Marriage Problems? ❤️ These are 99 Issues Destroying Marriages

In this lesson, you will discover 99 marriage problems that causing this horrible statistic as seen below.

42-45% percent of first marriages end in divorce. 60% of second marriages end in divorce. 73% of third marriages end in divorce.

According to McKinley Irvin: Washington Divorce & Family Law Attorneys

These list may have a little redundancy and repetitive problems but we have to spell them all out as they are interpreted differently by different people.

Some of them are causes while others are effects but the list is not in any particular order.

According to another study, 85 percent of those who divorce remarry within five years.

This is an indication that remarrying is never the problem because it’s that easy to do.

For the most part, people carry their marriage problems into another relationship entirely.

You can get a full comprehensive solution if you are trying to save your marriage from our book, click here to get a free PDF copy and paperback and audio are available on Amazon.

These are the 99 Marriage Problems… each will be broken down below the list…

99 marriage problems
  1. Saying I do without knowing what is being done.
  2. Fear of being alone
  3. Fear of the unknown
  4. Low self esteem
  5. Anxiety
  6. Depression
  7. Sexless
  8. No PDA
  9. Selfishness
  10. No friendship
  11. Social Media
  12. Disconnected
  13. Lack of trust
  14. Confusing feelings with facts
  15. Discounting feelings
  16. Not feeling safe
  17. Not feeling acceptance
  18. Not feeling respected
  19. Prioritizing others over your spouse
  20. Prioritizing the children over your spouse
  21. Prioritizing extended family over your spouse
  22. Confusing family with extended family
  23. Needy behavior
  24. Lack of Sense of Self First
  25. Confusing truth with facts
  26. Confusing causes with effects
  27. Serial infidelity
  28. Attachments
  29. Reactions
  30. Expectation Overdose
  31. Routine overdose
  32. Lack of boundaries
  33. Boundaries overdose
  34. Not being intentional
  35. Honesty overdose
  36. Confusing in-love with true love
  37. Discounting fantasies
  38. Sourcing happiness externally
  39. Lack of personal purpose
  40. Discounting Psychology
  41. Discounting Emotional Affairs
  42. Confusing communication with a need to talk
  43. Confusing “let go” time with “fight” time
  44. The myth of the One
  45. The myth of soul mate
  46. Unresolved conflict
  47. The myth of closure
  48. Resentment
  49. Anger
  50. The myth of incompatibility
  51. Blame and Guilt
  52. Attack and Defense
  53. Argument
  54. The myth of “how to argue”
  55. Invisible Exaggeration
  56. Sarcasm
  57. Name calling
  58. The myth of “give and take”
  59. The myth of “it takes two”
  60. Emotional Shut-Out
  61. Dishonesty
  62. Pride and Unhealthy Ego
  63. Discounting the goodness of pain
  64. Confusing masculinity, femininity and gender role
  65. Apology overdose
  66. Not feeling hard
  67. inability to hear emotions
  68. Feeling unappreciated and unacknowledged
  69. Lack of Patience
  70. Can’t enjoy quality time together
  71. Feeling controlled
  72. Feeling manipulated
  73. Feeling blackmailed
  74. Spouse unwilling to work on your marriage
  75. Inability to Forgive
  76. Feeling like roommates
  77. Feeling bored
  78. Don’t discuss future together
  79. Walking on Egg Shells
  80. Libido Issues
  81. Inconsiderate Behaviors
  82. Not in with the times
  83. Lack of self awareness
  84. Low EQ
  85. Feeling unfulfilled
  86. Low tolerance
  87. Unhealthy competition/Tit 4 Tat
  88. Lack of gratitude
  89. Obsession with the past and future
  90. Not hanging out and having fun
  91. Lack of space
  92. Midlife crisis
  93. Outgrowing each other
  94. Age gap
  95. Hidden Principalities
  96. Childhood Trauma
  97. Finance Related Disagreement
  98. Illness
  99. Confusing Individual Change & Growth

QUESTION – “What should I as a friend say to my friend going through marriage problem? How do I actually help the situation without plugging my feeling?”

Marriage, friends family. Many people are concerned when they see friends go through marriage problems and issues.

Many people have an idea of what they think marriage should be like from the outside of marriage. They come off as judgemental and not very helpful.

What should you as a friend say to a friend going through it? How do you actually help the situation without plugging your own feeling?

Enjoy this edition of “Get My Marriage Back,” videos…

So let’s get into it.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Marriage Problems…

What are the signs of a failing marriage?

There are 99 signs or marriage problems that we’ve identifies but keep in mind that it depends on you particular relationship.

Ultimately, bad vibes and energy is good enough to pay attention to you marriage because you never know what’s in you spouse’ mind.

They are their own individual in their own rights.

What is the problem of marriage?

If there is abusive behavior in your marriage, it’s time to learn new skills to attract the marriage that you want.

Keep in mind that all good marriages took work to achieve.

