Everything we are sharing here is easier said than done but it is doable with a strong support system.
Gary and Jane went through infidelity a year ago and they decided to stay and work on their marriage.
After she had forgiven him, one of her friends at the church marriage ministry started putting ideas of how cheaters never change into her head.
She caught anxiety from that and started flipping out on Gary; here goes the whirlwind all over again.
Healing is a process and you need to be aware of the fact that people’s opinion of your marriage can affect you negatively during the process.
Ever heard of the quote that says “Misery loves company.”
If you want to leave, leave. No one should manipulate you to stay just like no one should manipulate you to leave because of their personal experience.
Watch who you surround yourself with but more importantly a support system goes a long way in maintaining through the healing process.
We’ve got one more secret for you but in the next video, we will share how support systems work in helping to stay together after cheating.
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What else do we need?
Secret #5- Connection
If you are interested in staying together after cheating has occurred in your marriage, you will need a strong existing connection between you and your spouse to leverage because the process of recovering from betrayal is naturally very hard.
And in addition to your existing connection, we suggest that you commit to doing something you are both passionate about together.
By doing that, you are able to create new memories to replace those terrible ones and with patience, it will result in building a stronger connection.
If friendship with an opposite sex that you are personally friends with, an ex or a blast from the past is involved,
Respect yourself by allowing your spouse to go and sort that out before starting your brand-new marriage with them.
No one with healthily give you what you can’t give yourself.
Therefore if you can’t love and respect yourself, your spouse can’t love and respect you.
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Real Love Techniques
It's time for you to build that real love experience (that you bargained for when you got married to your spouse)
...from a very intentional and deliberate stand point.
Marriage is not a partnership and it's takes more than common sense.
I'm sure you are a smart person because you found your way here.
But clearly, your smartness and common sense hasn't worked out well in your marriage.
The secrets we share with you in this book work both in the ancient and even better in the civilized age.
What is infidelity?
In a marriage, it is generally referred to as infidelity when one party engages in intimate relationships with a person outside of the marriage.
What is the difference between infidelity and adultery?
Adultery is more specific of a way to describe sexual related betrayal in a marriage.
What is considered infidelity?
The truth of the matter is that infidelity is involved whenever a promise is broken in your marriage.
What is the main reason for infidelity?
People cheat mainly for a lack of a larger purpose than the pleasure and excitement of secrecy.
How common is infidelity?
Here are some statistics that I found…. • 20% of men reported that they cheated sexually • 13% of women reported that they cheated sexually • 16% of ALL ADULTS reported that they cheated sexually But under age 30, the numbers are different. • 10% of men under 30 reported that they cheated sexually • 11% of women under 30 reported that they cheated sexually