QUESTION ⁉️ “It all sounds great but this evil will not help me with my wife; when she says she’s done, it means she’s done.”
The first sign we notice in this message is the fact that a husband is throwing hands up in the air claiming there is no way for his wife to behave.
When you approach saving your marriage with that energy, you will attract more of it.
What if you accept that you are confused and it’s just time to learn something new about making your wife open for you to penetrate mentally and physically?”
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Trying To Save Marriage Wife Said It’s Too Late
TRICK #1 – Stop Confusing Words with Action
If you are like most people, you’ve caught feeling and you are feeling rejected because your wife says she’s done.
Never mind what she says; what about her actions?
Is she still living in the same house with you?
If she is still connected to you in one way or the other, even if it’s because of the kids, I would stop panicking.
It’s common mistake in relationships especially marriage to confuse her words with her actions.
Relax and follow her actions.
Regardless of what the action may be, relax; you are the king.
TRICK #2 – Admit that the Marriage May Be Too Late to Save
Once you relax, she will become curious again and want to initiate engagement.
Use that opportunity to show case you new relaxed man who is sure of himself and require no validation from anyone in order to be happy.
This is more of a demeanor and energy than what you say out.
It’s also okay at this stage to admit that the marriage is bad
… and that’s not equivalent to admitting that it’s all your fault.
It will only showcase you as a king who knows how to listen and communicate effectively with his queen.
This new behavior will shock your wife and will start to consider changing her mind…
If she was ever serious about saving your marriage being too late.
TRICK #3 – Give Her What She Wants; Gift of Missing You
This process will take time but you can leverage this opportunity to give yourself a gift.
When she insinuated that it’s too late to save the marriage, she’s was saying she needed space.
There is no one single event that can shut a marriage off.
Give her what she wants; the gift of missing you–space.
You need space too as it’s an opportunity to showcase your ability of infinite patience.
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In that time period, it can be extremely difficult to just sit tight and not express yourself.
You may even feel unheard; but that’s needy behavior.
That time ans space will increase attraction between the two of you and…
You will equipped with material and ingredients to catalyze further growth of the attraction that you now have.
We all know that relationships have their ups and downs, and sometimes, those downs can feel pretty darn low.
So, you might be wondering…
When exactly is it too late to save a marriage? And is all that effort really worth it to mend a broken marriage?
First things first, let’s address the timing.
The truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer to this.
Every relationship is unique, just like the people in it. Some couples manage to find their way back even from the darkest of times, while others might reach a point where the pain and damage become irreparable.
It’s crucial to remember that it’s not just about the timeline, but also about the willingness and effort both partners are willing to put in.
Now, let’s talk about whether it’s worth fixing a broken marriage.
This is a tough one, no doubt about it. The decision to fix a broken marriage is deeply personal and can be influenced by a multitude of factors. Here are a few things to consider:
Communication:
One of the pillars of a strong relationship is open and honest communication. If both partners are willing to sit down and talk about their feelings, concerns, and what led them to this point, it’s a positive sign that there’s a chance for healing.
It might be necessary for at least one willing partner to use seduction skills to attract the other partner into that space first.
Love and Commitment:
Remember why you fell in love in the first place?
Those feelings might still be buried under the rubble of issues, but they could be worth uncovering. If there’s still love and commitment, it’s definitely worth exploring if the marriage can be saved.
Seeking the guidance of a marriage counselor or therapist can work wonders.
These experts can provide fresh perspectives, communication tools, and strategies to navigate the choppy waters of a struggling marriage.
Self-Reflection:
Take a moment to look within.
Are you both willing to acknowledge your own shortcomings and work on them? Self-awareness and personal growth can play a huge role in reviving a marriage.
Children and Family:
If there are children involved, their well-being should be a priority.
Sometimes, parents choose to work on their marriage for the sake of their kids, and that can be a strong motivator.
However, it’s also important to recognize when it might be time to let go (it doesn’t have to be a permanent decision):
Toxic Dynamics:
If the relationship has become toxic, filled with emotional or even physical abuse, it’s crucial to prioritize your safety and well-being over trying to fix something that might be beyond repair.
Unresolved Issues:
If past issues keep resurfacing and there’s a lack of genuine effort to address them, it might be a sign that the foundation of the relationship is too shaky.
Loss of Trust:
Trust is like a delicate glass vase – once it’s shattered, it’s hard to piece it back together perfectly. If trust has been broken beyond repair, it might be time to reevaluate.
Personal Growth:
Sometimes, individuals grow in different directions.
If you find yourselves with different goals, values, or aspirations that can’t be reconciled, it might be healthier to part ways.
In the end, the question of whether a broken marriage is worth fixing boils down to the efforts, emotions, and circumstances of the people involved.
It’s not an easy road, but with open hearts, dedication, and perhaps some professional guidance, it’s incredible what two people can achieve together.
Just remember, whether you choose to fight for your marriage or part ways, the most important thing is your happiness and your overall well-being.
You deserve a life filled with love, respect, and joy.
So there you have it. Marriage can be a wild ride, full of twists and turns.
It’s never too late to try, but it’s also okay to walk away when the time is right.
Whatever path you choose, remember that you’re not alone – there’s a whole world of support out there cheering you on.
Stay strong, stay kind, and most importantly, stay true to yourself. Until next time!
How do you know it’s too late to save a marriage?
It might be too late to save a marriage when both partners have lost emotional connection and willingness to work on the relationship.
Is it worth fixing a broken marriage?
Whether a broken marriage is worth fixing depends on the individuals involved and their commitment to making positive changes. With the right support, all it takes is one person for a fair chance.
At what point do you stop trying to save your marriage?
You might consider stopping efforts to save a marriage when there’s consistent toxicity, lack of trust, and minimal effort from both partners to improve the situation.
Can a dying marriage be saved?
