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Ladies, few things in life feel worse than the nagging suspicion that your husband is cheating on you………other than to find out that’s actually the case.
There are a ton of little telltale signs that you may be able to spot that will start your womanly radar ticking.
Some of your man’s actions may end up being innocent enough, but at other times, where there’s smoke, there could be infidelity fire.
Cheating can be in the mind only, purely emotional, or physical, or a combination of all three.
Just like every marriage is different, so too is every case of cheating.
We won’t quote statistics, but studies show that a lot of men (and women for that matter) do contemplate cheating in some way at some point. It’s one way to explain why the nation’s divorce rate currently hovers at around 50 percent.
So, no matter what your degree of suspicion is when it comes to your husband and what’s in his mind, there are a number of things to keep an eye out for.
Don’t take them as gospel by themselves that cheating is going on, but if you see a lot of what follows in your marriage, it may be time for the “we need to talk” intervention.
Frustration in the marriage is one common trigger; the cheater may make several attempts to solve problems to no avail.
Maybe they had second thoughts about getting married or they were jealous over the attention given to a new baby and neither had the skill set to communicate these feelings.
Perhaps the straying spouse has childhood baggage — neglect, abuse, or a parent who cheated — that interferes with his or her ability to maintain a committed relationship.
Less often, the cheater doesn’t value monogamy, lacks empathy, or simply doesn’t care about the consequences.
We will take a look at a number of risk factors and causes for cheating, but it’s important to point out upfront that a partner doesn’t cause their spouse to cheat. Whether it was a cry for help, an exit strategy, or a means to get revenge after being cheated on themselves, the cheater alone is responsible for cheating.
1. He’s suddenly very interested in his appearance.
If your husband was previously indifferent to his appearance and is now spending more time than usual on his hair and clothes, it could be a sign that he’s trying to impress someone else.
He may also be working out more, or paying more attention to his grooming habits in general.
2. He’s working longer hours or taking more business trips.
If your husband’s work schedule has suddenly changed and he’s spending more time at the office or going on more business trips, it could be a sign that he’s cheating.
He may be using work as an excuse to meet someone else or to spend time away from home.
3. He’s become more distant and withdrawn.
If your husband is suddenly acting distant and withdrawn, it could be a sign that he’s cheating.
He may be less interested in talking to you or spending time with you. He may also seem preoccupied and distracted when you are together.
he’s cheating. He may be buying gifts for someone else, or he may be paying for activities that he wouldn’t normally spend money on.
4. He’s being secretive and evasive.
If your husband is being secretive and evasive, it could be a sign that he’s cheating.
He may be hiding his phone or computer from you, or deleting texts and emails without reading them.
He may also be reluctant to share information about his whereabouts or who he’s been spending time with.
5. He’s got a new group of friends.
If your husband has suddenly started hanging out with a new group of friends, it could be a sign that he’s cheating.
He may be spending more time with them than with you, or he may be secretive about who they are and what they do together.
6. He’s acting differently around you.
If your husband is acting differently around you, it could be a sign that he’s cheating.
He may be more critical of you, or he may be more distant and withdrawn.
He may also seem more interested in sex, or he may be less interested in sex.
7. He’s spending more money than usual.
If your husband is spending more money than usual, it could be a sign that he’s cheating.
He may be buying gifts for someone else, or he may be paying for activities that he wouldn’t normally spend money on.
8. What are those charges on the credit card?
If you monitor your monthly credit card statements and you start to see things pop up that you don’t recognize, they may be harmless, or they could be signs of monkey business that’s afoot.
If you can’t match up the expense with the story, that’s a problem. Also, if he’s now paying in cash for things that used to be charged, that’s a money monkey business concern as well.
9. He wants you to stop doing nice things for him.
Sometimes known as the Catholic guilt syndrome. If you’re being kind and considerate, as relationships should be, it could be revving up the conflict in him if he’s thinking about cheating or already doing so.
