excluding fees, clothing… until 2019 January when I stopped for many reasons.”

Enjoy the video.

Get My Marriage Back by Lola & OLAAre you STRUGGLING in your... MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP?

Are you having a difficult time getting your spouse or the person you love on the same page? Is your dream to build a happily ever after life heading down the drains?

I know... The harsh reality is that your marriage is over... IT'S BROKEN... "Can it be saved?"

...And maybe you still even live in the house with your spouse, barely any sex or intimacy and probably in denial. I get it.

You wonder... "Is that the inevitable supposed and purposed end for marriages?" You know you didn't bargain for such a painful experience.

In this FREE Book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK", you will discover the UNCOMMON secrets of...

HOW TO SAVE & FIX YOUR BROKEN MARRIAGE ALL BY YOURSELF EVEN WHEN THERE IS INFIDELITY OR YOU FEEL IT IS COMPLETELY OVER.



There’s nothing worse than being in a marriage you thought was ordained by God and feeling like you are in eternal bondage and it seems there will never be an end.

It feels very dark in your matrimonial home and you can’t even share your ordeal with anyone. You try so many moves to save your marriage but your spouse just doesn’t care anymore;

...you feel as though he/she is no more the person you married.

Finally, you thought may be you should communicate more but the very act of communication digs deeper and deeper holes of arguments, fights, emotional aches and more.

Exhausted, you share your experience with your family and now the whole family is in feud; your parents, siblings, on both sides of the family etc. They have all caught feelings.

You wonder if your kids will have a home with both parents 6 months from now... it feels like no one cares or ever cared. If you feel a connection to this reality at any level, I feel your pain. Lola and I know what that feels like.

Inside this book, you will discover our full story from being madly in love to a completely destroyed marriage; DIVORCE and back together stronger.

Whatever "destroyed marriage" means in your imagination, we've been through it and it was basically impossible to fix our marriage.

We didn't fix it.

Get My Marriage BackWe created a brand new, better and stronger marriage empire on 3 pillars that you will discover in...

"GET MY MARRIAGE BACK."

May be your situation is not bad at all, every marriage will go through crisis as a test to take you to greatness.

This book will prepare you for it when it comes.

If you feel like your home is heading in a very bad direction, you can't stop arguing, you can't speak your mind etc... you need all 3 sections of this book.

  1. Emergency
  2. New Foundation
  3. Real Love Techniques

Get My Marriage Back PDF

It's time for you to build that real love experience (that you bargained for when you got married to your spouse)

...from a very intentional and deliberate stand point. Marriage is not a partnership and it's takes more than common sense.

I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here. But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

The secrets Lola and I share with you in this book work both in the ancient and even better in the civilized age.

It doesn't matter if divorce has been filed and completed even years ago.

There is still hope for a happy and exotic love affair with the person you love again when you learn these secret techniques.

i checked out... Affairs, infidelity, 3rd party and extended family influences, vendetta, bitterness, resentments.... Eventually she said it all...

"I need space."

"I need time."

"I need to find myself."

"I don't love you anymore."

As you can imagine or probably experienced already, that's not a fun thing to here from your spouse or a person you love.

Because of the unusual bond and friendship we've always had, it was even more confusing for the both us to be in that space.

In her words....

"I was lost and cried on the wrong shoulders."

Once I was ready to put my home together, I engaged in 3 simple secret techniques that attracted her back on a journey in joint forces with me.

HOW?

Like I said, it was impossible for Lola and I to get back together... our marriage hit rock bottom. It was too late. The damage was irreversible and all that.

In the book, you will learn why that's the best thing that actually happened to us in the 9th year of our marriage.

By the 10th year of marriage, she filed for the divorce.

Just the 2 of us have taken the full the responsibility for how we got into that space. Other people were involved and it made things even worse but we intentionally and unintentionally invited them in...

Lola and I are 100% responsible for the invitation.

Guess who's responsible for our brand new and stronger marriage. Besides God, we both take full credit for that as well.

YES... It took 2 to tango using the techniques in this book. But I, Ola, started the dance first and it worked. You only need "YOU" to put this secret techniques to work immediately either as the husband or wife who wants to fight for the marriage.

It's a quick read but you will enjoy it because we opened up and shared tons of our stories with you. You will be able to relate to one or all of these stories .

Lola & OLAWe know the EXACT feeling of the pain, hurt and heart ache that you are going through.

We are the ultimate on-going success story.

