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My Wife Is Never In The Mood Anymore 💔

In this lesson, you will discover 5 things to do if your wife is just never in the mood for intimacy and sex anymore.

The other day, we got this in the email at questions@LOLAandOLA.com from Jerry.

He said…

“My wife did the ‘I’m not in the mood’ for weeks at a time.  

One day I got tired of it.  

When she asked me to empty the kitchen trash can, (one of my duties normally) I told her…

‘Ya know, I would but I’m just not in the mood.’

Then she said…

That’s silly.  You don’t have to be in the mood in order to take out the garbage.

I responded ‘Yep, and YOU don’t have to be in the mood in order to have sex.

Worked like a charm.”

So as usual, we’ve decided to turn this to a lesson moment for all of us.

My name is LOLA and I am the co-author of the book

GET MY MARRIAGE BACK with my husband OLA

…which you can download for free at

 www.GetMyMarriageBack.com

You will also see an opportunity to book a coaching session with us.

This is OLA.

We review so many of these types of cases and we can bet $100,000 on it that Jerry is a half-truth-teller with that part of the method working like a charm.

These are the 5 things to do immediately before you lose your wife to another man out there.

Thing #5 – Mood is a Symptom

PREVIOUS POST: My Wife Loves Me But Doesn’t Desire Me 💔

The easiest route to go if your wife has not been in the sexiest mood for weeks in a row is to become a victim.

But there is a problem with that.

Playing the victim and retaining power simply don’t go together.

If you don’t want to be the leader in the marriage, it’s absolutely okay to play the victim and throw temper tantrums.

The hardest route is the most rewarding route that will allow you to exit the blueballism zone.

So the first thing you need to do is to realize that her mood is a symptom.

Instead of becoming a small two years old boy like Jerry, I want you to become excited about finding the underlying condition that created the “no mood” symptom

You will be shocked at how easy it is to resolve it.

Not only will you resolve it, you will now possess the key to do it over and over for the rest of your life; highly rewarding.

Thing #4 – She is Wrong But…

I want you to reject that approach because it is going to work against your marriage.

Rights and wrongs are irrelevant in romantic relationships because…

In love and war all is fair.

Think about it.

You have two adults coming together against all odds into a 99.9% chance of hurting each other; though sometimes unintentionally.

If you weren’t married, a trashcan could be sitting there for hours, after it is needed to be disposed-of because you waited for the right mood.

So she was wrong. 

But here is the “but”.  That’s irrelevant.

You are married to your wife as a choice.

So that makes you guilty of the same exact thing you are complaining about if we were to go the “who is wrong” route.

Is she being unfair? 

We can argue that but if your focus is how wrong she is, it’s only natural for you to hold resentment against her.

As you are now realizing, no good is going to come out of that approach.  

So does that make Jerry right?

Thing #3 – You Are Right But…

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But your partner is also right.

At least they have the right to claim that they are right so this is just another toxic argument.

Everything you just learned about “being wrong” as an approach to judging your partner is also applicable to “being right.”

But this is not a race to be right.

This is about your marriage and your wife not being in the mood to make love to you.

Actually, it’s more-so about your inability to get your wife in the mood.

I know it comes off as unfair to expect you to make all the effort in bed but that’s not what I am talking about and remember that all is fair.

What could make a wife come to a husband she wants to make love to and claim “I love you but I’m not in love with you anymore.”

Does she really want it or not? 

Instead of worrying about your wife not being in the mood, I want you to figure out what happened behind the scenes psychologically without expecting her to be able to tell you.

In the next lesson, you will discover how to reverse “I don’t love you” or “I’m not in love with you anymore” without being a douchebag like Jerry.

For now, here is what I want you to do. 

Stop trying to compete to be “right.”

That’s precisely how to be a loser as a husband.

Don’t get defensive. These things play out very subtly and it doesn’t make you a bad person.

So now that we’ve figured out that this isn’t about “right and wrongs” or “black and white”, what else can Jerry do to get his wife in the mood?

Thing #2 – Seed Nurture Harvest

This is a concept used in agriculture that is absolutely applicable in all romantic relationships; especially in a marriage.

Within the first two years of marriage, everything is exciting and new. That’s easy.

When your wife starts to tell you she is not in the mood, you have two choices.

You can take it as an opportunity to engage in highly rewarding work or suck on your thumbs around the house like Jerry.

I want you to go with the first choice.

Find out how you can make her life easy, and turn it into seeds to nurture. The nurturing has to be consistent and you have to be patient.

Your wife’s mood is not some machine to switch on and off at will.  

You have to be patient and that patience will be tested as well.  Your consistency becomes practice and it gets easier if you are patient.

Thing #1 – Give Her Time

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Most women will multiply a sense of safety and security back into you as sex and unlimited nurturing.

If she feels heard, you can penetrate everything.

Making sure she feels heard is a whole skill set beyond just listening as a one time event.

Like we’ve said, this is very hard but highly rewarding once you get into the cruise zone.

Give her time to capture your effort and spend that time on self development and improvement.

The Main Lesson

You reap what you sow.  It doesn’t make it your fault but it does give you leverage to turn things around.

But I agree that it will take humility and a longer term outlook than you are used to.

Check out this video on the screen for more information about that.

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Sexless Marriage Quiz

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Are you in a Sexless Marriage? [QUIZ]

I do not initiate sex with my partner.
I do not initiate sex at least 50% of the time with my partner.
I would not like to initiate sex more times with my partners.
My partner does not initiate sex with me.
My partner does not initiate sex at least 50% of the time with me.
I would like my partner to initiate sex more times with me.
My partner and I have not had sex at least once in the last 3 months.
My partner and I have not had sex at least twice in the last 1 week.
There is a medical condition that hurts our intimacy level.
I am sexually frustrated in this relationship.
Complete the form below to see results

Pick the answer that is most suitable to your situation… Agree/Disagree and Click continue to next question.

In 2 minutes or less, you can use this quiz as a tool, not only to detect if you are in a sexless marriage….

But also to get a quick recommendation to live a blissful, intimate and sexually fulfilled married life.

Sexless Marriage Quiz

Here is a full article on “The chances of survival in a sexless marriage“…

And Here is a free audio book on how we used attraction secrets to break the chains of sexless-ness in our marriage.

Some studies have revealed that about 15-20% of married couples live in the sexually frustrated marriage.

This reality can create a hostile environment where one or both will find themselves living a dangerous life.

It could manifest mentally or….

One or both could start seeking satisfaction from multiple partners which can create exposure to diseases and many other things.

So it is very important to scroll to the top…

And use the 2 minutes sexless marriage quiz too find out if your present arrangement is considered a sexless marriage.

If you let it linger, it can last forever and that’s just how low of a quality lifestyle you will have to endure.

The truth is that there is science, and of course an art, to why you may be going to the drought in your marriage.

That is to say there is a solution even if the underlying issues are medical related.

But you don’t know what you don’t know and can’t fix it until to know.

There is nothing better than finding yourself in a marriage where you feel sexually satisfied…

And are also authentically happy to stay faithful.

Even if there is a slow down, you know exactly what to do to spice things up either as a man or a woman.

That is an empowered marriage.

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Is your dream to build a happily ever after life heading down the drains?

I know...

The harsh reality is that the happiness in your marriage may be over...

IT'S BROKEN...

"Can it be saved?"

...And maybe you still even live in the house with your spouse as roommates, barely any sex or intimacy and probably in denial.

I get it.

You wonder...

"Is that the inevitable supposed and purposed end for marriages?"

You know you didn't bargain for such a painful experience.

In this FREE Book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK", you will discover the UNCOMMON secrets of...

HOW TO SAVE & FIX YOUR BROKEN MARRIAGE ALL BY YOURSELF EVEN WHEN THERE IS INFIDELITY OR YOU FEEL IT IS COMPLETELY OVER.

There’s nothing worse than being in a marriage you thought was ordained by God and feeling like you are in eternal bondage and it seems there will never be an end.

It feels very dark in your matrimonial home and you can’t even share your ordeal with anyone.

You try so many moves to save your marriage but your spouse just doesn’t care anymore;

...you feel as though he/she is no more the person you married.

Finally, you thought may be you should communicate more

But the very act of communication digs deeper and deeper holes of arguments, fights, emotional aches and more.

Exhausted, you share your experience with your family and now the whole family is in feud;

Your parents, siblings, on both sides of the family etc.

They have all caught feelings.

You wonder if your kids will have a home with both parents 6 months from now... it feels like no one cares or ever cared.

If you feel a connection to this reality at any level, I feel your pain.

We know what that feels like.

Inside this book, you will discover our full story from being madly in love to a completely destroyed marriage; DIVORCE and back together stronger.

Whatever "destroyed marriage" means in your imagination, we've been through it and it was basically impossible to fix our marriage.

We didn't fix it.

Get My Marriage BackWe created a brand new, better and stronger marriage empire on 3 pillars that you will discover in...

"GET MY MARRIAGE BACK."

May be your situation is not bad at all, every marriage will go through crisis as a test to take you to greatness.

This book will prepare you for it when it comes.

If you feel like your home is heading in a very bad direction, you can't stop arguing, you can't speak your mind etc... you need all 3 sections of this book.

  1. Emergency
  2. New Foundation
  3. Real Love Techniques

It's time for you to build that real love experience (that you bargained for when you got married to your spouse)

...from a very intentional and deliberate stand point.

Marriage is not a partnership and it's takes more than common sense.

I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here.

But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

The secrets we share with you in this book work both in the ancient and even better in the civilized age.

What percent of sexless marriages end in divorce?

About 20% of marriages are sexless and about 50% of them end up in divorce. Lack of sex is definitely a contributing factor to divorce rate.

What is considered a sexless marriage?

It varies from marriage to marriage but once it become a regular thing to go 3 months without sex, you should be concerned and seek help,

How long do sexless marriages last?

Sexless marriages can last as long as the couple wants it to last with respect actions. If you are willing to stay even if you don’t like it, it can last a lifetime.

Can a sexless marriage work?

It depends on what the root cause is. There are many sexless marriages that last when its caused by medical issues. Also, many last but not necessarily without affairs and transgressions.

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Sexless Marriage ❤️ Does my Marriage Still Have a Chance⁉️

A Sexless marriage is a terrible experience for anyone to be going through; feeling unwanted, helpless, undeserving, and just hopeless.

But just like every other aspect of life, what doesn’t kill you can only make you stronger.

But with some knowledge and emotional wisdom as ammunition, you will become unstoppable…

So allow me to share some information to help you.

You can reverse that reality in your marriage especially if it’s emotionally driven.

Sexless Marriage and the Downsides.

If your Sexless Marriage is due to medical issues, seek the help of a medical professional.

Sex is the one thing that makes your marriage different from other types of relationship so you shouldn’t have to be stuck in the lack it.

So if you either feel that:

  1. Your Spouse Rejects sex with you all the time.
  2. Your Spouse Does not initiate sex enough with you OR….
  3. OR You are no longer sexually attracted to your spouse.

Essentially, nothing is broken with the 2 of you physically but the vibe is just never right for one or both of you;

It’s mental and I got you and you are not alone… but you need to act.

What percentage of sexless marriages end in divorce?

Studies show that 20% of marriage are sexless and you probably already know that 50% of all marriage unions end in divorce.

If I were you, I would be more scared of staying in an unhappy marriage than divorce itself; but anyway, you are not alone.

How long do sexless marriages last?

A sexless marriages can last forever.

That’s especially true when there are kids involved but more importantly,

You should consider your marriage sexless if you have not had sex in 3 months or more.

“Lack of sex” should be addressed at the 2 weeks mark if there are no visible, clear or medical reason.

Can a sexless marriage survive?

A sexless marriage can definitely survive but that doesn’t mean it’s the best way to live a quality life.

The real question is if you can reverse a sexless marriage and the answer is yes; especially if you have a good history of intimacy.

All you need is at least “one of you” to initiate that dance and with patience, your spouse will respond.

Sure it takes 2 to tango but there is a need for just one leader who wants to take the charge and follow these 4 steps.

  1. Look in the mirror.
  2. Focus on changed behavior (even if you had not offended your spouse, switching a few predictable behaviors up will make them wonder and increase attraction.)
  3. Look out for rekindling signs.
  4. Respond when you see signs.

Become a student of seduction; Seduction is not just sexual.

If you are the one who is not sexually attracted to your spouse,

That’s a symptom of underlying issues…

That is to say you should focus on fixing that.

So maybe there are behaviors that your spouse puts on that turns you off;

In that case, you can learn how to seduce your spouse to the way you desire him or her to behave.

For example, if she doesn’t clean after herself, your knee jerk reaction is to complain about it.