10. Cheat on me once, shame on you. Cheat on me twice, shame on me.
A spouse who has cheated in the past and gotten caught is more likely to think they can get away by doing a better job of cheating the second time around. If your spouse has a history of cheating, and you suspect cheating is happening again, it may be time to make that spouse a part of your history instead.
Why Do Husbands Cheat?
There are a lot of reasons that husbands cheat on their wives. Sometimes it has to do with the husband’s own insecurities or feeling like he isn’t good enough for his wife.
Sometimes cheating is a way to get revenge after an argument or disagreement. And sometimes, husbands cheat simply because they’re curious or they want to experience something new.
You are about to discover the 5 physical signs your wife is cheating.
Cheating and/infidelity is a terrible experience for a marriage and relationship.
It kills marriages, and more importantly…
Trust.
It’s a betrayal and it goes very deep beyond just the moment it happens, the relationship, just one person’s life.
It’s something that causes deep-rooted damages to a person and getting through it can be very difficult.
So if you’ve experienced any kind of cheating, caught your wife cheating or you feeling like your wife is cheating, you may want to engage a professional to make sure that you go through the proper healing process necessary.
If you don’t, you will spread the damages into other aspects of your life, such as your legacy, your children, and everyone that you ever get into any kind of relationship with.
With that being said, Let’s get into 5 Physical Signs Your Wife Is Cheating:
1st physical sign that your wife is cheating – She is always too tired to have sex.
This sign by itself is not sufficient enough a proof that she is cheating but this could be a sign that she is cheating.
Because remember that energy is neither created nor destroyed.
But if we are finding ourselves in a situation where you feel the need to use the word “always” to emphasize the fact that…
She doesn’t “always” want to have sex.
Always doesn’t want to be intimate with you.
That is something that you should pay attention to.
And that doesn’t mean you should go ahead and start attacking and accusing her of infidelity. It simply means you should pay attention.
Just keep in mind that your feelings may be inaccurate or completely far from reality.
It could just be your personal insecurity problems and that’s precisely why, you still need to unpack it and figure out what is going on with your relationship.
So if she comes up as always too tired to have sex, that is something you should pay attention to.
If once in a while, she is just tired after a long working day, that obviously doesn’t mean she is cheating.
It just means she is tired and that’s very normal in a lot of cases.
Even yourself… even if you are the most sex-maniac in the world, sometimes you’re just not in the mood.
2nd physical sign that your wife is cheating – Strange and/or Expensive gifts.
Either she brought to the house or it was shipped to the house…
If it is a common occurrence enough for you to notice, you should be concerned enough to ask questions.
As always, this doesn’t always mean that she is cheating.
If…
You can’t really explain where these gifts are coming from.
She has never taken the time to tell you specifically where these gifts are coming from.
And if they feel strange to you.
That’s something you should pay attention to…I would.
Why?
Because you should know what’s going on anyway. And if you are not paying attention to your family and especially your wife as a man, what else are you not doing?
That means you’ve been oblivious and anything can happen under your nose to the extent that you wife can start building attraction towards another man.
So, you should be paying attention anyway.
As always, this is not a moment for you to start attacking and accusing her.
There is often a fine and blurry line between insecurity and simply being responsible enough to pay attention. All this means is to pay attention.
You should ask questions.
“Where is this gift from?”
If she is consistently getting strange and expensive gifts, then I would look for at least 3 or 4 other signs on this list.
3rd physical sign that your wife may be cheating – She hides to take a phone call.
So you’ve noticed in recent times that your wife doesn’t like taking phone calls in front of you.
She would excuse herself or sometimes never even excuse herself.
She wanders away into other rooms and she tends to be very quiet while she is taking these calls.
This could be a sign that she is cheating. Clearly, she is not wanting you to hear what she is having conversations about.
Now if your birthday is approaching, she may be taking calls related to plans of a surprise birthday party for you.
But again if you have 3 or 4 of the other signs on this list in your situation, chances are it’s not about your birthday party.
It means you should pay attention, right?
Now, what is cheating?