I know you want your marriage back... But what use is a toxic marriage if you are not happy.

The real BIG DEAL about these secret techniques is that they lead with ensuring your happiness which is EXACTLY how you will attract your spouse back.

  • If the marriage is over, the 1st section of the book is basically the emergency room; you will discover how to stop the bleeding and create stability all by yourself INSTANTLY.
  • If you are arguing always, going to bed angry with resentments, you will discover EXACTLY why and how to eliminate that type of vibe forever.
  • If you are in love right now in a brand new marriage, you will discover the subtle and "seemingly non-harmful behaviors" that can destroy what you have; no one taught you these things.

Get My Marriage Back by LOLA & OLA... and much more to discover in this full 12 chapters.

No one who know us enough will ever believe that we ever attempted divorce; but it happened.

But we got our marriage back and you too can do the same... BRAND NEW.

Remember when both of you were in love...

You can get back to an even a better place because of the massive wisdom you will discover in this book combined with the pain you have now.

You can download the digital PDF copy absolutely FOR FREE right here. But I can't promise you that this offer will stay that way for life.
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What should you not do during separation?

The number ONE thing to not do during separation is to NOT focus on yourself and building yourself. When you focus on building yourself, you will attract the love and marriage you desire and deserve.

Is separation good for a marriage?

Yes because distance does makes the heart fonder. In other words, space creates attraction and it is encouraged if things have gotten very toxic.

How do you cope with a marriage separation?

It is important to focus on building your self worth and value in other to attract the love and marriage you desire and deserve. Write out your vision of your desired marriage and hold it close to you. Stay out of unnecessary contact with your spouse during this period.

How long should a marriage separation last?

It needs to last for as long as it takes for your spouse to stop taking you for granted or for as long as you need to find your self worth and value; whichever is longer, it is worth it.

Does a separation help a marriage?

"Distance makes the heart fonder." In other words, space creates attraction and it is encouraged if things have gotten very toxic in your marriage. So it is winning if you both could agree to a separation.

What is a marriage separation?

It is an agreement between a couple to spend some time apart in order to find happiness in the marriage again.

When is marital separation a good idea?

It is encouraged if things have gotten very toxic in your marriage.

SAVE my Marriage⁉️ ❤️ 3 MUST HAVE Tricks that WORKED when my WIFE STOPPED Loving Me

Want to discover how I used these 3 tricks (simple) to save my marriage after she had completely filed for divorce.

Did you know…

"PolitiFact estimated in 2012 that the lifelong probability of a marriage ending in divorce is 40%–50%."

So I applaud you that you've joined us and I plan to give you tips and tricks that I used.

By the way, that was 2012.

Divorce rate is getting worse because of many reasons which includes people catching new ideas in the name enlightenment.

Many more people are now of the opinion that they don't need marriage once they encounter some obstacles.

Can I save my marriage?

May be your spouse is one of them and the last thing she wants is to save the marriage.

We are social beings and the fact remains that we value relationships and marriage…. but we also all value commitment.

So marriages in general as a practice is not going anywhere.

The smart ones like you might as well figure it out, save the marriage if it's on the rock.

Did or does you husband or wife:

  • Disconnect?
  • Shut down?
  • Take you for granted?
  • Refuse to forgive you?
  • Emotionally and/or verbally abuse you?
  • Show no affections?
  • Engages in toxic argument?
  • Show narcissistic behaviors?
  • Ask for separation?
  • Already separated?
  • Asked for divorce?
  • Already divorced?

What ever it is, I got you.

This lesson may be all you need to fight for your marriage and to attract the one you love back;

We will cover these 3 tricks and why… it’s not personal, too much talking, it takes 2 or 1 of the tricks really.

As a bonus, I will dive deeper into the art of emotions and feelings with tips to get through the hard times.

Trust me; it's sweet on the other side of these troubled waters one you save the marriage.

Below is one of the questions that I get once I started sharing the story and how I used these trick to save my marriage…

“ I’m lost… I don’t know what to do.

My wife just declared that she doesn’t love me anymore.

My concern is that we don’t talk anymore.

We don’t even see eye to eye.

We are still staying at the same house, but she always wants to opt out.

She doesn’t want to stay.

She even dared me not to talk to her and she just wants to be gone for good.

But we have 2 children.

I want to save our marriage but she is really hard to handle.

Please help.”

Before I break down the question, here are the 3 simple tricks,

(keep in mind that simple is not same as easy.)