Instead of being predictable, you can actually seductively request that she cleans.

And when she does clean once in a while, tell her how sexy she looked while cleaning.

Use Reverse Psychology to Reverse Your Sexless Marriage

Here is the point, use seduction to highlight when your spouse does what you like and you will naturally get more of such moments.

If you are not having enough sex, seductively highlight when you do have sex

And refrain away from complaining when there is no sex for extended period of time.

What you focus on expands; negative or positive.

What happens in a marriage without intimacy?

There is a risk of at least one person wanting more intimacy

And that increases the chances of infidelity and just a bad lifestyle that comes with multiple sexual partners.

If you are experiencing this, you should be concerned even if you are the less affectionate partner.

It’s even worse if you have kids because you will teach them these bad behaviors; maybe unintentionally.

Click Here to Take the 2 Minutes Sexless Marriage Quiz

Below is a question for us to address with this lesson…

“My Wife and I are in separation.

But we don’t sleep in the same room anymore.

Tried talking to her but she wants nothing to do with me anymore.

I messed up because I was insecure.

And I tried to talk to her and told her that I have changed.

Still no luck; does my marriage still have a chance.”

Enjoy the video.

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Are you STRUGGLING in your... MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP?

Are you having a difficult time getting your spouse or the person you love on the same page?

Is your dream to build a happily ever after life heading down the drains?

I know...

The harsh reality is that the happiness in your marriage may be over...

IT'S BROKEN...

"Can it be saved?"

...And maybe you still even live in the house with your spouse as roommates, barely any sex or intimacy and probably in denial.

I get it.

You wonder...

"Is that the inevitable supposed and purposed end for marriages?"

You know you didn't bargain for such a painful experience.

In this FREE Book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK", you will discover the UNCOMMON secrets of...

HOW TO SAVE & FIX YOUR BROKEN MARRIAGE ALL BY YOURSELF EVEN WHEN THERE IS INFIDELITY OR YOU FEEL IT IS COMPLETELY OVER.

There’s nothing worse than being in a marriage you thought was ordained by God and feeling like you are in eternal bondage and it seems there will never be an end.

It feels very dark in your matrimonial home and you can’t even share your ordeal with anyone.

You try so many moves to save your marriage but your spouse just doesn’t care anymore;

...you feel as though he/she is no more the person you married.

Finally, you thought may be you should communicate more

But the very act of communication digs deeper and deeper holes of arguments, fights, emotional aches and more.

Exhausted, you share your experience with your family and now the whole family is in feud;

Your parents, siblings, on both sides of the family etc.

They have all caught feelings.

You wonder if your kids will have a home with both parents 6 months from now... it feels like no one cares or ever cared.

If you feel a connection to this reality at any level, I feel your pain.

We know what that feels like.

Inside this book, you will discover our full story from being madly in love to a completely destroyed marriage; DIVORCE and back together stronger.

Whatever "destroyed marriage" means in your imagination, we've been through it and it was basically impossible to fix our marriage.

We didn't fix it.

Get My Marriage BackWe created a brand new, better and stronger marriage empire on 3 pillars that you will discover in...

"GET MY MARRIAGE BACK."

May be your situation is not bad at all, every marriage will go through crisis as a test to take you to greatness.

This book will prepare you for it when it comes.

If you feel like your home is heading in a very bad direction, you can't stop arguing, you can't speak your mind etc... you need all 3 sections of this book.

  1. Emergency
  2. New Foundation
  3. Real Love Techniques

It's time for you to build that real love experience (that you bargained for when you got married to your spouse)

...from a very intentional and deliberate stand point.

Marriage is not a partnership and it's takes more than common sense.

I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here.

But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

The secrets we share with you in this book work both in the ancient and even better in the civilized age.

What is a Sexless Marriage?

A sexless marriage is a marriage where sexual intimacy has dried up for 3 months or longer.

Can Sexless Marriage Survive?

Lack of sex in a marriage (outside of medical and disability reasons) is a symptom. The marriage can survive if the underlying issue is uncovered with root cause analysis and fixed.

How can a Sexless Marriage Survive?

A sexless marriage (with the exception of those cause by medical issues) can survive by applying seduction strategies that are value and long term based.

What Does The Bible Say About Sexless Marriage?

It’s simply not biblical to live in a sexless marriage. Corinthians 7:2 says “2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.”

