5 Rules to Follow When Separation Starts to Work For Your Marriage💔

In this lesson, we will be sharing five rules to follow if you have been separated for a while but things are starting to seem great between you two again; these rules will help prevent sabotaging the attraction.

So Calvin has been separated from his wife for eight months now, hardly talking, haven’t seen each other or interacted at all.

The loss of their pet brought them back together and they are now in talking terms; they are also hanging out every now and then and enjoying it.

But he is afraid that their toxic behavior will creep back in if they go all-in and start talking about their marriage again.

How do you make sure you don’t mess things up if separation from your marriage is starting to work in favor of the marriage?

Shall we?

Yes.  My name is OLA.

This is actually good news; Calvin has clearly done a great job to get in this space.

The rest of the story now depends on Calvin’s ability to follow these simple, lightweight but crucial rules that will reduce his chances of self-sabotaging.

By the way, there are family laws that guide separation and divorces, so it never hurts to seek legal counsel in the process.

Rule #5 – Enjoy Today & The Little Moments

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One of the things that you have likely taken for granted in your relationship with your wife  are the little moments of just “being.”

What often happens after separation is that you start to value the little things, gestures and moments… I want you to set a plan in motion to keep it that way forever.

A direct cause of anxiety, torture and suffering in relationships and marriages is the obsession with the past and future.  

It makes you feel that the grass may be greener on the other side.  And then you start to fantasize and compare your partners or relationship to others.

Rule #4 – Focus On The Upsides & The Positives.

Still in the spirit of gratitude, I want you to let go and release yourself from the terrible experience that may have led to the separation from your wife in the first place.

As usual, this is easier said than done but stay tuned for rule #1. 

It will help you prepare properly for the release and re-focusing all that energy on celebrating the good times and experiences you are starting to recreate with your wife again.

For now, I want you to focus on everything about her that you fell in love with on day-1.  Add them to these same good experiences you are having right now.

Rule #3 – Don’t Put Marriage On A Pedestal.

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A terrible mistake that a lot of married couples make is to abandon the underlying relationship while stressing each other out about the “marriage” title.”

While marriage is a beautiful thing, it will stress your relationship out if you put it on a pedestal above your friendship, unity and freedom.

Marriage has become an ideology and a religion that many people would kill the actual relationship with their spouse for.

Let go of all extreme ideologies and refocus back on rebuilding friendship with your wife one moment at a time.

Rule #2 – Co-Mingling Fear & Love Is Not Sustainable

Naturally, your guards and all kinds of walls are up when you find yourself and marriage in separation; I understand but that’s fear.

Fear is an emotion that is natural to all of us when we go through traumatic experiences in life.

So it makes sense that a part of you doesn’t want to be too forward with talking about serious topics like marriage, what happened, and getting back together officially.

But I want to share a technique with you that works all the time.  

It is based on the simple fact that fear and love cannot coexist in the same space over a long period of time. One of them will prevail.

So it is okay to shoot your shot as soon as you feel safe enough to do so without rushing it but again, what does that mean?

At this stage of rekindling things, focus on dating and courting her fearlessly provided she is really the one that you want on any given day; don’t worry about tomorrow.

Wait for her to desire the idea of making things official again.  She needs to feel safe and secure and she will bring it up and send you clear signals.

Rule #1 – Engage Self-development, Seduction & Attraction Skills.

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Declare rule 2 to 5 useless without rule #1.  She and the relationship will test you over and over and again so you need emotional strength and intelligence.

She will not be testing you deliberately for the most part so you do not get to judge her; it’s the nature of a typical woman within a romantic context.

Are you going to be man enough to pass these tests while attracting respect, trust, submission and passionate sexual experience with the woman you love?

There is a massive opportunity playing out right now. Are you prepared for it?

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5 Signs That Separation May Be Good For Your Marriage 💔

In this lesson, you will discover 5 signs that separation may be good or at least necessary to bring life back into your marriage.

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Alexis is a 30 years old lady who is married to a 29 years old “boy” with 2 toddlers.

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She depends on her husband for everything else but they are struggling in the marriage.

Now she is considering separation.

Contrary to popular belief by the punk ass modern man in this time and age, it is not the easiest decision for her.

They are very quick to point out the fact that 75% of divorces are initiated by women.

You will discover in these 5 signs how separation and divorce are initiated long before the space where Alexis is right now.

Let’s get into it.

My name is OLA.

Sign #5 – Fear of Being Alone

If your marriage is in a space of love, being alone will be the last thing on your mind.

When you now add fear into that equation, things are really bad and may need to get worse in order to be better.

In the case of Alexis, her husband is the breadwinner and she has 2 toddlers’ welfare to also worry about.

So the idea of having to move on is terrifying.

Still, this is a sign of a healthy cycle in a marriage; space may be necessary to have clarity.

Love and fear cannot dwell within the same space.

Some dummies would like to believe and fantasize about the idea of a marriage without the necessity of love but that’s not reality. Is it?

Sign #4 – Emotionally Drained

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When partners have not been able to see eye-to-eye for 6 months where at least one person feels drained, space may not be a bad thing.

This is a sign that at least one person is taking the other for granted.  This behavior may not change if that person does not smell the idea of losing each other.

Humans respond to consequences more than they respond to rules camouflaged as values.

Sign #3 – Help Refusal

You’ve asked for help by way of therapy or counseling  but your spouse continues to reject it.

Alexis’ husband thinks they can work on the issues by themselves but never initiate the work and refuses therapy.

When one partner is crying out for help and the other is oblivious and ignoring it, that’s a roadblock that only consequences can open up.

If the refusing partner does not taste what it may feel like to lose each other, change is unlikely.

So this may be a sign of a need for separation.

However, individual therapy may be sufficient to learn how to seduce your partner back into a loving space for the marriage again.

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Sign #2 – Empty Cycle of Promises

Long stretch of broken cycle of empty promises creates resentments.  It can also create low self-esteem and worth for the crying partner.

It makes them question if they are not enough to be valued by someone who claims to love them.

It’s only a matter of time; something has to give.

The marriage may have to give at least a trial separation in order for partners to value each other and not take each other for granted again.

As humans, we sometimes have a hard time valuing anything or anyone that’s readily available.

Sign #1 – Loss of Affection

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When you combine this with 2 or 3 other signs, it is really bad and things will likely not change for the better unless it gets worse first.

A partner who is crying for long enough will naturally have a hard time maintaining feelings of affection for a person who they feel has been taking them for granted.

This is especially true when a woman doesn’t feel heard; you cannot penetrate anything.

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