I know self-improvement may sound like a cliche but it’s not as simple as it sounds. Remember earlier when we talked about self-accountability as a difficult thing to do.
Instead of waiting just to attract your marriage, I want you to “not wait” but take advantage of this opportunity of being alone (which may never come again because you are about to become high value) to increase your market place value.
Yes. There is a market place and your estranged partner is aware directly or indirectly of (at least) perceived higher value on the other side.
The grass always seems greener on the other side right? But that’s because someone is watering it or the grass is fake… synthetic.
When Steve said… “I went to rehab and quit drinking. I have been working on me and us.”
Working on “me” is key to leveraging the law of attraction to rekindle his marriage.
And the “us” part can set him up for failure because it automatically embeds expectations of another human in the process.
It creates a sense of entitlement but not necessarily intentionally.
The key is to focus on self improvement because it will build self worth, esteem, and confidence and your dating marketplace value.
That may just be what your partner needs to see before coming back around to earn you back.
There are many books in the market on how to save your marriage but none of them matches up to our methods.
In fact, there is a book by Lee Baucom on how to do it 3 steps… here is some of the reviews….
“It is okay. Same as other books I have read. Good communication, mutual respect and admiration. Make time even when you don’t feel like it. Marriage relationship must priority above all else, over career, children ect.“
“I think the publication is a little short of complete, The concepts and advise seem sound and certainly it will influence my thinking and actions i the future. I was left with the sense that there was a lot of pushing the authors “system” and that one wouldn’t really derive the full value until one actually embark on the “system”. Still a worthwhile read and something i’ll probably recommend.”
Over all, people are saying it okay because its same ‘ol “love yourselves, respect yourselves, communication communication communication….
Get Marriage Back is our story with actionable things you can do without being manipulative… from psychological and emotional stand point.
Your spouse knows the right thing to do but he or she doesn’t feel like it….
Let’s continue… Save Your Marriage
“She even dared me not to talk to her and she just wants to be gone for good. But we have 2 children.”
At this stage, she is still helping you because of the blessing that children truly are.
“I want to save our marriage but she is really hard to handle.”
She is not the one that you need to fix or handled.
If there is any human that can be fixed, it’s the self adult in the marriage.
To build attraction back into your marriage, you cannot afford to shape your mouth to say you want handle another adult like a child.
Evidently, it doesn’t work.
What worked and can still work is the fact that your spouse was once attracted to you that a whole marriage happened.
Along the way, both of you have probably gotten complacent and taken each other for granted.
This is normal behavior.
It’s also normal for 40% – 50% of marriages to end up in divorce just like that.
Therefore its a courageous thing for you to lead the path to save your marriage.
If you can pull it off, it will be a brand new marriage that is 1000% better than whatever you had because you would be both experienced.
Good marriages comes from work and not from compatibility that many claim lack thereof is their issue at the divorce court.
It takes two to tango but it takes one to lead the dance.
You should be proud of yourself.
It comes down to attraction.
(1) Remove the overdose of your emotional energy.
Arguments and emotionally charged conversations kill relationships and marriages.
(2) Find and Own your Role; neither is less than the other.
If you are a typical man, showing up with feminine energy will make your lady lose respect for you.
Likewise, if you are a typical woman, competing with your man to lead will create overdose of masculine energy.
If he is like most men, it will make him feel emasculated and effectively, you will whatever is it that you fear;
…A man who will make you feel unsafe in the marriage.
(3) Don’t compete in the blame game, guilt and shaming each other.
It may feel like you are right and winning in the moment but the end result is exactly the vibes you are trying to avoid in your marriage.
BONUS – Master emotional self control.
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How can God save my marriage?
It depends on what you mean by God.
The only source of the requirement to save your marriage which is unconditional love is God…. specifically a higher version of your mortal self.
This is especially true if you need infidelity and trust recovery… You will need God but it works.
How can I save my marriage?
Yes you can save your marriage with this 3 steps.
(1) Gain emotional self control. (2) Focus on giving with the exception of physical abuse. (3) Avoid emotionally charged conversations.
But there is more and context is important to understand these 3 tricks
How can I save my marriage after separation?
You will increase your chances of saving your marriage by being generous to yourself with time and space to build emotional self control.
This will allow you to be prepared to showcase your better self when an inevitable opportunity present itself to interact with you spouse.
Do I even want to save my marriage?
Yes you do because marriage is awesome if you ca figure it out especially after a crisis that I guess you are experiencing.
How can I save my marriage alone?
Although it takes two to tango, all that is required to start the dance of your marriage in a new direction is self mastery and emotional self control.
How can I save my marriage from divorce?
You can stop the bleeding immediately by simply removing all emotionally charged interaction.
This will b easier said than done but it’s possible with knowledge and consistent practice.
How can we save our marriage?
If you are both emotionally available to check all egos and pride, you can embark on a brand new journey of bliss.
Keep in mind that it will have to be a completely brand new marriage for it to work.
Can & should I save my marriage after infidelity?
You can save marriage after infidelity only on one condition.
The infidelity must stop first and then you can work on infidelity and trust recovery.
This will require a healthy does of unconditional love which you can only source from God… specifically a divine and higher version of your mortal self.
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