Trick #1 - Be emotionally unavailable to save your marriage

When you are dealing with a marriage on the rocks, it's also a sign that your spouse has probably already checked out on you.

So what I want to share with you will not be easy but it works.

There is a good chance that you overly emotionally invested evident by the fact that you want to save the marriage.

There is nothing wrong with that but you have to learn how to control and channel the emotions.

Which also means you have made yourself too available emotionally for other people which include your spouse to take you for granted.

Trick #2 - Identify and Occupy your Role

With the new millennial ideologies, you have to be careful about the gender roles allocation in your marriage.

I know that's probably a buzz trigger word-phrase for many people.

But the truth is the testosterone is real.

I am not a human biologist by any stretch but masculinity and femininity are real and they are also real factor in attraction.

Find out which of those roles you occupy in your particular relationship and learn how to play it well.

Trick #3 - Show up 100% to your 50%

The present status of your relationship is 50% your responsibility.

You need to show up 100% for your part without playing the tit for tat game with your spouse.

Many couple waste so much money on marriage counseling session because they go there to argue.

It usually starts with "but you did that too."

2 wrongs never makes a right.

So because I cared to save my marriage, I took my focus off the things she was clearly doing wrong.

Emotional matters is not about right and wrong.

Blame or guilt (self blame) will only make your marriage worsen because it drives negative feelings and makes it expand.

Law of attraction; what you focus on expands; be it negative or positive.

6 months after my marriage shut down, I figured this out and it saved my marriage.

She started acting completely strange and at the time,

I did not understand what could make a person flip from one simple and single argument.

Eventually, I accepted that I am okay with the marriage being over but from that very moment…

I Saved my Marriage.

But it wasn't that simple.

I had bad habits that reared its ugly head from time to time and it would take about 9 months or so to top relapses into argument etc.

You will experience the same but you are ahead of most people by just being aware.

I focused on doing my part from and emotional standpoint right; I couldn't afford to continue to show up 75% because "SHE MADE ME."

That became a bad excuse.

Removing yourself as a method is a simple demand and supply rule; basic economics.

"If there is a decrease in supply of goods and services while demand remains the same, prices tend to rise to a higher equilibrium price and a lower quantity of goods and services"

I save my Marriage with Demand & Supply

What's the price of access to your emotions and the good marriage you had at this point for your spouse?

If your spouse has ever being in love with you, you can completely reverse engineer the attraction back and make them want you.

With this analogy, we know that the demand from your spouse for a loving marriage with you is lower. (a.k.a lower attraction.)

The last thing you want to be doing right now is trying to force that demand to grow by demanding your spouse to save the marriage.

Attraction doesn't work like that; it's either one is attracted or not.

Basically, there are underlying emotions that lines up to made spouse fall in love in the first place.

It wasn't exactly a choice.

That's why they call it "charm."

The first thing you need to do immediately is to reduce "supply" of the goods.

If it was ever good, it's still good but it doesn't mean that the buyer (your spouse) still value the goods.

If you try to force-change demand for the marriage you once had with your wife, that would be interpreted as control and manipulation.

Effectively, you will continue to push your spouse further away.

Instead, the only thing you can do to increase the perceived value or price of your marriage is to reduce the supply of your emotions.

But this is a form of negotiation.

That's means you have to mean it… it's easier said than done.

"The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it. "

Corey Wayne

However that doesn't mean to threaten you spouse about walking away even they do same.

It's more of a behavior; a vibe and certain type of energy that you are okay with or without the marriage.

If you say it in words verbatim, it will destroy the purpose.

WARNING! You will experience a form of withdrawal because you are probably addicted to your spouse at this point.

It's little to no wonder why his or hers behavior reflects wanting to run from your marriage.

Pull back, it's time to do something different.


There is a way that a typical man behave in a relationship or marriage.

Also, there is a way that, not just the society, but your spouse expects you to show up with respect to roles, gender and/or gender identity.

These roles are not necessary stronger or weaker than the other.

But there must be a general leader.

Leadership roles can also vary from one aspect of the marriage to the other.

For example, you can have the wife lead when it comes to matters of finances while the husband leads in execution.

Still, there must be someone who leads.

With traditional heterosexual marriages, the man is usually the leader; high valued men are generally leaders.

A typical woman (not all) would not be able to maintain attraction with a man who is not a leader even if they started a marriage together.