In this case, cheating means she is doing something she wouldn’t want to do in front of you as mabe related to an inappropriate relationship with another person in a romantic way outside of your relationship or marriage.
So again, if she’s taking phone calls and…
She’s having to go into other rooms and not wanting you to hear what those phone calls are about, and she never comes back to say…
“Hey, that was Jill on the other line. I was talking to her about work stuff from earlier today.”
If she is not doing that then that is something you should pay attention to and ask questions.
“Who was that? Oh okay, you don’t want me to know?”
And make sure you keep the conversation light-headed if you are asking that question so you don’t shut her off.
Because again if you are too serious, you’re gonna take away the spark from your relationship and marriage in general.
You’re revealing yourself way too much and that’s more likely going to backfire and work completely against your purpose…
It’s going to come off as insecurity and that’s not attractive.
4th physical sign that your wife is cheating – She’s too paranoid to leave her phone.
So, if you’ve noticed that she’s always taking her phone everywhere she goes and that she is never, in recent times left the phone on the bed
….just hanging out there on the table.
She just seems like she hugs up on the phone and she holds on to it everywhere and every room she goes in the house, that could be a sign that she is hiding something.
That could also be a sign of cheating.
Now, we don’t know what she is hiding. So as I’ve said always in this lesson, we don’t know what she is hiding but again…
If you’ve noticed 3 or 4 other signs present in your relationship in recent times and you’re in fact feeling insecure about your relationship with your wife, then this is something that you should pay attention to.
“Why would I pay attention to it?”
Because again a lot of time as men, we get complacent. We don’t pay attention. We take things for granted.
And then you know, we may be losing our woman just like that without it necessarily being a matter of her being out to hurt you.
It’s just how life happens.
Again remember that energy is neither created nor destroyed.
So if you’re not giving to her and she finds herself in a situation where other people are giving to her; filling her love tank in an emotional way, you may end up losing your woman.
I would pay attention to this and find ways to attract her back to me.
Just in case you can relate to this, this is not a moment to accuse and attack her, this is your moment to figure out what is going on like…
“Yeah, there is something missing. Let me attract my woman back”.
Why would I do that? Why would I need to give to her?
Because I know enough that whatever I give to women, she multiplies which means she will reciprocate in multiple folds.
So, with that being said, if she’s too paranoid to leave her phone around, that could be a sign that she’s cheating.
Keep in mind that it’s just a sign that you need to step up your game.
Could your wife just be a psychopath cheater?
Yes it could be but for the most part, that’s not the case.
We’re mostly human beings who are just trying to live and we need emotional validation a lot of times in the journey of life.
That goes for both men and women.
And in a marriage, things can get stale very fast. We could get complacent.
5th physical sign that your wife is cheating – She’s expressed it verbally.
She may have said things to you, such as, she’s no longer in love
…or she is asking for space.
If she said things like that to you, you should take them seriously but that doesn’t necessarily mean to react to them.
Remember.
Energy is neither created nor destroyed and if that’s the case, where is she pouring her affection?
It could be into another man
But it could also be because she’s feeling a void in her personal life or with respect to her career.
The point is that there could be so many other things outside of cheating but it could also be because she’s cheating on you.
And she may not be courageous enough to come to you and tell you…
“I’m cheating”
…and sometimes the way she would express that is in words… such as:
“I’m no longer in love with you.”
“I love you but I am not in love with you anymore.”
Or she may outrightly ask you for… “I need some space”.
If you find yourself in this kind of situation, I know it can be a terrible feeling
You should be aware that she may be cheating but ultimately you don’t want to look at it like that.
You want to look at it as your woman not feeling confident to be open enough to express herself to you.
Instead, think like this….
Maybe she has felt a void in her career or in her romantic life and she just doesn’t feel adequate. She doesn’t like what she’s become even in your marriage.
Now, does that mean you should blame yourself? Absolutely not!
Does that mean you should feel guilty? No!
It just means that if you care about this woman and your marriage and most importantly relationship with her, you probably should step up your game.
