Question: “Is PHYSICAL A Worse Offense Than EMOTIONAL INFIDELITY?”
So John Gray got caught basically, and there is a video of him coming out talking to a side chick about his wife…
that the wife only gives pizza to the babies for dinner.
I don’t understand why men put their wives down.
Who cares if your wife is feeding you pizza in the house?
If you don’t like it you get in the kitchen or if you had a problem with that, why didn’t you talk to me?
Maybe I am not the easiest to talk to, but then maybe you can get yourself in the kitchen or come up with ideas…
Like getting a chef that would cook for us on a daily basis.
On one of John Gray’s Videos he said:
“This was not physical or sexual. I’ve only ever been with one woman, that is my wife.”
What do we have to say about that?
Saying that he is not physical but he is emotional, what difference does he make?
You are talking to another woman and being emotional is just like you already slept with a person…
because everywhere that your wife has been with you, they get to experience that.
You have bared your heart to this person.
Is Physical a worse offense than emotional infidelity?
If you have an emotional affair and that’s all you did and then you got caught, dude you missed out.
You might as well sleep with the person because you are going to receive equal amounts of scrutiny.
It’s just as bad.
You are going to hurt that person just as much, if not more because now you are going to be telling her that “I’ve never slept with this person”.
Now they are gonna look at you like a liar because they will never believe you.
They will punish you that much more because they are thinking in their head “no you already slept with this person”.
I mean honestly how would they know?
They weren’t there with you.
So if you were already sharing intimate conversations with your side chick and trying to bring her to the same hotel where you and your wife would go…
You might as well just have slept with the lady so you could just say “you know you are right. I slept” so you could get away quickly…
And maybe she will accept your apology a lot faster.
You are in the worst place when you truthfully haven’t slept with that person.
It’s the truth but she is not gonna believe you and your punishment will be twice.
So if you are going to apologize at all, the last thing you want to bring up is “it wasn’t physical”.
Dude, it doesn’t matter if it was physical or not… and pastor John Gray should know better.
Bottom line is that you are exchanging these intimate moments that are only designed for you and your wife… you broke that trust.
It’s the trust that you broke, that is the issue and not what really happened physically.
She doesn’t care if you slept with that person or not.
In fact, you putting that in the midst of your apology is making things worse.
So, Is Physical a worse offense than emotional infidelity?
If that’s the question, it’s backwards… emotional is worse because you are going to get punished that much.
Even in terms of wasting all that energy on emotion, you might as well just go all in.
Once you start lusting after that, you have already sinned.
John Gray needs to get it together when it comes to that and I understand the pressure of being a pastor and also being human…
But that’s the part where you couldn’t stop walking.
The pressure has to be a lot more because he is a pastor.
And then he was saying that his wife does not feed them anything else but pizzas…
Come on, why are you saying these things about your wife?
Why are you painting your wife bad?
Is it to get empathy from your side chick or something?
I don’t understand.
This is common in some men, I won’t say all men because not all men do that…
some men, they will trash their wife just so they can get sympathy pussy.
If you have to trash one woman to get another woman, you don’t have a gain and you are a sorry case.
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That’s something that even young men who are not necessarily married should know.
Like if you broke up with somebody, always be good to them because they came into your life for a reason, you chose them.
So when you start speaking bad of them, you are speaking of yourself.
Like I said, it’s a lack of gain when you do that.
But some people are in a weak place, when they are engaged in an emotional affair.
Like a lot of people until they bring a baby into this world, they actually always had no intention of doing it.
If the devil approaches us with intentions, all of us will be perfect if we just make sure we have good intentions right.
Good intentions are overrated for a reason because the devil knows like “you don’t have that intention, but you are lacking emotionally somewhere”…
so he is going to bring someone who is going to fill that gap.
Then when that person fills that gap, you are still gonna be in denial like, “no I would never do that”
… and just wait and wait and wait until you are comfortable enough and admit that it really did happen.