Should You Stay in a Sexless Marriage?

A sexless marriage is a symptom and that means there are underlying issues. To stay or not will depend on what the root cause of it is.

Can Sexless Marriage Work?

It depends on what the root cause is. There are many sexless marriages that last when its caused by medical issues. Also, many last but not necessarily without affairs and transgressions.

Is Sexless Marriage Reason for Divorce?

It can be a reason but it shouldn’t be unless the root cause of it has been addressed and determined to be non-fixable or unbearable. Sexless-ness is a symptom of underlying issues.

Is Sexless Marriage Normal?

When you consider that “15 percent of married couples are sexless: Spouses haven’t had sex with each other in the past six months to one year” according to studies, it’s not normal.

I wouldn’t consider it normal unless at least 50% of married couples experience it. It’s not normal; it should be addressed.

Can Sexless Marriage Be Fixed?

Outside of those cause by medical issues, a sexless marriage can be fixed.

How Many Sexless Marriages End In Divorce?

About 15-20% of marriages are sexless and about 50% of them end up in divorce. Lack of sex is definitely a contributing factor to that 50% divorce rate.

What Should a Christian Do in a Sexless Marriage?

First of all, prayer and patience is going to be a key part of the process.

Also, you want to find a way to embed humility, gratitude into skillful seduction of your spouse back to desire you sexually.

How long do sexless marriages last?

It can last for as long as it would take you to gain the courage to find and fix the underlying issues. Sexless marriage (outside of medical issues) is a symptom of broken marriage.

How do you fix a sexless marriage?

By finding and fixing the underlying issues.

Sexless marriage (outside of medical issues) is a symptom of broken marriage.

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5 Stages that Leads to a Sexless Marriage 💔

So what is a sexless marriage?

A sexless marriage is a marriage where sexual intimacy has dried up for 3 months or longer.

You should wait till 3 months to find this out.

Anything after a week should initiate a loving conversation and not an argument.

Let’s get into the stages and signs…

What is a sexless marriage and what are the signs and stages?

(1) She doesn’t love you anymore will lead to a sexless marriage

If your spouse is starting to tell you that he or she doesn’t love you anymore, it’s not bad…
But it’s not as bad as it feels.

You should acknowledge the feeling without overreacting to confirm that he or she is right.

That reaction alone can stop the painful direction of your marriage.

(2) If you are confused (especially as a man), in time you will increase the chances of a sexless marriage.

If you are confused about the direction of your marriage or relationships, that’s okay.

That’s just how you feel right now.

If you know anything about feelings, you know that they are temporary.

However, feeling sustained confusion is a feminine energy but men can feel it as well.

But when a man continues to express sustained confusion in words, a woman will start to feel less and less attraction for him.

That dynamic will move more in the direction of a sexless marriage as he also won’t be sure of when to make a move and seduce.

Not being sure of yourself is another feminine energy.

Anytime I say “men”, you can use that interchangeably with the dominant partner in the relationship.

(3) The fear or threat of divorce will create a sexless marriage.

In fact, you will attract what you fear the most when you either threaten your spouse with divorce or your fear it.

What you focus on will expand; either negative or positive.

Your intentional and unintentional actions have a way of aligning with what you focus emotional energy on.

(4) She doesn’t want PDA

If your spouse suddenly stops wanting public display of affection (PDA) from you,

You are probably moving in that direction of a sexless marriage if not there already.

So suddenly, she stops wanting to kiss.

Your first step is to ensure that you are clean and breath is not stinking.

Put some effort in making sure that you can physically seduce your partner.

Seduction should never end on either ends but the reality is that one partner may have more strength in that area than the other..

Naturally, we all get complacent and stop seducing each other.

Commit to catching it when he or she is retracting from the usual PDA and make sure that you improve…

Before asking… “Is everything okay?”

And then, listen carefully to what the concerns may be.

However, if your spouse has always been that way due to background, culture, personality, and etc. that’s a different issue altogether.

(5) Arguments Everywhere

Arguments are not the same as disagreements.

They are pointless repetitive clarification of points that leads to bad energy and kill attraction.

So if you do engage in enough arguments, you should not be surprised about ending up in a sexless marriage.

If you don’t feel that arguments kills sex, attraction, relationships, and marriages, there is a high chance that your partner disagrees with you.

