In this lesson, not only will you discover 10 signs that your wife just slept with someone else, you will also discover how to move in these trying and difficult times in your marriage.
The idea of wondering about your wife’s faithfulness has got to be an extremely painful process for you and I’m sorry. But your life is about to change.
Real growth in life and as a man lies within this process.
And it is completely up to you what you do with it after I share this information with you.
Initially, I never felt this way about my beautiful wife Lola.
But once I started seeing some strange behavior I wasn’t used to from her, I started asking questions that led to opinions from strangers that she might be sleeping with someone else.
Of course, I did not buy into that because above all, we’ve always been best friends.
Entertaining such opinions from strangers is a dangerous place to be because you as a man would naturally take that information back to your wife in the form of vibes.
And it will only make things worse even if your wife is not sleeping with someone else.
Read our book GET MY MARRIAGE BACK for our full story. For now, let’s dive into the 10 signs that supposedly implies that your wife has slept with someone else.
Sign #1 of 10 – She Doesn’t Want To Have Sex
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This sign, like all the other 9 signs I will be sharing with you, could mean 2 things. And it’s completely up to you and your emotional intelligence level what you do with it.
It could mean that she doesn’t feel safe, secure and connection to you.
When a woman doesn’t feel these 3 things, she will be dry in every sense you can imagine and she will not desire sex with you.
However if she is a cheater at heart, she may be sleeping with another person regularly and there’s only so much sex she can have right?
Then may be, just may be, she’s already having sex with someone else.
Sign #2 – She Goes Straight For The Shower After Coming In
So not just once but repeatedly, you’ve noticed that every time your wife comes back into the house, she hits the shower right away.
Maybe you should ask her why.
Especially if she doesn’t work at the hospital during a pandemic or a soya bean oil factory; Those are some exceptions.
The worst case scenario which you should not be assuming is that she is trying to wash another man’s cologne off of her body as soon as possible.
If the worst case scenario resonates with you, ask yourself what those other issues in your marriage are. Obviously, there are.
Sign #3 – She Lied About Her Whereabout
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You found out completely randomly recently that your wife heads somewhere else any time she claims to be going to one place.
It wasn’t because you had been placing trackers on her phone or the car out of your own personal insecurities.
Her just feeling the need to lie and hide her whereabouts as these secrets continue to be exposed without you looking for them reflects not just red flags…
But also the fact that she may be a sloppy cheater who has slept with other people.
Sign #4 – Her Dress & Make Up Are Extra These Days
Many women go through early mid-life crisis where they may have felt lost in the hustle and bustles of life.
The way they may show that is self improvement from a physical standpoint.
You’ve made sure that you are not lacking the basic connection that a woman desires.
But then, she suddenly starts to dress and put on heavier make-up to work.
She may be entertaining attention from a work husband who she may have been sleeping with.
Please note the “maybe’s”.
Sign #5 of 10 That Your Wife Has Slept With Someone else – She Suddenly Want To Take Girls’ Trips
Why else would a wife need a girl’s trip especially with single girls outside of, maybe, the fact that women can get quite overwhelmed with home-making activities simultaneously with a career life?
Sign #6 – You Found Her Profile On A Dating App
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Now, this is a cut-throat sign that if she hasn’t slept with someone else, she is at least planning to do so.
This is also inappropriate unless she works for the dating app company and it was a test profile.
Sign #7 – She Password Coded Her Phone
You have, like you normally do, try to login into your wife’s phone but the old password doesn’t work. You didn’t think much of it.
“Honey, what’s the new password?” “Why? Can you use your own phone?” She replied to you.
Maybe she’s hiding something on her last text message regarding her sister’s love life; ladies conversations.
Or a conversation about her sex last night with the side dude.
Food for thought.
Sign #8 – She Was Texting All Night
So when this happens in our marriage occasionally, I am usually next to her and she’s sharing what the text is all about with me as well.
Also, whoever she is texting, (never other men) is also my friend but more so like her best friend from high school and college. I usually feel safe.
If this is happening and you don’t feel safe, know who it is and she says nothing about the conversation, she was probably reminiscing a sex with a side dude (or woman.)
But maybe not.
Sign #9 – She Doesn’t Want PDA
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If your wife is ashamed of PDA (public display of affection) with you suddenly after a few years in the marriage, she probably doesn’t feel safe, secure and connection to you.
That’s a more likely reason.
On the flip side, the unlikely reason (unless you’ve noticed 7 out of the previous signs I have just shared with you) is that she has just had an awesome mind blowing sex with someone else.
Question for you.
What are you doing to attract your wife to desire having mind blowing sex with you and only you at least once a week?
Sign #10 of 10 That Your Wife Has Slept With Someone else – You Suspect Her
Let’s be honest.
If you think that it must be true just because you suspect and just that reason only, you probably should avoid marriage and romance altogether.
There are obviously other questions you should be asking if you are that concerned about the possibility that your wife is sleeping with someone else.
So tell me in the comment area other related marriage topics or struggles you would like us to cover in our next video.
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