You should learn some skill set that will help you seduce and attract her back into your arms.
And it’s absolutely possible.
So those are the 5 physical signs that your wife may be cheating on you to look out for
Cheating in this context means she’s doing things with other people in a romantic way that she wouldn’t want you to find out about.
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What are signs your wife is cheating?
There are many signs that your wife is cheating but these signs; distraction, unexcited, and three other signs is being discussed in details.
How can you tell if your wife is seeing someone else?
If you are paying attention, your wife will show 3 of these 5 signs if she is seeing some someone else.
What are the signs of a guilty wife?
The signs of a guilty wife are behaviors that do not align with the connection that attracted her to her husband in the first place.
What to do if you suspect your wife is cheating?
If you suspect that you wife is cheating, your first step is to ensure that your insecurities are assessed before the next step which is to identifies the values that attract you to each other.
Partners can fall in and out of love during the lifetime of their love affair;
It’s just the reality of life.
There is a big difference between loving a person and being in love with the same person.
Loving a person is a choice born out of a commitment
…while being in-love is a feeling that’s born out of feeling safe and secure enough to be vulnerable.
In essence, your wife can love you and still fall in and out of love with you momentarily throughout the course of your love affair or marriage.
However, the 2 phenomenons, loving and in-love, are often used interchangeably and almost synonymously; there is overlap.
The context of this lesson and the 15 signs that your wife doesn’t love you are more within the context of the in-love experience.
1, She is Distracted Easily Especially with the Phone
Remember those moments when you used to have long conversations for no reasons.
Now, all you’ve got is half or less of that attention because she’s distracted by all the environmental factors around.
She is distracted enough for you to notice
…and the number one factor is basically her phone or smart devices competing with you for attention.
Find out how you have been rewarding the behavior and all you have to do is stop rewarding it.
It could be something as simple as sitting there waiting for her until she notices while you whine and bitch about it.
Remove yourself and find something fun and faithful to do for yourself until she notices it. It’s a form of giving to her. You are giving space for her to miss you.
2, She is UnExcited to See/Hang Out With You
In the beginning, she couldn’t wait to ride out in the city with you but somethings have changed;
That’s boring now.
That doesn’t mean she has fallen out of love with you yet; it means she’s lost interest in that activity.
But I lied.
Falling out of love is a process just as much as falling in love is after you’ve lost the initial passion.
Losing the initial passion is in fact inevitable simply because we are humans and we value the feeling of newness and its accompanying excitement.
As I have just said, it’s really the feeling and not necessarily newness all in itself.
When you understand that, it makes it significantly easy to attract your wife to fall back in love with you.
If your wife no longer appreciates being around you, you are probably rewarding that behavior with making her feel that the opportunity to hangout is readily available.
Your time together is predictable and boring; switch things up in a positive way to create attraction.
When a woman gets into this space, being in love with you is the last thing on her mind.
In fact, there is a good chance she is associating the idea of loving you with a part of herself she has just discovered and doesn’t like.
4, She Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings
There is a lot more to this particular sign being a sign.
Honestly, I would want to know why you’ve got so much time to detect this sign.
But that’s probably a topic for another day.
If she’s coming off as your feelings don’t matter, she is not in love with you at this moment.
You can mitigate against this by leaning in towards her and attempting to listen to her feelings as your personal control mechanism for your relationship with and love for her.
… more like an influence mechanism.
If you do that long enough, she will center back to the girl who used to care about your feelings
…but it requires generosity of patience on your part as a seed.
5, No More Expressions of any Type from Her
One of the last behaviors you ever want from your wife is for her to stop expressing herself.
The level at which a woman expresses herself varies greatly depending on her personality, temperament and other factors.
If she ever gets into a space where she doesn’t feel safe to express her feelings at all, that’s almost equivalent to falling completely out of love with you.
Feeling safe and secure with you is almost equivalent to a woman being in love with you.. She has to be able to express herself freely.
