QUESTION ⁉️ “I am the one who cheated on wife and I regret doing so. I love her and my children very much. We still live in the same home but separate room.
I want to win her back. I know she doesn’t trust me but I do not want to lose my wife.
I am willing to do whatever I have to do to win her back. I will never ever do anything like this again so what is the best way that I can make this work?
It’s only been a couple of weeks. She doesn’t want to talk to me. She doesn’t want to see me since It’s kind of frustrating since we are still living under the same room?”
This lesson is probably not for you if you have never experienced infidelity in a marriage. Just like many things in life, don’t bother listening to or creating opinions on the matter.
If you have experienced infidelity in a marriage (you cheated or she cheated on vice versa) and in fact want to fix it, first of all don’t put too much energy in trying to figure out whose fault it was.
Right and/or wrong are not relevant factors and/or useful information tool to help you fix your marriage.
What matters is that your marriage, the relationship itself, was broke and in a bad place evident by what you just experienced. That’s the first step to overcoming your trauma.
Once you realize that, watch this video multiple times and extract every word from it for your best chance to fix it. It doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage.