QUESTION ⁉️ “My marriage is in shambles after my wife emotionally connected to another person while I was deployed.
She has left the state and is trying to rush an uncontested divorce.
It will likely be finalized in the next week or less. And then, there will be a brief reconciliation period.
Is there anyway to save my marriage?”
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QUESTION ⁉️ “What if your husband tells you he is falling out of love with you because he is not happy with the life he has with you?
He is now seeing another girl from his old job. I don’t know what to do; I feel helpless.
He tries to argue with me on every issue. He threatens divorce every other day and I won’t be able to survive that.”
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QUESTION ⁉️ “I am in no point of return. Still married, acting as his wife and waiting for him to change.
All these videos don’t address the most important factor in this.
Both people have to be mentally healthy and agree to implement these steps. This is all bullsh&T and makes me even feel more hopeless.
What do I do in that situation? I am alone in this and try to get him to see how I am feeling. He isn’t supportive.”
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In this lesson, you will discover 5 SECRETS of how to reverse a sexless marriage using seduction and ancient attraction methods.
… PLUS make it your spouses idea.
This is more relevant if you are experience low attraction as opposed to a medical related condition.
15 percent of married couples are sexless: Spouses haven’t had sex with each other in the past six months to one year
NY Times
“Hi. I have a very tricky situation here. My wife and I are considered soul mates by the time we’re dating and made many other couples jealous about intimacy.
Until the birth of our first child. Fast forward till now, 5 years of marriage. My wife has severely low libido and I get denied for over a year.
Or I can say less than one time of intimate session a year after marriage. I result to prostitute a year ago which I bailed out of; I did not have sex with the prostitute.
Because I love my wife dearly, I felt guilty anyway; but I did not let my wife know.
But the real problem is that it hunt me down recently which my wife found out through my browsing history when I searched up the location for quick relief a year ago.
Now my wife has her heart shattered but will still stay with me. As she say, I’m the only guy she will be with till the end of time but she mandates that she will no longer engage in sex with me.”
Problems are opportunities in disguise.
A sexless marriage is clearly a terrible experience for anyone to be experiencing.
So there is a good chance that the attitude and energy you are creating as a by-product is perpetuating that.
Use this opportunity to build yourself and show case a brand new person who doesn’t need sexual validations from your spouse.
In essence, acting like you really need sex will decrease the chances of getting some.
Once you bring sex back into your marriage, it’s going to be that much better than many couples’ mediocre sexual exploits.
So get excited.
Even if you are trying by yourself while your spouse says it’s too late, disregard because it’s time to learn something new.
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You need to identify when it started.
If your sexless marriage is an issue that you have experienced in your marriage from the beginning, you need to identify that.
You need to do the same if you feel that it started somewhere later.
For example, it could have started after a child birth.
Once you figure that out, the rest of the steps below becomes that much easier towards a better sexual and intimate sessions.
In life and especially in marriage, no one is usually going to give you what you are able to give yourself.
In this case, we are talking about how to reverse and rekindle sex in a sexless marriage.
If your spouse feels that you can’t attract anyone else and have sex outside of him or her,
…he or she will have a hard time with feel attraction for you.
This is especially true if you are in the middle of other marriage related crisis as no one single factor can lead you to a sexless marriage.
… unless it is medical in nature.
That’s not to say you should go out and engage in uncontrollable behavior and infidelity.
But you should probably carry yourself a little differently from a confidence stand point.
What would you do differently if you knew that you have not offended your spouse?
How would you carry yourself if you are so confident that he or she wants you sexually 3 times a day?
Compare the answers to your anxiety and reactions as related to your present concerns.
There are chances that things have happened that makes you show up with self-blame and guilt.
Write out whatever that behavior is and do the opposite.
It will transfer your anxiety to your spouse and make them wonder if he/she has been replaced.
Attraction will subsequently increase.
If you have been married for any amount of time, you know that many aspects of marriage is ups and downs.
You need to approach marriage deliberately and intentionally especially when you experience crisis.
It’s better on the other side of just winging it and going along with your feelings.
Marriage can be predictable when you learn a few seduction and attraction skills specially with a person you already know.
Stop feel sad (lack of self control) and take the steering once and for all.
It all comes down to attraction.
Even beyond sex…
If there is low level of attraction, your spouse will abuse you at least emotionally.
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For the 1st 6 months, I searched everywhere to find out how to save my marriage by myself…
Because she was complete shut down before I realized the marriage was over….
Then I discover what I am about to share with you…This secret.. The 2nd key…. saved the marriage when all hope was lost.
QUESTION ⁉️ “What if your spouse is always using the excuse of ‘not now’ for weeks when you are trying to have a conversation?
Doesn’t talk to you or check on you to see how you are doing but has time to chat…
…and some might call him ‘baby’ when you never hear him call you that in a long time.
And the only way he approaches you is by trying to intimate you and even that, he goes back to the mood fast.”
Be sure to check out #1 – How to Save My Marriage at this Link.
Well, you have to have a purpose in life.
I know that you are asking what this has to do with saving your marriage if your spouse has shut down on you.
Stay with me.
If you’re depending on somebody else’s purpose, chances are, you are already lost?
So you have to build on your own personal purpose.
If you don’t know what your own purpose is, then you have to search for it.
You have to keep trying stuff.
There’s a reason why God brought you to this earth.
It’s not just to be married or have Children; God has a purpose for everyone.
And if you don’t know and connect to that purpose, you’re gonna lose your way; especially in a marriage.
So one of the secrets to attracting your spouse back when they’ve checked out on you is to go radio silence on them.
Some all it the NO CONTACT RULE… check it out with this link.
You have to basically give them what they ask for, which is “some space.
They may have asked for it in weird ways that you clearly didn’t understand until not; but you have to give them exactly that.
If you love your spouse enough, you will let them go if that’s what they’re asking for.
It doesn’t mean that you guys are not gonna get back together.
It doesn’t mean you guys are not gonna fix the issues that you have at the moment.
So the 2nd key to guide and make that even easier is your purpose and our personal mission in life.
It will keep you busy enough to have the required patience to attract your spouse back.
Without a personal purpose, you will be lost and too weak to allow the necessary time and space to miss you.
You will become one of those people that do not feel a sense of existence and try to commit suicide because of a break up.
I know you’ve heard about celebrities who did that before.
Being a celebrity and making millions of dollars doesn’t mean you are in your purpose.
It doesn’t mean you’re fully 100% in your purpose.
Many regular people do it as well; they just don’t have the media coverage that a celebrity would have.
You need to be connected to a personal purpose that may be only you understand, that you enjoy doing, that…
Even if you’re not getting paid, you do not mind to keep doing it.
To attract your spouse back and even beyond getting back together, your personal purpose must come before your spouse.
If whatever you call purpose right now doesn’t come before your spouse, it’s not strong enough.
If you put your spouse before your personal purpose, you will choke the marriage up.
You will smother him or her.
It’s only a matter of time; you will come off as needy.
You’re gonna be in their face all the time; the worst thing you want to do if you are trying to save your marriage by yourself.
You’re gonna basically be overwhelming your relationship.
You have to keep this in context; it’s about balance.
Putting your personal purpose and mission before your spouse does not have to become shortage of affection.
Remember that the idea is to help you attract him or her back and effectively grow an undying affection.
It’s just the wise thing to know when to back up.
By spending a healthy amount of time, energy and attention on your personal purpose, they will have enough room to come to realization.
“Listen, I’m about to miss lose my spouse to anger.”
On the next key guide to saving your marriage by yourself, check out “how to stop my divorce and save my marriage.”
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