6, She Seems UnHappy Quite Often
You know your wife more than I do.
She may not be able to come out and tell you straight to your face that she’s unhappy.
Neither should you wait for her to do so because it might be too late.
If she is not as excited about life and your relationship anymore, she is very likely falling out of love just as much.
But that’s not necessarily your fault.
In fact, that’s not your job and you have probably been rewarding her for coming off as unhappy.
All you have to do is date her and create another… just another opportunity for sex to happen (again.)
That’s a classic sign, not just of falling out of love with you, but also that she has lost hope that she can ever revive love for you again.
Once a woman rolls eye at every glance of a conversation about your relationship, it means you have a massive up-hill battle in order to attract her back into loving you again.
You still need to communicate but this time around, you need to learn and practice effective communication.
It will involve lots of patience because she is obviously shut down.
8, She Disregards Your Opinion & Advice
When you were dating this lady, your words were the gospel. She trusted every advice you gave her.
In fact, she thought there would never be a guy as smart as you were.
But recently, some events have made her, not only say she doesn’t care for your opinions, but showcase exactly that in her actions.
She dismisses them right in your face without thinking about it at all and it hurts because you can tell that she doesn’t love you anymore.
9, She is Reluctant about Sex & Intimacy
It would be easy to tell you that she is no longer in love with you if she had completely shut down access to sex.
But that’s usually not the case.
The way it works is that your wife is probably engaged in an internal battle between the commitments she made and how she feels.
That means sometimes (not all the time) she would give excuses to avoid sex, intimacy and affection with you.
She may not even realize that she is doing this.
10, She Comes off as a Roommate
Your worst nightmare right?
If she was in love with you, she would be all over you leaking you from head to toe.
But she has been spending a lot of time in alternative rooms of your house instead of with you.
So in actuality, it can be worse than being a roommate. Don’t focus too much energy on this because it’s a symptom.
You need a root cause analysis and the focus on fixing the cause. She is not a roommate; she is only acting like one.
11, Every Expression Feels Like Nagging
You can feel it and you know it
…and recognize the negative vibes in that in the past few weeks whenever she is expressing her emotions to you.
It almost feels like she’s always blaming you for everything but you can’t put your hands on what the issue is.
She has fallen out of love.
12, She’s Highly Sarcastic & Condescending
“So you won’t take the garbage out tonight again right?”
The tone of that question reveals it as a direct attack against your character; maybe that’s a stretch but…
Compare that to…
“Babe, do you mind getting that garbage out tonight?”
Which of these 2 scenarios showcases a woman who is in love with you?
13, Indifferent and/or Not Jealous
If your woman is still jealous, she is still somewhat in love with you at least. But you don’t want her to be numb to your behaviors.
“I don’t care.”
Yes she does but it’s a cry out for you to see that she does care; you have not been paying attention.
What you really don’t want is her getting into a head space where she doesn’t care and also doesn’t care enough to share that she doesn’t care.
If that happens, she’s lost respect and effectively, love for you… at least now.
14, She Glows More When Around Strangers
Not only does she seem unhappy; she shows you by glowing extra ordinarily when around complete strangers… not necessarily intentionally.
If that happens one time… no big deal but when it happens consistently, she has fallen out of love but there is hope.
She finishes speaking to a friend on the phone right in front of you, hung up and didn’t say a word about who it was.
Naturally, we share…
“That was Amy; she says hello.”
If she stops sharing, she’s essentially saying you can go to hell.
Conclusion
It is very important to keep in mind that it works against your desires to take these 15 signs too seriously and make them a bigger deal than they actually are.
Whatever is going on is temporary and these are symptoms.
And all you have to do is focus on finding out the underlying causing reasons and adjusting accordingly to attract your wife back.
If you pay the symptoms more attention than necessary, you will more likely push your wife further away and potentially in the arms of another man.
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Frequently Asked Questions [F.A.Q]
How do you know if your wife doesn't love you anymore?