While challenging, a dying marriage can potentially be saved if at least once person is willing to engage the necessary education on seduction to get both partners into a space where they are open to seeking professional help, communication, and making necessary changes.
In any relationship, conflicts and disagreements are bound to arise from time to time.
However, when your wife starts yelling at you frequently, it can be emotionally draining and damaging to the relationship.
If you find yourself in this situation, I’m sorry that you are dealing with this.
It’s important to address the issue and work towards a healthier and more respectful dynamic.
In this blog post, we will discuss five practical tips to help you resolve this problem permanently, creating a happier and more harmonious relationship with your spouse.
Here are the highlights of what we will cover in this blogpost.
How To Locate National Support Against All Levels of Abuse
Engaging in Self-Intelligence and Leveraging it for Improvement In Your Relationship
Re-interpreting Yelling from Your Spouse Appropriately To Maximize Permanently Resolution
The Right Way To Establish Boundaries and Communication Guidelines
How to Create Sustainable Measures to Keep Yelling and Bad Communication Habits Far Away From Your Marriage.
Let’s countdown the tips as we dig a little deeper into each of the highlights we just mentioned.
Tip #5 – How to Locate National Support Against All Levels of Abuse
When dealing with a spouse who yells at you, it’s essential to prioritize your safety and well-being.
If you ever feel threatened or fear for your safety, it’s crucial to seek help immediately.
You can locate your national support hotline for domestic violence or abuse and reach out to them for guidance and support.
These organizations have professionals trained to handle such situations and can provide you with the necessary resources to ensure your safety and well-being.
If you are not here or something terrible happens to you, the next set of tips I give you becomes useless and pointless instantly.
And yes, the loudest narrative out there is that men are always safe.
Data may be suggestive in that direction, but one abused man is one too many.
And the myth that you are protecting her by tolerating abuse at any level is ultimately not good for your wife and children.
Tip #4 – Engaging in Self-Intelligence and Leveraging it for Improvement in Your Relationship
While it’s important to address your wife’s yelling, it’s also essential to examine your own behavior and how it may contribute to this situation.
Engaging in self-intelligence allows you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your actions.
Assess what aspects of yourself might be attracting this behavior from your wife, without falling into self-guilt or victim shaming.
By leveraging this self-awareness, you can make positive changes within yourself and your relationship, fostering growth and harmony.
This tip alone, is more than likely half the battle won.
Tip #3 – Re-interpreting Yelling from Your Wife Appropriately to Maximize Permanent Resolution
Yelling from your wife is often a cry for help or a manifestation of underlying issues or frustrations.
Instead of immediately reacting negatively, it’s important to re-interpret their behavior appropriately.
You might naturally interpret the yelling behavior as your wife being intentionally disrespectful, and maybe even just wicked.
While you may be right, this interpretation doesn’t really help you personally.
If your interpretation is assuming the worst case scenario, it only makes sense for you to react in the worst way possible.
Instead, understand that that yelling may stem from deeper emotional or communication challenges.
By approaching the situation with empathy and understanding, you can create a safe space for open and honest communication, giving her the freedom to express her expectations, feelings and concerns without resorting to yelling.
You might find it easier to engage your feelings and operate from a standpoint of being the victim.
But it’s better long term for you to engage your power knowing fully well that you can also seduce her and influence her behavior in the direction that you desire.
Yes. It’s going to cost you commitment, consistency and patience beyond what you might be used to.
But it’s going to be worth it because it’s for you and your well being long-term.
Tip #2 – The Right Way to Establish Boundaries and Communication Guidelines
Establishing clear boundaries and communication guidelines is crucial when dealing with yelling in a relationship.
When we talk about boundaries to most people, they are thinking about practicing lower tolerance of their spouse.
Instead, I want you to think about boundaries for yourself and self respect.
When you have adequate self respect and boundaries, there are certain types of conversations you would never engage with an emotional reaction.
You cannot control other humans. You can only influence them.
You might even argue that you can and should control your wife. But the long term effect of learning and implementing seduction and influence skills is much better.
Once your wife demonstrates that she is mimicking the level of self-respect that you desire, you can then sit down with her and have an open conversation about how yelling affects you emotionally and how you would like to be treated if there is a disagreement.
These guidelines can include alternative communication methods, such as using “I” statements or taking breaks during heated discussions, to prevent escalation and promote healthy dialogue.
If you have to repeat yourself more than 2 or 3 times, that’s not communication or at least, it’s not working. You need to back off and self reflect.
Tip #1- How to Create Sustainable Measures to Keep Yelling and Bad Communication Habits Far Away From Your Marriage
Resolving the issue of yelling in your marriage requires sustainable measures to prevent its recurrence.
This involves ongoing effort and commitment from you in the short-term and both partners over the long run.
Majority of the advice you might get would focus on what both partners should be doing simultaneously.
These are unrealistic expectations that will set you up for failure.
While ideally or eventually both partners would be in full “give and take” mode, your focus in the short term for sustainably keeping disrespectful yelling from your wife away is to focus on the actions and reactions that you are able to control; yours.
Additionally, practice active listening, empathy, and patience in your day-to-day interactions. By consistently prioritizing open and respectful communication, you can create a healthier and more harmonious relationship, keeping yelling and bad communication habits at bay.
Once you get your wife on the same page first, you might want to consider implementing joint-strategies such as couples therapy, where a trained professional can guide you through effective communication techniques and conflict resolution skills.
Conclusion:
This is all easier said than done.
Dealing with a wife who constantly yells at you can be emotionally challenging and detrimental to your mental health and eventually the relationship and marriage.
However, by following these five tips, you can take significant steps toward resolving this issue permanently.
Remember, it’s essential to prioritize your safety and well-being, seek support when necessary, and actively work towards open and respectful communication with your wife. But it starts with you.