Many woman find themselves in a marriage before realizing that the husband can't lead.

Usually, they don't really know what it is, they just find that they can't respect him.

If a woman can't respect you, she cannot love you & you cannot save your marriage.

The same thing happens when a high valued man find that they are already married to a woman who have a hard time being feminine.

It causes chaos that usually show symptoms such as low attraction, toxic arguments and divorce threats.

Most of the emotional troubles and abuse that marriages encounter are caused by low attraction at its core.

It's simple.

A person who is attracted to you is too busy trying to stay with you and not the other way around.

With that being said, there are unknown bad habits that society seems to make okay.

For example,newly married couples often find a little fun in a little argument; they call it "harmless argument."

The problem with that is the fact that all arguments add just a little more toxicity in your relationship.

You just never know how much toxic it is for your partner.

There are many school of thoughts that teaches "how to argue with your spouse."

This is very dangerous.

While you may not feel that arguments are bad for your relationship, keep in mind that you are not in relationship with yourself.

A man who understand a woman never argues with a woman.

Arguments are NOT synonymous to disagreements.

They can start as a debate or discussion or completely from a petty conversation.

But they tend to escalate into a very toxic conversation.

I find that many men are naive about the toxic effects of arguments on their marriage in the long run.

There is no one thing that kills a marriage; the things that kills marriage usually happen in series and sequence over time.

We are humans.

So I know that you will be lured into a little debate here and there.

But this awareness will help you to know when to stop; even if that means a little awkward dismissal energy.

Women don't like arguments from their man but they don't necessarily know to put it in words to stop.

Arguments makes a woman lose respect for a man, relationship and/or marriage to him over time.

The man is usually is usually talking about the subject topic in present time while the woman is always connecting the big picture.

She doesn't forget a thing.

That argument will become your problem long after the conversation is over.

This dynamic is a little different in ever marriage.

Therefore you need to study your particular relationship for the masculine to feminine dynamics.

You will hear it if you listen patiently without prejudice.


Now let's break down that question as it represents some of the emotions you may be going through in your marriage right now.

“ I’m lost… I don’t know what to do." ~ This Energy is Destroying Your Marriage

This is a terrible place for a man to be in emotionally and I have to be hard a little bit.

If you are the man in a marriage and you are supposed to be the leader and masculine figure of the marriage,

You cannot be the one who is not sure of yourself.

This is especially true in a situation where your marriage is already heading in a terminal direction of divorce.

Masculine energy is sure of itself.

If your wife shut down on you, it's means that she doesn't value marriage with you any longer.

To be fair, it's pretty normal for you to panic and want to fix her back to where she used to be.

But she is not the one that needs to be fixed; her attraction towards you needs to be fixed.

Not knowing what to do is an emotion that you need to rise above at this time in order to reverse attraction back into your marriage.

You don't need validation from her to do that.

What you need first is knowledge and lots of practice to snap of the bad habit of seeking validation from your wife.

It will initiate your best chances of attracting her back into loving...

the idea of saving your marriage.

It needs to feel like her idea in order for anything else to work.

Anything short of that is manipulation and it will back fire and push her further away.

It's natural for you to be frustrated during this tough time but that's exactly what you need to rise above.

If you are the wife and you are not sure of what to do, I understand especially if your man has shut down.

You need to figure what he values with you still being in his life and remove it.

I am not talking about his children because that will become manipulation and just wrong.

Remember that 2 wrongs don't make a right.

If he is still coming to you for sex that you also want, own the fact that you still want that.

But there is a good chance you don't want to be intimate with him when he is being nasty to you.

Don't be.

But don't just shut off intimacy in your marriage indefinitely...

Be deliberate and intentional by asking him to work together in saving your marriage.

Ask him to work with a counselor or a coach if he wants to continue to enjoy whatever he values with you.

The first step is to still give him the gift of missing whatever he still wants with you.

That may just be emotional availability for him.

"My wife just declared that she doesn’t love me anymore."

Most people panic when they hear this phrase as expected.

But you should know this.

If a person has to say that out in words, then you should isolate that feeling into the present.

You can completely reverse that by acknowledging it without emotional reaction.

Simply "I understand."

That alone will transfer a little anxiety back into your because he or she would wonder what you are thinking.

That automatically increases attraction level.

"My concern is that we don’t talk anymore."

If you are this much concerned, your conversation probably lead to back and forth arguments whenever you have a little chance.

You see...