The 1st way to know that your wife doesn’t love anymore is the fact that you are unsure about where she stands but I have 15 more signs you should know.
What are the signs that your wife doesn't love you anymore?
The 1st sign of 15 more signs that your wife doesn’t love anymore is your uncertainty about where she stands when it come to your marriage.
By the very fact that you are seeking this information, I would assume that you already have your suspicions about your wife cheating.
I am sorry that you are going through that.
It’s gotta be a painful place to find yourself and your marriage.
A part of me wants to suggest that you trust your instinct but another part wants me to warn you of the blurry or fine line between unhealthy insecurity and your suspicions.
Once you embark on these types of feelings about your wife’s level of faithfulness, it’s very hard to go back.
In essence, the mind is very delicate and it’s hard to resist the urge to find more information to confirm your suspicion once your inclination is already in that space.
WARNING! These 35 exhausted signs are not equivalent to absolute truth.
If you treat it as such, you can potentially destroy your relationship with a good woman in the case where she had been innocent.
I would encourage you to find clarity between your suspicion and insecurities as you explore the possibilities that your wife is cheating on you.
But they can also overlap or both can be true at the same time.
These 35 signs below are just that; signs.
There are many times that any individual sign or even combination does not necessarily mean that your wife is cheating.
So be cautious with what you do with this information.
The pain associated with betrayal from a wife, partner or spouse is terrible and can seem unbearable.
But I assure you that whatever it is will make you stronger if and only if you don’t take her responsibilities with yours.
You are just as responsible because we are talking about a relationship but keep in mind that a choice is made for every time a person cheats.
If you play the blame game, it will result in feelings of guilt trip and your feelings just get hurt and worse.
That just happens to be the most popular and considered to be the most hurtful by most people.
It means that your wife is involved in activities she wouldn’t want you to know about because, precisely, it will hurt your feelings if you find out.
If any one of the signs below becomes one of 18 other signs on the list, it would be possible indication that your wife is up to some bad behaviors.
However, any one sign as a stand alone can also have 1,000 other reasons outside of cheating or infidelity.
These are some signs that “may” indicate that your wife is cheating on you.
1, She Changed Her Passwords
There are, of course, many other reasons why your wife may have changed her passwords or passcodes for social media and smart devices.
If she is also involved in extra marital affairs, she would also want to cover her tracks on the various communication channels.
This is especially true if she had never password protected in the past or if she had always shared the information.
With that being said, privacy and a sense of individuality can be very healthy for your relationship with your wife as it can improve a sense of freedom.
2, She accuses you of cheating.
As humans, we tend to project our belief systems on others.
If your wife has never caught you in a cheating act of any type
But somehow concludes at accusing you of cheating, there is a good chance that she is projecting her guilt on you as blame.
Guilt, blame and condemnation tend to work hand in hand and that’s usually against the idea of a healthy relationship.
If she’s engaged in cheating behavior, it’s only natural that she would believe other people are just like that.
It’s a self-justification mechanism.
3, She removed your family name from her social media profiles.
If your wife changed her name to your family name when you got married and has recently changed her last name or surname on social media,
That’s a red flag.
If you have been experiencing problems in your relationship with her in recent times, then this will probably not mean anything more than you already know.
But if it happened out of nowhere, the act in itself is already a form of rebellion and can be an indication that she is receiving unhealthy external attention.
4, She suddenly started going straight to the shower when she came home.
Even if your wife is only engaged in emotional affairs, she can feel dirty mentally.
So you can imagine if she’s getting physical with another man.
This could mean anything or a one-of occasion and it definitely doesn’t mean much if she’s always done this.
But it can mean a whole lot, including cheating if it’s complete new behavior along with 17 other other signs.
5, She was diagnosed with STD
A sexually transmitted disease (STD) can also be transferred between very faithful couple
…but it can also be a sign of cheating if it correlates with 17 or more other signs.
6, She claims you are not making her happy
It is not your responsibility to make your wife happy; all you can do is love her.