Resolving conflicts in a relationship requires commitment and effort from both partners but starting with you.
If you’re struggling with the issue of your wife yelling at you, we understand the challenges you’re facing.
We have been through similar experiences, and we have written a book called “Get My Marriage Back” sharing our personal story and the strategies we used to overcome this issue permanently.
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Frequently Asked Questions:
What if my wife yells at me?
If your wife yells at you, it’s important to address the issue rather than ignoring it. Follow the tips mentioned in this blog post, such as seeking support, engaging in self-reflection, and establishing personal boundaries particularly for self respect. A safe space for open and honest communication is key to resolving conflicts in a healthy and respectful manner.
How do you respond when your wife yells at you?
When your wife yells at you, it’s crucial to remain calm and composed. Take a deep breath, listen to her concerns, and respond in a respectful manner; particularly self-respect. Avoid escalating the situation by yelling back or becoming defensive. Instead, aim for understanding, feeling heard, open dialogue and finding a solution together.
What if a wife yells at her husband?
Yelling in any relationship, regardless of gender, is not a healthy or productive way to communicate. If a wife yells at her husband, both partners should work together to address the underlying issues causing the yelling; but the husband is in a position to choose how to react. Choosing not to over-react, empathy, and seeking professional help if needed can contribute to resolving the issue and creating a more harmonious relationship.
How do I ignore my yelling wife?
Ignoring a yelling wife may not be the most effective approach to resolving the issue. Instead, try to address the problem by engaging in active listening, open and calm communication. Express how her yelling affects you once she demonstrates feeling heard and work together to establish healthier ways of expressing frustrations and resolving conflicts. If the issue persists, seeking professional help can provide additional guidance and support.
It can be difficult if it seems like your wife loves you but doesn’t desire you, but there are a few things you can do.
We’ve had a few people send these questions in and maybe you can relate in one shape, form or the other. Here we go before I share 5 tips to help you through a difficult time in your marriage.
“Wife Has No Romantic Feelings For Me”
My wife and I have been married for several years, but I have come to realize that she has no romantic feelings for me. We still have a good relationship, but it is more of a friendship than a romantic partnership. I feel lonely and rejected, but I am trying to accept the situation and move forward.
“My Wife Hasn’t Slept With Me In Months”
My marriage has been going through a difficult time lately. My wife and I have been growing apart and it has been months since we have shared a bed. This has been an incredibly hard time for both of us, and I am trying my best to make things better.
“My Wife Sees Me As A Friend Not A Lover”
My wife and I have a strong friendship, but it is not a romantic one. She sees me as a companion and confidant, but not as a lover. We have a mutual respect and admiration for one another, but it is not the same kind of connection that is usually associated with a romantic relationship. We are content with our relationship as it is, and we both appreciate the bond we share.
“My Wife Says She Loves Me But Doesn’t Show It”
My wife often tells me that she loves me, but I can’t help but feel like she doesn’t show it. She is often busy with work and other commitments, so it’s hard for her to find the time to express her love. I try to understand, but it’s still difficult for me to feel truly appreciated.
“I Don’t Feel Desired By My Wife”
I feel like my wife doesn’t desire me anymore. I feel like she has lost interest in me and our relationship. I feel neglected and unimportant to her. It’s heartbreaking to feel like I’m not wanted or desired by the person I love the most.
“My Wife Doesn’t Want Me Sexually”
My wife and I have been having a difficult time in our relationship lately. She has expressed that she no longer feels the same way about me sexually, and that she does not want to be intimate with me. This has been a difficult situation for both of us, but I am trying to be understanding and supportive of her feelings. We are working together to try to find a way to reconnect and build a stronger relationship.
Here are the 5 tips…
Tip 1 – Honest & Open Conversation
Start by having an honest and open conversation with your wife and try to understand her perspective.
The best way to start having a meaningful conversation with your wife is to be honest and open within the confinement of emotional intelligence.
Listen to her perspective and try to understand where she is coming from. Ask her questions and be willing to compromise.
Show her that you care about her feelings and that you are willing to work together to find a resolution. Be patient and understanding, and don’t be afraid to express your own feelings.
Show her that you are willing to put in the effort to make things work. This will help to create an environment of trust and respect, which is essential for any healthy relationship.
Tip 2 – Active Listening
Make sure to actively listen to her and let her express her thoughts and feelings without judgment.
It is important to make sure that you actively listen to her and let her express her thoughts and feelings without judgment.
This means that you should be actively engaged in the conversation, focusing on what she is saying and not interrupting her.
You should also be open to hearing her thoughts and feelings without passing any kind of judgment.
This is important because it will allow her to feel comfortable expressing herself and will create a safe space for her to do so.
It is also important to be patient and understanding, as this will help create a positive environment for her to share her thoughts and feelings.
Tip 3 – Self Care
You can also take time to focus on yourself. This has nothing to do with the selfless ingredient necessary for a marriage’s sustainability.
Taking time to focus on yourself is a great way to make sure that you are taking care of your mental and physical health.
Self-care can include activities such as reading a book, going for a walk, or taking a nap.
It can also mean taking time to reflect on your thoughts and emotions, or doing something that brings you joy.
Taking time to focus on yourself can help you to reduce stress, improve your mood, and increase your overall well being.
It can also help you to gain clarity and perspective on your life and the decisions you make.
Taking time for yourself is an important part of self-care and should be an integral part of your life.
Make sure you’re taking care of yourself and your own needs by engaging in activities that bring you joy and make you feel good.
Self-care is an important part of maintaining a healthy and balanced lifestyle.
Taking care of yourself and your own needs is essential for your mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing.
Engaging in activities that bring you joy and make you feel good is a great way to practice self-care.
This can include anything from exercising, reading a book, spending time with friends, or simply taking a few moments to relax.
Taking the time to do something that you enjoy can help to reduce stress and improve your overall mood.
Practicing self-care is a great way to ensure that you are taking care of yourself and your own needs.
Tip 4 – Affection
Lastly, don’t forget to be affectionate with your wife.
It is important to remember to be affectionate with your wife.
Showing your wife affection is a great way to show her that you care and appreciate her.
This can be done through small gestures such as holding hands, giving hugs, or even just saying “I love you”.
It is also important to make time for your wife, whether it is going on a date night or just spending quality time together.
Showing your wife affection is a great way to strengthen your relationship and make her feel special.
Tip 5 – Love & Kindness
Show her love and kindness, and let her know that you appreciate her and are here for her.
Being in a relationship is hard work because it is highly rewarding, but it can also be immensely rewarding.
4 Signs Your Wife Is Not Sexually Attracted To You
There are a few signs that may indicate your wife is not sexually attracted to you.
She may avoid physical contact, such as cuddling or holding hands.
She may also not want to engage in any kind of sexual activity or intimacy.
She may be less interested in spending time with you or may be distant in conversations.
She may also not be as affectionate or show signs of physical attraction, such as compliments or flirting.
If these signs are present, it may be a sign that your wife is not sexually attracted to you.
In this rest of the article, you will discover what to do if all signals indicate that the wife you married doesn’t desire you anymore even though she claims she loves you.
It’s perfectly normal for a wife to love her husband, but sometimes not feel sexually attracted to him.
While desire cannot be negotiated, it can absolutely be influenced with some tips we will share in this article.
There could be any number of reasons for this, such as a lack of emotional connection, mismatched libido levels or unresolved anger or resentment.
If you’re in this situation, it’s important to talk to your spouse and figure out what’s causing the disconnect.
You may need to see a therapist to help address the underlying issues; you can start with a family therapist.
Here are some very important lessons that we will cover to give you a full understanding and tactful things you can do to rekindle things:
The Meaning of “Desire” In A Marriage
What is the Difference Between Love and Sexual Desire?
“What Does it Mean When My Wife Loves Me But Doesn’t Desire Me?”
How does this affect a marriage and relationship?
Tips for creating sexual desire in your spouse again
The Role of a Sex Therapist
… and more.
My Wife Never Touches Me Anymore
“She used to be so affectionate, but now she seems distant and removed. I don’t know what I did wrong, but I fear that she may be cheating on me or is no longer interested in me. I don’t know how much longer I can take this.”
This kind of problem always start with a wife losing interest.
Let’s dive right in…
3 Signs That Your Wife Is Losing Interest
It can be difficult to tell if your wife is losing interest in you.
However, there are 4 of many other signs you can look out for.
Sign #3 – One common sign is if your wife starts to avoid sexual intimacy.
Sign #2 – If she stops taking care of herself physically or stops dressing up for you, this can also be a sign that she’s losing interest.
Sign #1 – Another sign is if she becomes critical or negative towards you.
If your wife shows any of these signs, it might be time to talk to her about your concerns and see if there’s anything wrong.
The Meaning of “Desire” In A Marriage
When we think of the word “desire,” we often think of our sex life in a marriage and sexual desire.
However, desire is much more than that.
Desire is a yearning or craving for something, someone or the presence of someone.
It can be a strong feeling or emotion that motivates us to take further desired action of course.
In a marriage, it is important for both spouses to feel desired by the other.
This can be accomplished in many ways, such as through words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch.
When both spouses feel desired, it builds intimacy and strengthens the bond between them.
Sexual desire is an important part of a marriage, but it is not the only type of desire that matters.
Spouses should strive to meet each other’s non-sexual desires as well, in order to create a fulfilling and lasting relationship.
That alone can help in boosting and/or sustaining sexual desires in the marriage.
What is the Difference Between Love and Sexual Desire?
When we think of love, we often think of feelings of warmth, happiness and affection.
Love is a deep, emotional connection that spouses have with each other.
It is a feeling of being drawn to someone, of wanting to be close to them and wanting to make them happy.
In marriage, however, love is not just a feeling of lust or passion.
It is much more than that because a long term relationship between 2 different human beings is involved.
Love is Action, Patient, Kind and Fifty Million Others Things.
Sexual desire, on the other hand, is a physical attraction that spouses feel for each other.
It is the desire to be intimate with someone, to touch them and to be touched by them.
Sexual desire can often be confused with love, but they are two separate things.
Sexual desire was traditionally not necessary in a marriage, but love was as a function of duty and responsibility.
However, things have changed and it will hurt your marriage if you dare attempt to discount the importance of feelings in modern day marriage.
There Is A Strong Relationship Between A Couple’s Sex Life, Love And Sexual Desire.
A couple’s sex life is often seen as the foundation of a healthy relationship, and is usually one of the first things to disappear when a relationship starts to deteriorate.
Love is often thought of as the emotional connection that couples share, and is what keeps them together over time.
Sexual desire, on the other hand, is what motivates people to have sex and is often seen as a physical manifestation of love.
“What Does it Mean When My Wife Loves Me But Doesn’t Desire Me?”
When a wife loves her husband but does not desire him, it can be a sign that there is something wrong in the underlying relationship.
It may be that the wife is no longer attracted to her husband, or that she is unhappy with the way things are going in the relationship.
If this is the case, then it is important for the husband to talk to his wife and find out what is wrong.
He should express his love for her and try to find a way to fix whatever is causing the problem.
By the way, she might not be able to explain this in words.
How Does Your Intimacy Affect a Marriage Relationship?
Your sex life is an important part of intimacy in your marriage and the underlying relationship.
It helps to keep the spark alive and allows couples to feel close to each other.
When there is not healthy level of intimacy (which is deeper than sex), everything else starts to feel wrong.
Your Sex Life Can Take Many Different Forms, Such As Talking And Touching.
If one partner feels that they are not being desired by the other, it can be a blow to their self-esteem.
It can make them feel like they are not good enough and that they are not wanted.
This can lead to a lot of emotional pain and conflict and even emotional and full blown infidelity.
There are many ways to improve your sex life in a marriage relationship.
Couples can talk about their needs and desires, spend time together, touch each other more often, and be open and honest with each other.
But that’s usually not enough because it would most likely take one person to lead the dance.
If you are struggling with this issue, please seek help from a therapist, coach or counselor.
They can assist you in working through these feelings and improving your relationship.
6 Tips for Creating A Fulfilling Sex Life With Your Spouse Again
There are many ways to rekindle your sex life in your relationship with your spouse.
Here are a few tips:
1. Talk openly and honestly about your feelings and desires but with respect to your partner’s feelings.
2. Make time for each other and carve out special moments just for the two of you.
3. Be affectionate and touch each other often.
4. Experiment and be playful in the bedroom.
5. Communicate during sex and let your partner know what you enjoy.
6. Connect emotionally as well as physically.
The Role of a Sex Therapist
A sex therapist’s role is to help couples or individuals overcome issues that are preventing them from enjoying a healthy and fulfilling sex life.
They can help with a range of issues, such as low libido, performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, and more.
Sex therapists typically use a mix of therapies, such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), couples therapy, and psycho-education.
How A Sex Therapist Uses CBT
A sex therapist uses cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) which can be a great help for couples in this situation.
He or she can help the couple understand why the wife loves her husband but does not desire him.
They can also work to help the couple rebuild their intimacy and connection.
Every other advice would probably unintentionally position you to start feeling like your wife is weaponizing sex.
How can she weaponize sex if she doesn’t hate sex with you?
That’s The Easy Route Of Thought; Try Harder.
A sex therapist would help you do the hard work by digging deeper into the reasons behind the scenes and behind the obvious.
You can even take it further.
You will learn seduction skills from a sex therapist that will help you influence high level of desire, interest and attraction.
Check out American Association of Sexuality Educators, counselors and therapists to see if you can find an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist.
An AASECT Certified Sex Therapist is trained to provide in-depth psychotherapy and they are specialized in treating clients with sexual issues and concerns.
What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Be Intimate
When your partner doesn’t want to be intimate, it can be a difficult and confusing experience.
You may feel like you’re not good enough or that you’re not attractive in your relationship anymore.
Here Are 5 Things You Can Do To Improve Intimacy:
1. Talk to your partner about why they don’t want to be intimate and try to understand their point of view.
2. Don’t take it personally (this is easier said than done) – remember that this has nothing to do with how much they love you.
3. Don’t pressure your partner into being intimate if they’re not comfortable doing so because desire cannot be negotiated; it can however be influenced if you have the skills.
4. Seek out support from friends or family members who can offer words of encouragement to you if need it; don’t count on them being able to correct your spouse into order.
5. Seek professional help if the situation is causing you significant distress.
Remember that you’re not alone and there are ways to deal with this situation.
Don’t hesitate to reach out for help if you need it.
“Can I Divorce My Wife For Not Sleeping With Me?”
Of course you can divorce your spouse these days for the dumbest reasons.
All you have to do is to claim “irreconcilable differences.”
But of course, I don’t just advice you to just run for the hills at the slightest sight of a slow down in intimacy.
While it may be frustrating if your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you, it’s important to remember that there are many reasons why someone may not be interested in sex.
It Could Be Due To Stress, Fatigue, or Health Issues.
If your wife is unwilling to discuss the issue, then you may want to consult with a therapist to help you understand why she is not interested in sex and work on ways to improve intimacy.
There are many bitter people on the internet that will advice you to just go ahead and kick her to the curb.
You and I know that if it was that easy, you would have done it already.
Don’t compare yourself to people who are so weak to the extent that they never had enough vested interest in a marriage they created in the first place.
Identify if you really want that marriage from a personal standpoint and then move intentionally and accordingly; with the help of good counsel and not random people on the internet.
How Health Issues Can Result in Lack of Physical Intimacy
Many couples struggle with physical intimacy at some point in their relationship.
This can be due to a variety of factors, such as fatigue, stress, or health issues.
When one partner is dealing with health issues leading to a lack of physical intimacy, it might not be as obvious.
Physical intimacy is an important part of a marriage, and when it’s lacking, it can be difficult for both partners.
There are issues that may be hormonal or psychological remnants of health crisis.
Start with a conversation as usual and a healthy does of empathy and that alone can instigate her wanting sex.
“I Just Want My Wife To Want Me But I’ve Heard Many Wives Like Her Hate Sex Eventually.”
Sexual pleasure is an important part of any relationship, and it’s no different for couples in which the wife loves her husband but doesn’t desire him.
This is a temporary issue normally and you next move can make it permanent or temporary; tread carefully.
Even though they’re not physically attracted to each other, these couples can still enjoy a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship if they’re willing to put in the effort.
For men in this situation, it’s important to understand that sexual pleasure isn’t all about the physical act of sex.
Sexual pleasure actually starts long before the act of sex.
There is a lot more going on even though you may feel as though she hates sex; it’s highly unlikely.
One of the key things when you are going through this is to make sure you are prepared for the opportunity to be intimate when it presents itself again.
When that time comes…
Here Are Additional 5 Tips To Be More Sexually Intimate With Your Wife
Tip #5 – First, try to be more present when you’re together.
Tip #4 – Pay attention to her body and her reactions when you’re touching her.
Tip #3 – Second, experiment with different types of touch. Try mixing up your routine to keep things fresh; don’t be predictable.
Tip #2 – Third, communicate with your wife about what she enjoys.
Let her know what turns you on, and ask her about her fantasies.
Tip #1 – Lastly, make time for sex.
Dedicate time specifically for intimacy, and make sure that both of you are available for it.
Here is a quick question for you to ponder.
How do you feel about entertaining sex toys in your sex life?
Your answer can make or break your sex life and intimacy; Hint: No answer is right and wrong.
Why Does My Wife Hate Initiating Sex?
There could be many reasons why your wife hates initiating sex.
It could be that she’s not attracted to you, she’s not in the mood, or she’s not feeling well.
If your wife doesn’t initiate sex very often, it might be because she’s not comfortable doing so.
Heck: It can be completely a traditional or cultural issue
Talk to her about how you feel and see if she has any concerns or suggestions.
This is one of those situations where you may want to identify the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship and both of you as individuals.
What I want you to do is to shed more energy and light on the strengths and avoid trying to force the weaknesses with respect to the result that you want.
I would hope that your desired result is simply more sex; more passionate sex.
“My Wife Makes Excuses To Refuse Sex.”
“My wife loves me and always tells me how much she cares for me, but she doesn’t desire me sexually. She makes excuses not to sleep with me, and it’s really starting to take a toll on our relationship. I’m not sure what to do, as I still want to be intimate with her.”
Most Women In Marriage React To Unhappiness In One Or More Ways:
Outside of health issues, she might not feel satisfied with her marriage due to the amount of time spent away from her spouse.
The most recent findings suggest that up to 50 percent of couples who have been married 10 years are dissatisfied with their marriage because they report feeling frustrated and unfulfilled.
This is a rather strong reason why most women in marriage do not want sex – it’s as if they’re trying to protect themselves from being hurt again by refusing sex.
To a large extent, this can be subconscious.
Most women refuse sex because they are afraid of getting too close, only for them to continue to feel unhappy in the marriage down the road anyway.
It’s like “why bother?”
The First Step Is Always To Talk To Your Spouse About The Issue.
If that doesn’t work, you may want to engage your seduction power as a woman; that starts with self-assessment.
What turned him on to you in the first place?
What turns him on to you right now?
What turns you on?
Once you find out the answer to all 3 of these questions, then you will find everything else useful in rekindling things.
How To Deal With A Sexless Marriage As A Woman
Dealing with a sexless marriage as a woman can be difficult, but there are ways to cope.
First, it’s important to understand that there is no shame in having a sexless marriage.
It’s not your fault, and you’re not alone.
There are many couples who experience this problem and therefore there are many solutions and options.
In Conclusion
It’s normal for most women to lose interest in their husbands after some time and over time.
This doesn’t mean that the love is gone, just the desire may be absent.
There are many things you can do to help boost your wife’s desire and attraction towards you again.
By leveraging some of the simple tips we’ve covered, you can rekindle the flame and have a more fulfilling marriage.
Here is a last bonus tip for you.
If you are always engaged in arguments that you may have considered a harmless debate, that can sure create lower interest and desire from your spouse; It can get weird from time to time.
What a confusion right?
Are women crazy?
How do you love a husband you don’t desire?
I was on the receiving end of those resentments she mentioned earlier and it was not fun as you can probably imagine.
We got married and I flipped my legs on the table and just relaxed like most new husbands.
After all, we are now committed to each other for life.
A certain type of love required for all marriages is a choice.
However, desire, affection, and attraction are symptoms of a certain consistent way of showing up in your marriage as a man.
A typical wife has a lot on her plate and simply doesn’t get to decide if they want to desire you or not.
Think about it.
In the beginning of your love affair, your wife desired you without knowing enough about you.
Though it wasn’t controlled, it was an attraction.
So we can agree that desire in a marriage is not some logical decision.
At least, that’s not reality.
But it can absolutely be reverse-engineered especially with the history of desire that used to exist between the two of you.
We know it can happen again but it’s easier said than done.
With proper support it’s absolutely possible because we are a testimony.
But you will have to engage your power and it’s impossible when you are playing the victim.
“Is My Wife Attracted To Me” Quiz
Taking a ‘is my wife attracted to me’ quiz can be a great way to gauge the level of attraction between you and your wife.
It can help you to identify areas of your relationship that could use some work, or it can help you to recognize the positive aspects of your relationship.
The quiz typically consists of questions about your relationship, such as how often you and your wife spend time together, how often you show affection, and how often you communicate.
Additionally, it may also include questions about how you and your wife interact with each other in public, how often you have disagreements, and how often you share intimate moments.
Answering these questions honestly can help you to gain a better understanding of your relationship and whether or not your wife is still attracted to you.
We will be creating a quiz soon. Look out for it.
Frequently Asked Question
Why does my wife have no desire for me?
There are a variety of potential reasons why a wife may have no desire for her husband. It could be due to a lack of communication, a lack of emotional connection, or a lack of physical intimacy. It could also be due to a change in circumstances, such as a job loss, a move, or a health issue. It could also be due to unresolved issues from the past, such as unresolved arguments, hurt feelings, or unresolved trauma. It is important to take the time to talk to your wife and try to understand the root cause of her lack of desire in order to find a solution that works for both of you.
What to do when my wife doesn’t want me sexually?
When your wife doesn’t want you sexually, it can be difficult to handle and can create a lot of tension in the relationship. It is important to talk to your wife about her feelings and try to understand why she is not interested in being intimate. It is also important to remember that there could be many factors at play, such as stress, fatigue, or even medical issues. It is important to be understanding and patient with your wife, and to try to work together to find a solution that works for both of you. If the issue persists, it may be beneficial to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor to help you both work through the issue.
Why do I feel like my wife doesn’t want me sexually?
I feel like my wife doesn’t want me sexually for a variety of reasons. We may not be communicating our needs and desires effectively, or we may have drifted apart over time. It could also be that she is feeling overwhelmed with other aspects of life, such as work, family, or other commitments. It could be that she is dealing with her own issues that she hasn’t been able to share with me. Whatever the reason, it is important to talk to my wife and try to understand what is going on and how we can work together to improve our relationship.
Can a marriage survive without desire?
A marriage without desire can be a difficult situation to navigate. While it is possible for a marriage to survive without desire, it is often an uphill battle. Without the passion that comes with desire, couples may find that they are unable to connect on an emotional level, leading to a lack of communication and understanding. This can cause resentment and distance between the two partners, making it difficult to sustain the marriage. In order to make a marriage work without desire, couples must be willing to put in the effort to build a strong foundation of trust, respect, and communication. This can be difficult, but it is possible for a marriage to survive without desire if both partners are willing to put in the work.
You are about to discover the 5 physical signs your wife is cheating.
Cheating and/infidelity is a terrible experience for a marriage and relationship.
It kills marriages, and more importantly…
Trust.
It’s a betrayal and it goes very deep beyond just the moment it happens, the relationship, just one person’s life.
It’s something that causes deep-rooted damages to a person and getting through it can be very difficult.
So if you’ve experienced any kind of cheating, caught your wife cheating or you feeling like your wife is cheating, you may want to engage a professional to make sure that you go through the proper healing process necessary.
If you don’t, you will spread the damages into other aspects of your life, such as your legacy, your children, and everyone that you ever get into any kind of relationship with.
With that being said, Let’s get into 5 Physical Signs Your Wife Is Cheating:
1st physical sign that your wife is cheating – She is always too tired to have sex.
This sign by itself is not sufficient enough a proof that she is cheating but this could be a sign that she is cheating.
Because remember that energy is neither created nor destroyed.
But if we are finding ourselves in a situation where you feel the need to use the word “always” to emphasize the fact that…
She doesn’t “always” want to have sex.
Always doesn’t want to be intimate with you.
That is something that you should pay attention to.
And that doesn’t mean you should go ahead and start attacking and accusing her of infidelity. It simply means you should pay attention.
Just keep in mind that your feelings may be inaccurate or completely far from reality.
It could just be your personal insecurity problems and that’s precisely why, you still need to unpack it and figure out what is going on with your relationship.
So if she comes up as always too tired to have sex, that is something you should pay attention to.
If once in a while, she is just tired after a long working day, that obviously doesn’t mean she is cheating.
It just means she is tired and that’s very normal in a lot of cases.
Even yourself… even if you are the most sex-maniac in the world, sometimes you’re just not in the mood.
2nd physical sign that your wife is cheating – Strange and/or Expensive gifts.
Either she brought to the house or it was shipped to the house…
If it is a common occurrence enough for you to notice, you should be concerned enough to ask questions.
As always, this doesn’t always mean that she is cheating.
If…
You can’t really explain where these gifts are coming from.
She has never taken the time to tell you specifically where these gifts are coming from.
And if they feel strange to you.
That’s something you should pay attention to…I would.
Why?
Because you should know what’s going on anyway. And if you are not paying attention to your family and especially your wife as a man, what else are you not doing?
That means you’ve been oblivious and anything can happen under your nose to the extent that you wife can start building attraction towards another man.
So, you should be paying attention anyway.
As always, this is not a moment for you to start attacking and accusing her.
There is often a fine and blurry line between insecurity and simply being responsible enough to pay attention. All this means is to pay attention.
You should ask questions.
“Where is this gift from?”
If she is consistently getting strange and expensive gifts, then I would look for at least 3 or 4 other signs on this list.
3rd physical sign that your wife may be cheating – She hides to take a phone call.
So you’ve noticed in recent times that your wife doesn’t like taking phone calls in front of you.
She would excuse herself or sometimes never even excuse herself.
She wanders away into other rooms and she tends to be very quiet while she is taking these calls.
This could be a sign that she is cheating. Clearly, she is not wanting you to hear what she is having conversations about.
Now if your birthday is approaching, she may be taking calls related to plans of a surprise birthday party for you.
But again if you have 3 or 4 of the other signs on this list in your situation, chances are it’s not about your birthday party.
It means you should pay attention, right?
Now, what is cheating?
In this case, cheating means she is doing something she wouldn’t want to do in front of you as mabe related to an inappropriate relationship with another person in a romantic way outside of your relationship or marriage.
So again, if she’s taking phone calls and…
She’s having to go into other rooms and not wanting you to hear what those phone calls are about, and she never comes back to say…
“Hey, that was Jill on the other line. I was talking to her about work stuff from earlier today.”
If she is not doing that then that is something you should pay attention to and ask questions.
“Who was that? Oh okay, you don’t want me to know?”
And make sure you keep the conversation light-headed if you are asking that question so you don’t shut her off.
Because again if you are too serious, you’re gonna take away the spark from your relationship and marriage in general.
You’re revealing yourself way too much and that’s more likely going to backfire and work completely against your purpose…
It’s going to come off as insecurity and that’s not attractive.
4th physical sign that your wife is cheating – She’s too paranoid to leave her phone.
So, if you’ve noticed that she’s always taking her phone everywhere she goes and that she is never, in recent times left the phone on the bed
….just hanging out there on the table.
She just seems like she hugs up on the phone and she holds on to it everywhere and every room she goes in the house, that could be a sign that she is hiding something.
That could also be a sign of cheating.
Now, we don’t know what she is hiding. So as I’ve said always in this lesson, we don’t know what she is hiding but again…
If you’ve noticed 3 or 4 other signs present in your relationship in recent times and you’re in fact feeling insecure about your relationship with your wife, then this is something that you should pay attention to.
“Why would I pay attention to it?”
Because again a lot of time as men, we get complacent. We don’t pay attention. We take things for granted.
And then you know, we may be losing our woman just like that without it necessarily being a matter of her being out to hurt you.
It’s just how life happens.
Again remember that energy is neither created nor destroyed.
So if you’re not giving to her and she finds herself in a situation where other people are giving to her; filling her love tank in an emotional way, you may end up losing your woman.
I would pay attention to this and find ways to attract her back to me.
Just in case you can relate to this, this is not a moment to accuse and attack her, this is your moment to figure out what is going on like…
“Yeah, there is something missing. Let me attract my woman back”.
Why would I do that? Why would I need to give to her?
Because I know enough that whatever I give to women, she multiplies which means she will reciprocate in multiple folds.
So, with that being said, if she’s too paranoid to leave her phone around, that could be a sign that she’s cheating.
Keep in mind that it’s just a sign that you need to step up your game.
Could your wife just be a psychopath cheater?
Yes it could be but for the most part, that’s not the case.
We’re mostly human beings who are just trying to live and we need emotional validation a lot of times in the journey of life.
That goes for both men and women.
And in a marriage, things can get stale very fast. We could get complacent.
5th physical sign that your wife is cheating – She’s expressed it verbally.
She may have said things to you, such as, she’s no longer in love
…or she is asking for space.
If she said things like that to you, you should take them seriously but that doesn’t necessarily mean to react to them.
Remember.
Energy is neither created nor destroyed and if that’s the case, where is she pouring her affection?
It could be into another man
But it could also be because she’s feeling a void in her personal life or with respect to her career.
The point is that there could be so many other things outside of cheating but it could also be because she’s cheating on you.
And she may not be courageous enough to come to you and tell you…
“I’m cheating”
…and sometimes the way she would express that is in words… such as:
“I’m no longer in love with you.”
“I love you but I am not in love with you anymore.”
Or she may outrightly ask you for… “I need some space”.
If you find yourself in this kind of situation, I know it can be a terrible feeling
You should be aware that she may be cheating but ultimately you don’t want to look at it like that.
You want to look at it as your woman not feeling confident to be open enough to express herself to you.
Instead, think like this….
Maybe she has felt a void in her career or in her romantic life and she just doesn’t feel adequate. She doesn’t like what she’s become even in your marriage.
Now, does that mean you should blame yourself? Absolutely not!
Does that mean you should feel guilty? No!
It just means that if you care about this woman and your marriage and most importantly relationship with her, you probably should step up your game.
You should learn some skill set that will help you seduce and attract her back into your arms.
And it’s absolutely possible.
So those are the 5 physical signs that your wife may be cheating on you to look out for
Cheating in this context means she’s doing things with other people in a romantic way that she wouldn’t want you to find out about.
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Question: “My wife wants a divorce how can I change her mind?” – 5 tips
I want to share 5 tips with you on getting the best chance to change her mind.
You know, at the end of the day, it’s not a 100% chance.
It’s never gonna be a 100% chance that you would change your mind.
But if you follow these 5 tips I’m about to share with you, you would dramatically increase the chances that she would change her mind.
Before I get into the 5 tips, there’s a quick story I want to share with you.
Just some few weeks ago, I was watching a review of a podcast that Lola and I were on as a guest.
There was a review.
We happen to make the top 5 of the podcast episodes on that podcast,
…and the husband and the wife, who is also a family friend, Bola and Mac were talking about the divorce that my wife asked for some years back.
And the husband was like, “I don’t think they put that out there like”,
…then the wife was like, “No”.
We did and the truth is that yes, we have spoken about our divorce.
We have mentioned it, and we in fact talked elaborately about it in the book, you can get the book for free at GetMyMarriageBack.com.
We talked elaborately about that in our book, on many videos and I’m about to talk about it again right now.
The truth of the matter is that we have spoken about our divorce and we have to talk about the divorce because,
…what a lot of people do with marriage and divorce is that it becomes like a big demon in their lives and their relationship, and then it eats up the relationship.
And when you don’t have a relationship, essentially, you don’t have a marriage because marriage is just the institution, that’s the paper stuff.
But there’s an underlying relationship that happens before you can even have a healthy marriage.
That’s why I wanted to share these,
My wife wants a divorce, how can I change her mind? – 5 tips, with you really quickly.
You can’t change her mind, but your next moves will influence her final decision.
See, at the end of the day, we’re human beings.
We’re social beings and we are relating with each other on how safe we feel around each other.
And because of that, we do influence our own decisions.
Like the people around you, you know, you’ve heard that saying before,
… the top 5 people around you influence your decisions.
They influence your life, they influence the outcome of your life and so also is your marriage and your relationship.
That’s true for your marriage and your relationships as well.
Even though you can’t particularly change her mind, your next moves,
So I’m about to share 4 more tips on, My wife wants a divorce, how can I change her mind?
Your next moves will influence her final decision.
So let’s go on to,
Tip #2
Don’t put divorce on the pedestal.
Don’t make divorce a big of a deal than it is already.
Don’t make it a big of a deal than it is
It’s just divorce.
It just means somebody decides that they don’t wanna be a part of your life.
But it’s a decision that people can change their mind all the time.
So if you stick to Tip #1 like I said earlier,
Yes, she can change your mind based on the moves you’re gonna make.
Then again, don’t make divorce a big of a deal than it is.
It’s just at least in that moment in time, she hasn’t filed divorce yet.
It is just a decision, it is just “hey, I’m gonna ask for divorce”,it’s just a decision that can be changed.
Let me even tell you how good this is.
Even if she’s already filed for the divorce.
This was something that I learned that made it super easy for me to attract my wife back.
She had actually filed divorce before we got back together and the good news is that,
…the thing is that I had stumbled into stories of people that had filed divorce five years and they’ve been divorced for five years, they got back together.
I know people that have been divorced for a whole decade but they still got back together.
So if I know that all these possibilities are in place, the last thing I wanted to do was to put divorce on a pedestal.
Divorce is not as much of a big deal that people would like to make it seem.