In fact, if you bring it up, it will cause an argument… and create a vicious cycle of a sexless marriage..

What about… “wife says she loves me but not in love with me.”

Loving you is decision she made at the altar and being in love with you is a feeling that she doesn’t have right now.

The keyword phrase is “right now”. It’s temporary and it can only be permanent if you don’t work on bringing attraction back into your marriage.

But the first step is to stop panicking about that and learn how listen to her emotions without involving much of your emotions.

Couples counseling can help with this kind of stuff.

“My wife says she doesn’t love me anymore and wants a divorce.”

Same issue; don’t panic about this temporary feeling.

Don’t attempt to work on her. Instead work on yourself and build a self that will attract her back to you and a better relationship.

Make her earn you back.

The same attraction and self worth issues can be worded and a few different ways.

“My wife loves me but doesn’t desire me.”

“My ex said she doesn’t love me anymore.”

“Wife doesn’t love me but won t leave.”

Obviously, she REALLY doesn’t want to leave. It’s an attraction issue and it starts with you, the complainer.

“I don ‘t love my wife anymore but she loves me.”

So why are you complaining… I know why.

You are just not attracted to her right now.

But maybe you are afraid of leaving. That’s feminine energy.

Decide what you want to do and move on from the misery.

If you keep dragging her in your misery, she may eventually bring out her masculine energy, decide for you and leave.

Then you will hate yourself and want her back suddenly; may be you need to see her with another man first.

You don’t have to be with her if you don’t want to.

But for your own good, learn how to be decisive like a man in his full essence and you will attract the woman that you desire.

You need to read the book “Get My Marriage Back” 10-15 times.. it will help in taking control of your emotions.

It may be her and may be not, but she will always respect you as a man.

Click Here to Take the 2 Minutes Sexless Marriage Quiz

Below is a question for us to address with this lesson…

“I have a problem.

My wife wants to separate.

She said she doesn’t love me anymore but she also said,

I love you because you are the father of my kids and also because of the struggles we’ve been through.

We have been together for 11 years and I still love her.

What can I do? I’m just so confused.

We haven’t even talked about a divorce.

She has never brought it up and of course I don’t want a divorce.

This is just so confusing.

We still live together with our kids in the same house.

We still have sex and sometimes we kind of flirt.

But she doesn’t want to kiss me like she is afraid as if something.

It’s just so weird.

She said she doesn’t love me but she still has an affection for me so it’s very confusing.

It’s like do you love me or not.

And also, she has a big pride; she wants to be right all the time and never says she is wrong even when she is.”

Enjoy the video.

Are you STRUGGLING in your... MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP?

Are you having a difficult time getting your spouse or the person you love on the same page?

Is your dream to build a happily ever after life heading down the drains?

I know...

The harsh reality is that the happiness in your marriage may be over...

IT'S BROKEN...

"Can it be saved?"

...And maybe you still even live in the house with your spouse as roommates, barely any sex or intimacy and probably in denial.

I get it.

You wonder...

"Is that the inevitable supposed and purposed end for marriages?"

You know you didn't bargain for such a painful experience.

In this FREE Book "GET MY MARRIAGE BACK", you will discover the UNCOMMON secrets of...

HOW TO SAVE & FIX YOUR BROKEN MARRIAGE ALL BY YOURSELF EVEN WHEN THERE IS INFIDELITY OR YOU FEEL IT IS COMPLETELY OVER.

There’s nothing worse than being in a marriage you thought was ordained by God and feeling like you are in eternal bondage and it seems there will never be an end.

It feels very dark in your matrimonial home and you can’t even share your ordeal with anyone.

You try so many moves to save your marriage but your spouse just doesn’t care anymore;

...you feel as though he/she is no more the person you married.

Finally, you thought may be you should communicate more

But the very act of communication digs deeper and deeper holes of arguments, fights, emotional aches and more.

Exhausted, you share your experience with your family and now the whole family is in feud;

Your parents, siblings, on both sides of the family etc.

They have all caught feelings.

You wonder if your kids will have a home with both parents 6 months from now... it feels like no one cares or ever cared.

If you feel a connection to this reality at any level, I feel your pain.

We know what that feels like.

Inside this book, you will discover our full story from being madly in love to a completely destroyed marriage; DIVORCE and back together stronger.