But if you are married to a person who doesn’t know that, one of the first signs she may show if she is or about to cheat is…
…actually say it out that you no longer make her happy.
If she doesn’t know that making her happy is not your responsibility, she is weak and at least capable of cheating.
7, She doesn’t post pictures of you on social media anymore.
The keyword there is “anymore.”
If she has never posted you online in the past, bringing this up will attract negative and toxic energy into your relationship.
But if this is recent behavior, this is more of a sign that your wife is not proud of the relationship she has with you but can also represent a sign of your worst fears.
8, She avoids some restaurants
If you are taking your wife out and in recent times, you noticed that she is suddenly avoiding certain favorite restaurant,
That’s bad news… man.
She may have been hanging out at the same restaurant with a new boyfriend…
Maybe?
Maybe she’s just discovered that she is allergic to these particular restaurants’ food.
9, She wants to try new sex moves
What kind of a faithful wife suddenly starts a desire for explicit sex stunts in the bedroom?
She is likely to have tried it with a possible new fling and wants to see if you are capable of making her stop wanting to see him.
This is another sign you probably should pay close attention to.
She couldn’t just be wanting to spice things up between the two of you right?
If she called you another man’s name while giving it to her enough to be screaming, wouldn’t that mean she was thinking about the other guy at that moment?
But she could also just be actively trying to use role play or her movie crush to spice things up for you all in the bedroom.
Who knows?
11, She stays late at work
Your wife may be staying extra late at work for many reasons including the reason she claims.
But what are the chances that she has been taking advantage of this excuse to cheat on you with a coworker?
It’s probably wise to ask her how her days go and use that opportunity to listen to sneaky hidden details.
12, She suddenly wants girls trip
There is nothing wrong with a girls trip for your wife but everything can go wrong at those girls trips right?
What types of friends want to remove a wife from her home for 3-5 days in a row?
Be careful here because restricting her may work against the goals you are trying to achieve.
13, Unusual expenses
If, in recent times, you’ve noticed unusual expenses on your wife’s personal bank account, ask yourself…
What were you looking for on her personal bank account?
If these expenses have been made at a motel around the corner from her job, it is exactly what you think it is.
Is it?
At least, you will end up reacting accordingly.
14, On toilet for longer periods with the phone
You’ve noticed that she has been hanging out a lot in the bathroom claiming to be pooping.
Maybe you can set up cameras in that bit*h and find out what she’s up to.
Or she could just be playing games on her phone…
There are only 2.5 ways to find out.
15, She doesn’t say “I Love You” Anymore
This right here depends on if she used to and then suddenly has stopped.
Could it be that she is falling out of love with you? If that’s the case, she must surely be falling for the person she’s cheating with right?
Negative.
16, She consistently lies
Obviously a liar will steal; that’s what we learned as kids growing up in Africa.
Never mind white lies and the fact that most human beings do it every now and then.
Your wife is not most people, she is cheating on you if she lies consistently.
She is practicing for when she will need to lie to you about her secret boyfriend… that’s not making sense right?
17, Too many friends you’ve never met
What is she hiding her friends for?
She must be using these people who you don’t know to hide her bad cheating behaviors.
Or you get very jealous about the fact that she has a private life outside of you and that makes you get very defensive.
I am sure you have concluded that it must be the former.
18, She hugs up on doing the laundry
The clothes must be smelling of disgusting cheating activities in the dirty laundry.
She probably doesn’t want you to detect it.
19, She treats you like a friend
You just found out that you have been friend-zoned in your own home by your own wife.
Energy is neither created nor destroyed; so where has she been channeling that energy?
To a secret boyfriend?
…or women can shut down if they don’t feel safe and secure?
What do you think?
20, Hangs out longer in front of the mirror
I am sure you are wondering who she is trying to look good to impress when she has in fact walked around the house stank all these years.
21, She asks weird questions about cheating
That must mean she is either already cheating on you or at least considering it.
What are weird questions?
Are they designed to reverse psychology the guilt back on you?
