In this lesson, we are going to talk about Kevin Samuel’s high value man rhetoric, why it is dangerous and the only 10 goods we can take from him.
This is not a video where we are going to bash Kevin Samuels blindly because we want to be feminists or just for clout.
This lesson is more-so for people who may blindly apply his “high value man” rhetoric wrongly in an actual romantic relationship or marriage.
You will also discover the 7 core values of the almighty High Quality Man and why you want to be him (gentleman) or want to be with him (ladies).
Late 2020, we stumbled into a video of Kevin Samuels going in heavily on a young lady who called into his YouTube show.
Apparently, she was a business owner who felt she deserved a 6 figure high value man.
She felt the need to call into this man’s show to explain herself on how she has a lot to offer and she got what she got from Kevin.
Here is where we agree with Kevin. If you have a lot to offer, time… and not your mouth will tell and that’s the reality.
In efforts to convince her to appreciate and consider the average earning man, Kevin got into a debate with this lady as he does quite often.
As she was trying to ask Kevin another question… starting with how she looks to herself, Kevin interrupted as he does often to ask her how she rates herself on a scale of 1-10.
The rule: she could not use 7 so she answered 5 when she wakes up and 6 when she uses makeup…. Height 5’5’’ and a size 3.
We were like…. Whoaaaaa… Ladies…
His response was that higher earning men tend not to get with average looking women. I don’t know what world he lives in but that’s absolutely inaccurate.
The surprise-matches happen all the time in all age groups across the board. To be fair, he did exclude people who got together when they were young.
But I also feel that a low self-esteem lady calling into a show to seek Kevin’s often petty opinions and to argue with him at the same time deserve whatever they get. We need Kevin.
Anyways, he ended up telling the lady “You’re Average At Best.” And again to be fair, he did say, “please don’t make me say it” before he said it.
Here is the real question that we want young men in particular to pay attention to.
“Did he actually lose his patience or was that pure acting?”
We also want to introduce you to the high quality man.
You have to admit that a high quality man sounds more like what you want and that… he has more substance. Wouldn’t you want to know him or be him?
I know you are probably one of the few wondering who Kevin Samuels is; I don’t want to assume that you are one of his 800,000+ YouTube subscribers and growing very fast.
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube relationship statistics expert who suddenly stumbled into massive fame online between the fall of 2020 and 2021.
He has very controversial and provocative opinions from addressing the modern woman specifically.
One thing we can tell you with all confidence right now after watching his videos is that he has been misunderstood.
Allow me to explain.
No disrespect to the OG!
I was on a social media app and there were modern women perpetuating a definition of a high value man they claimed they got from Kevin.
Most of them never took the time to watch his videos and try to understand where he is coming from. We have.
And we agree but his rhetoric is dangerous to all those modern men in his comments…
If you haven’t noticed, the modern man seems to be more emotional than ever. The modern man also thinks it’s time to keep scores with the modern woman because she asks for 50-50.
The modern man has forgotten that he also wants to lead a woman who respects, trusts and submits to his leadership.
Confusion everywhere. Thanks Kevin.
After watching 2 of his videos on “What is High Value Man?”…
These modern women like most people on social media had misrepresented his ideas of a high value man.
These are the reasons why they get into these useless arguments about the fantasy of a world without men with other confused modern men who feel like Kevin is their voice right now.
Under the 1st video that we watched which is “What Is A High Value Man? High Value Men Defined”, he had this 6 characteristics of a high value man:
- He makes $10,000 or more per month
- He has demonstrated performance over a minimum of 5 years time
- He has group acceptance by other high value men
- He belongs to a network of other high value men
- He has visibility in the society
- He has utility which means he is useful to others in the society.
Under the 2nd video which is “FACTS About Being High Value Man”, he broke F.A.C.T as an acronym down to some attributes of a high value man:
- Failure – He is a product of a series of failures.
- Action – He takes action.
- Change – He embraces change as a constant in life.
- Time – He understands the value of time in everything.
I am paraphrasing by the way… but those are Kevin’s idea of a high value man.
As you can see, anyone in their right mind would appreciate these points on face value because they just make sense.
But the modern women that I encountered on social media talking about this were stuck on just:
- The money,
- Net worth and Finances,
- If he still lives with his mother (regardless of the circumstances) and
- The man’s big penis.
The High Focus On Superficial Things Like Money, And Beauty Are Gross And Shallow At Best.
It’s precisely why these arguments will never end and why many struggle with relationships and marriages.
While some are internalizing Kevin’s rhetoric and using them to check men such as searching literally for “high value men” on dating apps and saying things like…
“If all you have is potential or live with mom temporarily, you are not yet a high value man.”
Some continue to declare their stance against falling in love with potential in a man even though Kevin’s definition of a high value man is a function of failures and time.
If there is such a thing as a high value man, he becomes a high value man long before it reflects in a bank account and to his credit, Kevin reflects that in “facts about high value man.”
- Failure and
But I have to give him the credit for also being responsible in pushing those rhetoric in his application when addressing the modern women who call into his shows…
Kevin tells them that long term romantic relationships with high value men is a function of beauty. This is false at all levels.
There are too many beautiful girls who will be single against their will and they can’t all have nasty attitudes as he claims.
I personally think it’s the epidemic of modern men who lack game.
High Value Man vs High Quality Man
Here is a quick comparison between the dictionary meaning of the word ‘value’ and ‘quality’…
Value – “To consider or rate highly : prize, esteem values your opinion.
2a : to estimate or assign the monetary worth of : appraise value a necklace.
b : to rate or scale in usefulness, importance, or general worth : evaluate. Value.”
Quality – “The standard of something as measured against other things of a similar kind; the degree of excellence of something. A distinctive attribute or characteristic possessed by someone or something.”
Think of the fundamental difference between the 2 words as cookie cutter and tailor made or trending and timeless.
Also, we are not telling you which of these types of men you want to be or want to attract. You actually get to choose still.
But we can tell you that only high quality men are able to lead in a romantic relationship…
And everyone else including your typical high value man like Kevin Samuels will exhaust their right to be right and crash their romantic relationship in that process.
And it will still hurt (if not butt-hurt like Kevin) because as it is for the rest of us, love and connection are basic human needs.
As it is that the modern woman doesn’t get to control their submission, trust and respect for a high quality man as a default, we all don’t get to turn off our basic need for love and connection.
In the next video (part 2), we have to dive in through the 7 core values that all high quality men understand but Kevin’s “high value man” can easily miss.
We will talk about Kevin’s idea of a high value man which is probably and partly why he couldn’t keep his 2 marriages even though we agree with all his 10 characteristics of a high value man.
Finances and beauty are just never enough.
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