Whatever "destroyed marriage" means in your imagination, we've been through it and it was basically impossible to fix our marriage.

We didn't fix it.

Get My Marriage BackWe created a brand new, better and stronger marriage empire on 3 pillars that you will discover in...

"GET MY MARRIAGE BACK."

May be your situation is not bad at all, every marriage will go through crisis as a test to take you to greatness.

This book will prepare you for it when it comes.

If you feel like your home is heading in a very bad direction, you can't stop arguing, you can't speak your mind etc... you need all 3 sections of this book.

  1. Emergency
  2. New Foundation
  3. Real Love Techniques

It's time for you to build that real love experience (that you bargained for when you got married to your spouse)

...from a very intentional and deliberate stand point.

Marriage is not a partnership and it's takes more than common sense.

I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here.

But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

The secrets we share with you in this book work both in the ancient and even better in the civilized age.

What is a sexless marriage?

A sexless marriage is a marriage where sexual intimacy has dried up for 3 months or longer.

What percentage of sexless marriages end in divorce?

About 20% of marriages are sexless and about 50% of them end up in divorce. Lack of sex is definitely a contributing factor to divorce rate.

Can a sexless marriage survive?

Lack of sex in a marriage (outside of medical and disability reasons) is a symptom. The marriage can survive if the underlying issue is uncovered with root cause analysis and fixed.

How long do sexless marriages last?

Sexless marriages can last as long as the couple wants it to last with respect actions. If you are willing to stay even if you don’t like it, it can last a lifetime.

How do you fix a sexless marriage?

Uncover the underlying issue with root cause analysis through the help of a coach and adjust accordingly. Lack of sex is a symptom of other emotional issues with the exception of disabilities and medical reasons.

What does it mean when a woman says she loves you but is not in love with you?

It means she is not feeling safe with you RIGHT NOW to be sure of loving you right now.

It’s a feeling that won’t necessarily transcend time especially if you know what you are doing.

Can a relationship last without sex?

Yes it can but very rarely especially if we are talking about marriage.

There are many people that stay in a marriage due to a lifetime of history, children and cultural reason.

But it’s not healthy unless there is lack of sex due to disability or medical reasons.

What do you do when a girl says she doesn’t love you anymore?

You have to give the girl the gift of missing you.

If a girl doesn’t love you anymore, it’s because she doesn’t respect you any more.

That’s the direct symptom of lack of self-respect; no one will give you what you can’t give yourself.

So ask yourself, “have I shown up to the relationship in ways that shows that I don’t respect myself?”

For example, engaging in heated arguments with a girl is a sign of lack of self respect; she will lose respect for you in a matter of time.

It’s also a sign that you don’t pay attention to a woman much less knowing her.

How do you tell if your GF doesn’t love you anymore?

The first sign that she (girlfriend or wife) doesn’t love you anymore is the sign that you observed to lack confidence in the relationship to the extent of asking this question.

Just keep in mind that it’s a feeling for her at this point and i won’t last if you know what you are doing in terms of attracting her back.

On the flip side, she may leave you so you should do something about bringing attraction back.

You may like this… “Is it too late to fix my marriage?”

and When to walk away from sexless marriage…

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How to Reverse a SEXLESS MARRIAGE ❤️ 5 SECRETS That Works

In this lesson, you will discover 5 SECRETS of how to reverse a sexless marriage using seduction and ancient attraction methods.

… PLUS make it your spouses idea.

This is more relevant if you are experience low attraction as opposed to a medical related condition.

15 percent of married couples are sexless: Spouses haven’t had sex with each other in the past six months to one year

NY Times

Quick Question from a Reader to Help with this lesson ⁉️

“Hi. I have a very tricky situation here. My wife and I are considered soul mates by the time we’re dating and made many other couples jealous about intimacy.

Until the birth of our first child. Fast forward till now, 5 years of marriage. My wife has severely low libido and I get denied for over a year.

Or I can say less than one time of intimate session a year after marriage. I result to prostitute a year ago which I bailed out of; I did not have sex with the prostitute.

Because I love my wife dearly, I felt guilty anyway; but I did not let my wife know.

But the real problem is that it hunt me down recently which my wife found out through my browsing history when I searched up the location for quick relief a year ago.

Now my wife has her heart shattered but will still stay with me. As she say, I’m the only guy she will be with till the end of time but she mandates that she will no longer engage in sex with me.”