There are some predictable behaviors that you are both probably propagating right now killing the chances of saving your marriage.

In general, predictability leads into lower attraction and complacent energy in a marriage.

It's time to switch things up.

Concern usually means fear and fear is 100% destructive when not managed.

This is especially true during a marriage crisis.

So if you are not talking right now, you should take it as an opportunity to work on your emotional self control.

You will need to get ready for an opportunity that will inevitably come to save your marriage once and for all.

An opportunity will present itself to talk.

At that point, you will do ONE of 2 things;

you will make ONE of 2 choices and only one will save your marriage.

(1) You will show same old predictable behavior and effectively decrease attraction levels.

It will confirm to your spouse that they are moving in the direction which is away from your marriage.

(2) Showcase a brand new person who is growing emotional control.

Effectively, it will temporarily confuse your spouse and make him or her wonder.

That's the equivalent of increasing attraction to save your marriage.

You simply have to get good at doing this over and over.

Before you know it, your spouse and marriage is being led in a different direction.

So in your particular relationship and marriage, you simply need to identify what these predictable behaviors are and switch.

For example, if your predictable behavior to allow your spouse to disrespect you with harsh words, tell him or her….

"I don't appreciate you talking to be in that tone."

Say it and leave it at that.

The only way to mess that up is to allow it to lead into an argument which means you need your spouse to validate that demand.

That's neediness.

Neediness is 100% of the time unattractive when a marriage is in crisis.

On the flip side, if you are a person, who had low tolerance whenever your spouse offends you,

Look out for the opportunity to switch that while working on your emotional self control.

When the opportunity present itself, your spouse will offend you as expected.

Instead of going crazy on him or her, allow an awkward silence and subsequently ask "what do you mean?"

The idea is to switch the vibe in your interaction and marriage on them and make them wonder.

When he or she wonders, curiosity and attraction grows effectively.

Keep in mind that it's a process to save your marriage.

Patience is required.

You cannot afford to get frustrated because your spouse is not reciprocating fast enough for you.

You will feel like it sometimes.

But then you have to remind yourself, "I want to save my marriage."

You have to exercise infinite patience and the only exception is physical abuse.

If you are the man and or the one who brings the masculine energy into the marriage, let her talk.

Let go of your need to talk and be right.

Trust me; you don't need it and a health masculine energy is not needy.

If you feel like you need to talk, explain yourself and need her to "see your point", that EXACTLY is what is pushing her away.

That's a feminine energy and won't know how to tell you; unless you want her to tell you "you are acting like a b%^TCH."

As a typical feminine woman, you need to learn and master what makes a man tick and want to protect you.

When there is a marriage crisis, men tend to turn on overdose of feminine energy.

He would start caring about a validation from you without realizing that it removes him from is essence.

Look out for him and tell him how sexy he looks when he lets you win the argument...

...switch it like this alone can save your marriage

Don't tell him how un-sexy arguments makes him look;

Especially if he is one of those types that will get butt hurt and all up in his feelings.

There is a good chance that you as a woman don't even care about the topic and you are enjoying the temporary high of it.

A typical man can't see as far as a woman emotions; men don't see BIG PICTURES during arguments.

He won't realize he is painting crazy pictures in your mind; he thinks he is in a political debate with a buddy.

This is a art more than it is a science; you can't force it just like you didn't force getting together earlier in your relationship.

"We are still staying at the same house, but she always wants to opt out. She doesn’t want to stay."

This is yet another sign that your conversation always lead to toxic energy;

...that's what she is running away from... But you can save the marriage.


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There are many books in the market on how to save your marriage but none of them matches up to our methods.

In fact, there is a book by Lee Baucom on how to do it 3 steps... here is some of the reviews....

"It is okay. Same as other books I have read. Good communication, mutual respect and admiration. Make time even when you don't feel like it. Marriage relationship must priority above all else, over career, children ect."

"I think the publication is a little short of complete, The concepts and advise seem sound and certainly it will influence my thinking and actions i the future. I was left with the sense that there was a lot of pushing the authors "system" and that one wouldn't really derive the full value until one actually embark on the "system". Still a worthwhile read and something i'll probably recommend."

Over all, people are saying it okay because its same 'ol "love yourselves, respect yourselves, communication communication communication....

Same 'ol.

Get Marriage Back is our story with actionable things you can do without being manipulative... from psychological and emotional stand point.

Your spouse knows the right thing to do but he or she doesn't feel like it....

That's emotions.

Let's continue... Save Your Marriage


"She even dared me not to talk to her and she just wants to be gone for good. But we have 2 children."

At this stage, she is still helping you because of the blessing that children truly are.

"I want to save our marriage but she is really hard to handle."

She is not the one that you need to fix or handled.

If there is any human that can be fixed, it's the self adult in the marriage.

To build attraction back into your marriage, you cannot afford to shape your mouth to say you want handle another adult like a child.

Evidently, it doesn't work.

What worked and can still work is the fact that your spouse was once attracted to you that a whole marriage happened.

Along the way, both of you have probably gotten complacent and taken each other for granted.

This is normal behavior.

It's also normal for 40% - 50% of marriages to end up in divorce just like that.

Therefore its a courageous thing for you to lead the path to save your marriage.

If you can pull it off, it will be a brand new marriage that is 1000% better than whatever you had because you would be both experienced.

Good marriages comes from work and not from compatibility that many claim lack thereof is their issue at the divorce court.

It takes two to tango but it takes one to lead the dance.

You should be proud of yourself.

It comes down to attraction.

(1) Remove the overdose of your emotional energy.

Arguments and emotionally charged conversations kill relationships and marriages.

(2) Find and Own your Role; neither is less than the other.

If you are a typical man, showing up with feminine energy will make your lady lose respect for you.

Likewise, if you are a typical woman, competing with your man to lead will create overdose of masculine energy.

If he is like most men, it will make him feel emasculated and effectively, you will whatever is it that you fear;

...A man who will make you feel unsafe in the marriage.

(3) Don't compete in the blame game, guilt and shaming each other.

It may feel like you are right and winning in the moment but the end result is exactly the vibes you are trying to avoid in your marriage.

BONUS - Master emotional self control.

Enjoy the video...

How can God save my marriage?

It depends on what you mean by God.

The only source of the requirement to save your marriage which is unconditional love is God.... specifically a higher version of your mortal self.

This is especially true if you need infidelity and trust recovery... You will need God but it works.

How can I save my marriage?

Yes you can save your marriage with this 3 steps.

(1) Gain emotional self control.
(2) Focus on giving with the exception of physical abuse.
(3) Avoid emotionally charged conversations.

But there is more and context is important to understand these 3 tricks

How can I save my marriage after separation?

You will increase your chances of saving your marriage by being generous to yourself with time and space to build emotional self control.

This will allow you to be prepared to showcase your better self when an inevitable opportunity present itself to interact with you spouse.

Do I even want to save my marriage?

Yes you do because marriage is awesome if you ca figure it out especially after a crisis that I guess you are experiencing.

How can I save my marriage alone?

Although it takes two to tango, all that is required to start the dance of your marriage in a new direction is self mastery and emotional self control.

How can I save my marriage from divorce?

You can stop the bleeding immediately by simply removing all emotionally charged interaction.

This will b easier said than done but it's possible with knowledge and consistent practice.

How can we save our marriage?

If you are both emotionally available to check all egos and pride, you can embark on a brand new journey of bliss.

Keep in mind that it will have to be a completely brand new marriage for it to work.

Can & should I save my marriage after infidelity?

You can save marriage after infidelity only on one condition.

The infidelity must stop first and then you can work on infidelity and trust recovery.

This will require a healthy does of unconditional love which you can only source from God... specifically a divine and higher version of your mortal self.

Get My Marriage Back by Lola & OLAAre you STRUGGLING in your... MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP?

Are you having a difficult time getting your spouse or the person you love on the same page? Is your dream to build a happily ever after life heading down the drains?

I know... The harsh reality is that your marriage is over... IT'S BROKEN... "Can it be saved?"

...And maybe you still even live in the house with your spouse, barely any sex or intimacy and probably in denial. I get it.

You wonder... "Is that the inevitable supposed and purposed end for marriages?" You know you didn't bargain for such a painful experience.

In this FREE Book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK", you will discover the UNCOMMON secrets of...

HOW TO SAVE & FIX YOUR BROKEN MARRIAGE ALL BY YOURSELF EVEN WHEN THERE IS INFIDELITY OR YOU FEEL IT IS COMPLETELY OVER.



There’s nothing worse than being in a marriage you thought was ordained by God and feeling like you are in eternal bondage and it seems there will never be an end.