It couldn’t possibly be that she is simply not happy about the relationship.
The only reason in this world why she could be angry is that she is or wants to cheat on you.
23, She opened a different bank account
But why?
Why can’t you just have one joint account as a married couple?
It must be because she’s a cheater and she wants to make secret spendings.
Or everyone still needs a level of individuality?
24, She cheated before
“Once a cheater, always a cheater.”
Ever heard that before?
If considered that people do grow from bad behavior, it creates a different angle for this conversation entirely… right?
25, She avoids your friends
It could be that your friends have already caught her in the midst of bad behavior and she’s avoiding them.
She could also outrightly not like your friends and can’t stand being around them.
26, Drastic change in Sexual Desires
If she suddenly gets turned off from being intimate with you, she must be channeling that to a secret boyfriend.
On the flip side, if she suddenly wants to start having sex like rabbits, she must be learning from somewhere… a secret boyfriend?
27, She removed her relationship status from social media
Of course, she did.
She wouldn’t want her secret fling to get jealous of the type of love you are showing her at home.
28, She attempts to spend important holidays without you
She is in love with a secret boyfriend so she’d rather spend valentine’s with the person she is in love with.
Don’t forget that she still loves you at least; she is just not in love with you any longer.
29, She gains sudden desire to go to the gym
Why must she look good and fit suddenly after all this time that she hasn’t cared to look good for you?
She must be up to no good.
She could also be finding and discovering her better self by investing in some fitness effort.
30, Replies your text messages in one-word
A woman who is in love with you tends to want to share everything with you even when they are not the talker in the relationship.
So if she just responds with one-word answers, you may find yourself wondering what she is up to with the rest of the time.
A secret boyfriend? Maybe?
31, She references friends you’ve never met
The real question is why won’t she just bring or invite them around for you to meet?
As a married person, do you really need to keep a separate life outside your marriage or spouse?
32, Her phone is always silent
If her phone rang out loud every time she receives those evil texts, how would she keep it a secret?
That can ruin the excitement she gets from her secret affairs.
So it makes sense that she would silence the phone so that you won’t randomly pick up and find out the obvious.
33, She claims to be too busy to talk on the phone when she is at work
This is similar to the one-word text replies.
What happened to the good ol’ days when she couldn’t wait to talk to you on the phone?
Clearly all that energy could be going somewhere inappropriate.
34, She asked you for space
What does a married woman need space for?
Married women are supposed to be virtuous women of God and never get tired or too lazy to carry the emotional weight of a marriage.
After-all, she is a supper woman.
35, She takes every opportunity to not be around you
She hates you now; she is cheating.
Conclusion
Syke… lol
If you are in a state of reviewing this and actually find it as prophetic as opposed to the sarcastic piece that it is, you deserve a wife who is cheating on you.
There is a good chance that you have enabled her bad behaviors if in fact, she is cheating…
She may not be cheating at all; but she obviously is not in love with you.
You should focus on learning these terrible insecurity you have just displayed here
…and build yourself because you are about to push your wife away forever with your fear.
In life, you attract what you fear the most.
On the flip side, if you have paid attention to none or just a few of these 35 (many times just normal) behaviors, congratulations as you have a better chance of working on and getting your marriage back.
Don’t worry about blank suspicions and signs that are obviously not backed by facts. Focus on attracting her back in love with you.
A woman who is in love does not leave, and damn sure has no room for affection physically or emotionally with another person.
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Frequently Asked Question [FAQ]
How do you know when your wife cheated on you?
There are 35 signs we have identified but there is no single one that can be a good indicator. You will need at least 18 of the warning signs here to call a red flag.
What to do if you suspect your wife is cheating?
If you suspect that your wife is cheating, you need to seek counseling and find out why you would attract a cheater as a wife before doing anything else.
How do you tell if wife is lying about cheating?
It sounds like you have not caught her red-handed which means there is a good chance that you are showcasing insecurity. If you are so sure, refocus back on finding out why you would be attracting a cheater as a wife.
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