How to Reverse a Sexless Marriage - Rekindle your Marriage

(1) This is an Opportunity

Problems are opportunities in disguise.

A sexless marriage is clearly a terrible experience for anyone to be experiencing.

So there is a good chance that the attitude and energy you are creating as a by-product is perpetuating that.

Use this opportunity to build yourself and show case a brand new person who doesn’t need sexual validations from your spouse.

In essence, acting like you really need sex will decrease the chances of getting some.

Once you bring sex back into your marriage, it’s going to be that much better than many couples’ mediocre sexual exploits.

So get excited.

Even if you are trying by yourself while your spouse says it’s too late, disregard because it’s time to learn something new.

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(2) Root Cause Analysis

You need to identify when it started.

If your sexless marriage is an issue that you have experienced in your marriage from the beginning, you need to identify that.

You need to do the same if you feel that it started somewhere later.

For example, it could have started after a child birth.

Once you figure that out, the rest of the steps below becomes that much easier towards a better sexual and intimate sessions.

(3) How to Reverse a Sexless Marriage with Self Love & Self Esteem

In life and especially in marriage, no one is usually going to give you what you are able to give yourself.

In this case, we are talking about how to reverse and rekindle sex in a sexless marriage.

If your spouse feels that you can’t attract anyone else and have sex outside of him or her,

…he or she will have a hard time with feel attraction for you.

This is especially true if you are in the middle of other marriage related crisis as no one single factor can lead you to a sexless marriage.

… unless it is medical in nature.

That’s not to say you should go out and engage in uncontrollable behavior and infidelity.

But you should probably carry yourself a little differently from a confidence stand point.

(4) Forgiving Yourself is Required Step towards Reversing a Sexless Marriage

What would you do differently if you knew that you have not offended your spouse?

How would you carry yourself if you are so confident that he or she wants you sexually 3 times a day?

Compare the answers to your anxiety and reactions as related to your present concerns.

There are chances that things have happened that makes you show up with self-blame and guilt.

Write out whatever that behavior is and do the opposite.

It will transfer your anxiety to your spouse and make them wonder if he/she has been replaced.

Attraction will subsequently increase.

(5) Become a Student of the Art of Seduction & Attraction and Reverse your Sexless Marriage.

If you have been married for any amount of time, you know that many aspects of marriage is ups and downs.

You need to approach marriage deliberately and intentionally especially when you experience crisis.

It’s better on the other side of just winging it and going along with your feelings.

Marriage can be predictable when you learn a few seduction and attraction skills specially with a person you already know.

Stop feel sad (lack of self control) and take the steering once and for all.

It all comes down to attraction.

Even beyond sex…

If there is low level of attraction, your spouse will abuse you at least emotionally.

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How do I revive my sexless marriage?

Master the art of seduction and attraction.

However, if it’s medical related, seek professional consultation.

There are options available either way but it starts with a desire to master seduction and attraction.

How long do sexless marriages last?

Sexless marriages last only 3 months because beyond 3 months of no sex, you can no longer call it a marriage.

The only exception is medical related in which case, you should see professional consultation immediately.

How do you fix a loveless sexless marriage?

If there is no love from your spouse, it’s probably temporary.

Don’t panic; instead look for opportunities to give emotionally beyond the obvious.

Become a student of the art of seduction and attraction and that starts with self control and self love.

Once you figure this out, sex all be rekindled.

What percent of sexless marriages end in divorce?

15% of marriages are said to be sexless.

100% of these marriages might as well start the divorce proceedings

This is true especially if none of the parties are willing to learn and use the art of seduction and attraction to bring intimacy back.

Living as roommates with a spouse you haven’t been intimate in a minimum of 3 months is worse abuse than divorce.

Can a sexless marriage survive?

Absolutely YES! The first step is for whoever is complaining about sexless-ness to back off and allow attraction to grown.

The next step is to learn everything he or she can learn about reverse engineering back from scratch into the marriage.

The main downfall to watch out for is when one beet$ches about sexless; it will kill intimacy further because it’s mainly mental.

What happens in a marriage without intimacy?

For the most part, just life and responsibilities. You can also count on divorce possibly in the horizon if nothing is done about it.

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I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here.

But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.

The secrets we share with you in this book work both in the ancient and even better in the civilized age.