And the good thing with that is, now you have time to back it over with your behavior.
Right?
Especially if your behavior has actually reflected that.
Though we don’t support you asking for forgiveness over and over again.
You have to do it one time.
Maybe once or twice and it’s done.
The rest has to be your changed behavior.
That’s what really matters.
But some people are just asking for forgiveness like “I’m sorry. I’m sorry.” every small thing they’d say I’m sorry.
No…
You are making things worse and you are being annoying.
You need to know when you are being annoying.
So you have to give them time to process things.
Some people may have a hard time to forgive because it’s very hard for an average human being to forgive.
Once you hurt a person, it’s a trust issue.
It will be hard for him to open up again because you’ve built a wall in the future.
So for them to open up again you need time.
If you had a good time with this person in the past or anything like that, they will remember.
They will start reflecting if you stay out of their face.
But if you keep pushing to fix everything now… that will work against you.
Asking over and over again… let’s put into logic a little bit, if you do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result, that’s called insanity.
The same thing, like don’t think your apology is all suddenly going to fix things.
Forgiveness will require a lot of follow ups… even cheating, because even the follow ups are not apologizing.
QUESTION – “What can I say to my wife to stop a divorce?”
In addition to what to say to her to stop the divorce, you also need to learn how to say what to say.
Believe it or not, there is not much to say other than “I UNDERSTAND”. You can’t afford to start begging or apologizing once a woman get to this stage.
It doesn’t have to be her idea to stop the divorce but it needs to feel like it’s her idea to her. If she feels smothered into stopping the divorce, that will become a confirmation that continuing the divorce is the right decision.
When a woman asks for divorce, she has lost respect for you and no longer values the marriage. Any manipulative move will further decline the value of the marriage from her perspective.
Watch the video for more insights on how to talk and relate with a wife who has asked for divorce.
In this video, you will discover how to stop divorce using 3 tools that you probably already have.
It’s a painful place to be when you are being rejected by your wife.
But that can also be your greatest tool… PAIN.
Watch this video and learn from other people’s story. Enjoy it