Question: “How Do I Ask My Husband For FORGIVENESS?”
The same thing goes for this question though it’s a little bit different…
because clearly the person asking this question is admitting that they were wrong.
That’s why they are thinking of forgiveness.
It’s different from an apology.
Apology is like “I guess that’s what I need to do”.
Forgiveness is like “You know I F**ked up. How do I ask for forgiveness?”.
So, how can somebody ask for forgiveness from their husband?
… or is it easy for you to ask for forgiveness?
Well, for our natural self, it is hard to ask for forgiveness but asking for forgiveness will give us peace of mind.
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First of all, you have to admit that you are wrong.
So maybe the real question is, “Is it easy for you to admit you are wrong?”…
Even that question is bastardized because if you are wrong, you know you are wrong.
If you are asking for forgiveness, you are already saying “I’m wrong.”
So asking for forgiveness when you already know you are wrong should be easy… but clearly it’s not easy because…
It depends on what you did and with the person you are with.
Some people are not forgiving.
You could ask for forgiveness and they would say “Okay I heard you…” but then they are not ready to forgive you just yet.
They are hurt and they can drag you for years for that.
So, how do you ask forgiveness to your husband?
The same thing with apology goes with asking for forgiveness.
It’s changed behavior and let the person relax and let them process what just happened.
Don’t shove it down to their face.
You have to have a lot of patience if you are asking for forgiveness.
Lots of patience and generosity with time because the more time there is, the more they will be open to receiving what you have to say.
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And the good thing with that is, now you have time to back it over with your behavior.
Especially if your behavior has actually reflected that.
Though we don’t support you asking for forgiveness over and over again.
You have to do it one time.
Maybe once or twice and it’s done.
The rest has to be your changed behavior.
That’s what really matters.
But some people are just asking for forgiveness like “I’m sorry. I’m sorry.” every small thing they’d say I’m sorry.
You are making things worse and you are being annoying.
You need to know when you are being annoying.
So you have to give them time to process things.
Some people may have a hard time to forgive because it’s very hard for an average human being to forgive.
Once you hurt a person, it’s a trust issue.
It will be hard for him to open up again because you’ve built a wall in the future.
So for them to open up again you need time.
If you had a good time with this person in the past or anything like that, they will remember.
They will start reflecting if you stay out of their face.
But if you keep pushing to fix everything now… that will work against you.
Asking over and over again… let’s put into logic a little bit, if you do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result, that’s called insanity.
The same thing, like don’t think your apology is all suddenly going to fix things.
Forgiveness will require a lot of follow ups… even cheating, because even the follow ups are not apologizing.
It’s really following up with your changed behavior.
Using your words is manipulative because you are trying to use the word to fix that person or to get them to forgive you right now.
And if it was that easy we can just pull forgiveness out of everyone.
So it takes time because we are spiritual.
There is a soul that has been tampered with and those kinds of things have to be healed.
It had to be repaired.