It feels very dark in your matrimonial home and you can’t even share your ordeal with anyone. You try so many moves to save your marriage but your spouse just doesn’t care anymore;

...you feel as though he/she is no more the person you married.

Finally, you thought may be you should communicate more but the very act of communication digs deeper and deeper holes of arguments, fights, emotional aches and more.

Exhausted, you share your experience with your family and now the whole family is in feud; your parents, siblings, on both sides of the family etc. They have all caught feelings.

You wonder if your kids will have a home with both parents 6 months from now... it feels like no one cares or ever cared. If you feel a connection to this reality at any level, I feel your pain. Lola and I know what that feels like.

Inside this book, you will discover our full story from being madly in love to a completely destroyed marriage; DIVORCE and back together stronger.

Whatever "destroyed marriage" means in your imagination, we've been through it and it was basically impossible to fix our marriage.

We didn't fix it.

Get My Marriage BackWe created a brand new, better and stronger marriage empire on 3 pillars that you will discover in...

"GET MY MARRIAGE BACK."

May be your situation is not bad at all, every marriage will go through crisis as a test to take you to greatness.

This book will prepare you for it when it comes.

If you feel like your home is heading in a very bad direction, you can't stop arguing, you can't speak your mind etc... you need all 3 sections of this book.

  1. Emergency
  2. New Foundation
  3. Real Love Techniques

Get My Marriage Back PDF

It's time for you to build that real love experience (that you bargained for when you got married to your spouse)

...from a very intentional and deliberate stand point. Marriage is not a partnership and it's takes more than common sense.

I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here. But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

The secrets Lola and I share with you in this book work both in the ancient and even better in the civilized age.

It doesn't matter if divorce has been filed and completed even years ago.

There is still hope for a happy and exotic love affair with the person you love again when you learn these secret techniques.

i checked out... Affairs, infidelity, 3rd party and extended family influences, vendetta, bitterness, resentments.... Eventually she said it all...

"I need space."

"I need time."

"I need to find myself."

"I don't love you anymore."

As you can imagine or probably experienced already, that's not a fun thing to here from your spouse or a person you love.

Because of the unusual bond and friendship we've always had, it was even more confusing for the both us to be in that space.

In her words....

"I was lost and cried on the wrong shoulders."

Once I was ready to put my home together, I engaged in 3 simple secret techniques that attracted her back on a journey in joint forces with me.

HOW?

Like I said, it was impossible for Lola and I to get back together... our marriage hit rock bottom. It was too late. The damage was irreversible and all that.

In the book, you will learn why that's the best thing that actually happened to us in the 9th year of our marriage.

By the 10th year of marriage, she filed for the divorce.

Just the 2 of us have taken the full the responsibility for how we got into that space. Other people were involved and it made things even worse but we intentionally and unintentionally invited them in...

Lola and I are 100% responsible for the invitation.

Guess who's responsible for our brand new and stronger marriage. Besides God, we both take full credit for that as well.

YES... It took 2 to tango using the techniques in this book. But I, Ola, started the dance first and it worked. You only need "YOU" to put this secret techniques to work immediately either as the husband or wife who wants to fight for the marriage.

It's a quick read but you will enjoy it because we opened up and shared tons of our stories with you. You will be able to relate to one or all of these stories .

Lola & OLAWe know the EXACT feeling of the pain, hurt and heart ache that you are going through.

We are the ultimate on-going success story.

I know you want your marriage back... But what use is a toxic marriage if you are not happy.

The real BIG DEAL about these secret techniques is that they lead with ensuring your happiness which is EXACTLY how you will attract your spouse back.

  • If the marriage is over, the 1st section of the book is basically the emergency room; you will discover how to stop the bleeding and create stability all by yourself INSTANTLY.
  • If you are arguing always, going to bed angry with resentments, you will discover EXACTLY why and how to eliminate that type of vibe forever.
  • If you are in love right now in a brand new marriage, you will discover the subtle and "seemingly non-harmful behaviors" that can destroy what you have; no one taught you these things.

Get My Marriage Back by LOLA & OLA... and much more to discover in this full 12 chapters.

No one who know us enough will ever believe that we ever attempted divorce; but it happened.

But we got our marriage back and you too can do the same... BRAND NEW.

Remember when both of you were in love...

You can get back to an even a better place because of the massive wisdom you will discover in this book combined with the pain you have now.

You can download the digital PDF copy absolutely FOR FREE right here. But I can't promise you that this offer will stay that way for life.
Get My Marriage Back PDF