📌 Author's Note from Lola & Ola: If you are reading this right now, we know the heartbreak of watching the desire, intimacy, and warmth fade out of your relationship. We survived our own marriage completely dying at the 9-year mark and rebuilt a 20+ year roadmap from it. Before you dive into the details below, grab our complete book Get My Marriage Back for FREE right now so you have an immediate, step-by-step action plan to turn things around.
QUESTION ⁉️ “I told my hubby to start working on himself and to start moving in a positive direction. Next day, he moved out.
My husband is just a jerk. It’s usually just towards me. He is a great hard working man. We farm beef cattle and both work jobs in town.
We have been married almost 12 years. Since I was 20 and he, 24. We have a nice grounded life. We go to sports events and Church and are normal people.
We just don’t generally get along. I have almost accepted this as just how it’s going to be.”
📌 Author's Note from Lola & Ola: If you are reading this right now, we know the heartbreak of watching the desire, intimacy, and warmth fade out of your relationship. We survived our own marriage completely dying at the 9-year mark and rebuilt a 20+ year roadmap from it. Before you dive into the details below, grab our complete book Get My Marriage Back for FREE right now so you have an immediate, step-by-step action plan to turn things around.
📌 Author's Note from Lola & Ola: If you are reading this right now, we know the heartbreak of watching the desire, intimacy, and warmth fade out of your relationship. We survived our own marriage completely dying at the 9-year mark and rebuilt a 20+ year roadmap from it. Before you dive into the details below, grab our complete book Get My Marriage Back for FREE right now so you have an immediate, step-by-step action plan to turn things around.
📌 Author's Note from Lola & Ola: If you are reading this right now, we know the heartbreak of watching the desire, intimacy, and warmth fade out of your relationship. We survived our own marriage completely dying at the 9-year mark and rebuilt a 20+ year roadmap from it. Before you dive into the details below, grab our complete book Get My Marriage Back for FREE right now so you have an immediate, step-by-step action plan to turn things around.
QUESTION ⁉️ “I caught my wife twice being unfaithful.
I asked her how come she is like this. She said because I don’t give her attention.
So I said, when I don’t give you the attention you need, I should worry about you flirting with other men behind my back?
Now she feels insulted because I don’t trust her.”
Saving your marriage after infidelity and lies is absolutely possible; not easy but simple. It takes a high level of personal emotional intelligence and strength.
The fact that it is not easy is what makes it extremely rewarding as you will discover in this video.
📌 Author's Note from Lola & Ola: If you are reading this right now, we know the heartbreak of watching the desire, intimacy, and warmth fade out of your relationship. We survived our own marriage completely dying at the 9-year mark and rebuilt a 20+ year roadmap from it. Before you dive into the details below, grab our complete book Get My Marriage Back for FREE right now so you have an immediate, step-by-step action plan to turn things around.
QUESTION ⁉️ “I am the one who cheated on wife and I regret doing so. I love her and my children very much. We still live in the same home but separate room.
I want to win her back. I know she doesn’t trust me but I do not want to lose my wife.
I am willing to do whatever I have to do to win her back. I will never ever do anything like this again so what is the best way that I can make this work?
It’s only been a couple of weeks. She doesn’t want to talk to me. She doesn’t want to see me since It’s kind of frustrating since we are still living under the same room?”
This lesson is probably not for you if you have never experienced infidelity in a marriage. Just like many things in life, don’t bother listening to or creating opinions on the matter.
If you have experienced infidelity in a marriage (you cheated or she cheated on vice versa) and in fact want to fix it, first of all don’t put too much energy in trying to figure out whose fault it was.
Right and/or wrong are not relevant factors and/or useful information tool to help you fix your marriage.
What matters is that your marriage, the relationship itself, was broke and in a bad place evident by what you just experienced. That’s the first step to overcoming your trauma.
Once you realize that, watch this video multiple times and extract every word from it for your best chance to fix it. It doesn’t have to be the end of your marriage.