How do you deal with marriage problems?

There are 3 simple steps (The G.P.S) that you can use to deal marriage problems but its application depends on the uniqueness in your marriage.

How do you know when your marriage is really over?

Your marriage is only over if one or 2 people decides that it is over.

If one person doesn’t agree, it is a sign of lack of sense of self and it is no wonder why the other wants out.

Keep in mind that the marriage being over does not mean you cannot build a brand new marriage with the same person using the GPS formula.

7 ULTIMATE Guide to SAVE & FIX a Broken Marriage

In this guide, you will discover how to save your marriage, how to fix a broken marriage and how to keep divorce far away forever.

1st Key (How to Save my Marriage) is God …. Not what you think…

I promised that if you stick to the end of this guide, it’s gonna make sense.

This is not some gimmicky thing that you see in most religions setting where we say it’s just “God.”

But trust that when we say number 1 is God, there is a practical reason behind it.

When you’re going through hard and tough times,

  • Losing yourself
  • Losing your spouse,
how to save my marriage

Who do you fall back on?

  • It’s not gonna be family.
  • It’s not gonna be friends.

Nobody’s gonna be there for you, even though they’re gonna try and be there for you.

They are going to think that they are there for you in their own way.

But they will be selfish.

It’s only God has that will become your source of unconditional love.

The alternative is to start telling the world that love is not enough.

So that was the only thing we could depend on for the much needed unconditional love.

This is why God comes first.

When your spouse checks out of you, you will feel like you have a broken marriage.

Click Here | How to my your marriage when one wants out…

If you are asking “how to save my marriage?” …your marriage is clearly not 100% of what you thought God ordained it to be.

The only thing that can fix it is unconditional love, a higher version of yourself or God.

Real love.

Not the “in-love” experience.

That’s different from real love.

You had the “in-love” experience with your spouse when you just met.

But you didn’t even know yourselves; the butterflies and all those things….

Both of you didn’t know yourselves.

So naturally, you had the “in-love” experience.

But you got to a point and got tested.

The only thing that can withstand that test is unconditional love.

The only source of unconditional love is God.

In fact, God is love.

So making God, the higher version of yourself than the physical, the center core, the spinal cord and foundation of your marriage is key.

When things go really bad, it’s the number one place you want to run to.

Essentially, you need to make sure that your spiritually health is very strong.

You got tested and you are being tested and more tests will come.

You’re probably going to a very horrible situation already.

If you have a strong spiritual connection, you’ll be able to attach the right meanings to whatever you’re going through.

We all go through stuff in life, don’t we?

What separates the losers from the winners are the meanings they attach to the things they go through.

That’s what’s gonna determine how you’re gonna come out on the other side because there’s another side.

Either you do it right or wrong, there is another side.

But what the other side looks like is gonna be dependent on your spiritual connection with your God so you can create what we call unconditional love.

Your spouse checked out on you.

That’s why you’re going to what you’re going through.

Maybe you’re the one that say you don’t want any parts of the marriage any more.

They still checked out on you.

That’s why you say you don’t want any more, right?

But even if it’s the other way around, it is the same thing.

Basically, it’s a 50-50 contribution to come to that place where you are.

The only thing that can help you at this point in time is to give them what they want.

If you feel like your spouse is hurting you, how could you possibly love someone that’s hurting you?

You’re not in love, naturally. But you can have unconditional love for them.

You can take the time to see what may seem like wickedness as a weakness, right?

You can let God do all the work because…

A lot of time, you’re probably in the way of God trying to help you fix that.

Have you read the book “Get My Marriage Back”?

The 2nd of the 7 keys guide to save my marriage… can be found at this post….

Frequently asked Question on How to Save a Failing Marriage…

How can I save my marriage by myself?

In reality, all you need to save your marriage is yourself. It can’t hurt if you have the support of your spouse but you may be in the best position if your spouse has shut down. Read Get My Marriage Back 10-15 times.

How do you know if your marriage is worth saving?

It’s as simple as if you want to save the marriage. You deserve whatever you want because it means you are that much willing to put in the work that will save the marriage in yourself.

How do you save my marriage when she doesn’t want to?

You make her. I am just kidding. All you need to have the best chance to save your marriage is yourself. It can’t hurt if you have the support of your wife but you may actually be in the best position if your spouse has shut down. Read Get My Marriage Back 10-15 times.

Does separation work to save a marriage?

It depends on the situation. Separation is a double edge sword for saving your marriage. Distance can make the heart fonder but it depends on if the hearts have a strong enough bond or not.

What are signs your marriage is over?

When you ask this question, it’s a classic sign that your marriage is probably over but it doesn’t mean you can’t build a newer and better marriage with the same person.

What are the signs of a failing marriage?

Asking this question is a classic sign that your marriage may be over but it doesn’t mean you can’t build a newer and better marriage with the same person. There are other signs of disconnection however.

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I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here.

But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

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