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7 Tips for Saving a Marriage When You’re the Only One Trying

Want to learn how to save a marriage when only one is trying?  I’ve got you covered today.

Relationships are like roller coasters – filled with highs, lows, and unexpected turns. If you find yourself in a situation where it seems like you’re the only one paddling the relationship boat, fret not. 

Today, we’re delving into the fascinating world of saving a marriage when only one person is giving it their all. And guess what? It’s absolutely possible to rekindle that spark and bring your partner back to a place of openness to work on your marriage. 

A common misconception that many people have bought into is the idea that a successful marriage requires the effort of both partners. While there is some truth to this belief, it’s important to recognize that a marriage can still be nurtured and revived even when one person is taking the lead. 

The notion that both individuals must be equally invested at all times can be quite limiting and disheartening, especially when you’re facing a situation where you’re the one putting in most of the effort. 

However, it’s time to break free from this mindset and explore the remarkable potential of rekindling a relationship through the art of subtle persuasion and attraction.

So, let’s dive in and explore seven seductive skills to work your magic.

Tip #1. Rediscover Your Charm

Think back to the early days when you effortlessly attracted your partner. This enchanting quality, known as charm, can be your secret weapon. It’s all about the little gestures that once brought smiles and warmth. 

Whether it’s a thoughtful surprise, heartfelt messages placed strategically, or orchestrating unexpected special moments, these charming moves can work wonders in relighting the fire in your relationship.

But, a word of caution is in order when it comes to romantic gestures. While they hold the potential to be incredibly effective, they shouldn’t serve as a mere replacement for something equally crucial – active listening. 

It’s vital not to let the allure of sweet surprises overshadow the importance of comprehending the root causes that led to the initial breakdown in your relationship.

Tip #2. Prioritize Communication

This is not just about talking – it’s about truly connecting again. But here’s the catch: it’s not a 50-50 equation. In fact, it’s more like 80-10-10. Allow me to explain.

Eighty percent of successful communication is rooted in active listening. This isn’t just passive hearing; it’s an active engagement with what your partner is saying. 

It’s about giving them your undivided attention, reading between the lines, and understanding not only the words but the emotions and intentions behind them.

The next ten percent is dedicated to ensuring mutual understanding. It’s like a dance where you gently guide the conversation to make sure both of you are on the same page.

This involves asking clarifying questions, summarizing their points to confirm your understanding, and ensuring that there’s no room for misinterpretation.

The final ten percent is about sharing your own thoughts. It’s not about dominating the conversation or pushing your perspective. Instead, it’s a thoughtful contribution that shows you’re equally invested in the dialogue. This balanced approach fosters an environment of equality, trust, and open exchange.

Why does the 80-10-10 formula work? 

Well, active listening goes beyond just hearing words. It demonstrates your genuine interest in your partner’s feelings and concerns. 

When you make an effort to truly understand them, it creates a safe and welcoming space where they feel valued and heard. This kind of connection can help bridge emotional gaps and rebuild the foundation of your relationship.

The emphasis on mutual understanding prevents any misunderstandings from snowballing into larger issues. It’s like catching a tiny pebble before it becomes a boulder – nipping potential problems in the bud and ensuring a smoother communication flow.

Sharing your thoughts, but in moderation, wraps up the equation nicely. It’s not about overpowering your partner’s voice, but rather, it’s a way of showing vulnerability and trust. When they see you actively participating and opening up, it can inspire them to do the same, creating a harmonious conversational rhythm.

In essence, prioritizing communication isn’t just about talking. It’s a symphony of active listening, understanding, and respectful sharing. 

It’s about creating an atmosphere where both of you can express yourselves openly, without fear of judgment or rejection. This form of connection is like watering the roots of a plant – nurturing the very core of your relationship to help it flourish once again.

Tip #3. Foster Emotional Intimacy

While physical intimacy is important, emotional intimacy is the glue that holds relationships together. Again, share your thoughts, fears, and aspirations with your partner once you’ve ensured that they feel valued and heard. 

Be vulnerable and let them see your true self. When they witness your genuine emotions, it can create a bridge of connection that leads to a deeper understanding again.

Tip #4. Embrace Infinite Patience

Let’s talk patience – a quality that, much like the art of seduction, holds remarkable power. In a world of instant gratification, patience might seem like an odd ally, especially when you’re trying to rekindle a relationship. But here’s the twist: consider patience as a form of seduction, an irresistible allure that benefits both you and your relationship.

Picture this: Just like seduction is about creating a captivating aura, patience too creates an atmosphere of intrigue. It’s not about passively waiting; it’s a subtle yet powerful display of self-love. 

When you’re patient, you’re investing in your own growth and strength. This personal transformation casts an irresistible glow that your partner can’t help but notice.

Think of it as planting seeds of attraction. Your patience becomes a magnet, drawing your partner’s curiosity and interest. It shows you’re in it for the long haul, that you’re committed to nurturing not only the relationship but also yourself.

Much like the thrill of anticipation in seduction, patience adds an element of excitement to your journey. You’re giving your partner the space to evolve, to come to their own realizations. It’s like leading them through a tantalizing dance, each step bringing you both closer.

Remember, just as seduction isn’t about immediate satisfaction, neither is patience. It’s about letting emotions simmer and flourish. It’s about creating a connection that’s deep, strong, and lasting – much like the bonds forged in seduction.

So, as you embrace patience, see it as your secret weapon of seduction. Let it work its magic, both on your partner’s heart and your own. With time, the seeds you’ve sown will bloom into a renewed, irresistible connection that goes beyond words.

Tip #5. Spark Their Curiosity

Human nature is drawn to curiosity like bees to honey. Spark your partner’s interest by engaging in new activities or pursuing hobbies you’ve always wanted to try. And no, you don’t have to bring them along.

When they see you blossoming and evolving, they might be curious to know what’s driving these positive changes. It’s attraction in action.  This curiosity could very well extend to your efforts in saving the marriage.

Tip #6. Be the Change You Wish to See

Gandhi’s wisdom applies to relationships too. Instead of trying to change your partner, focus on becoming the best version of yourself. 

Self-improvement isn’t just attractive, it’s magnetic. When your partner witnesses your growth and transformation, they might feel inspired to join you on this journey of self-discovery.

Tip #7. Re-Create Unforgettable Moments

Sometimes, all it takes is a single moment to rekindle the flames of love. Once you sense some energy of your partner drawing towards you, plan something that can help recreate significant memories you both cherish. 

Alright, here’s the deal: we’re aiming for that passive vibe. What you want to avoid is suddenly pulling out your phone and going, “Hey, look at these old pics.” 

Nostalgia is a secret weapon for bringing back those sweet shared moments, no doubt. But don’t force it. Let it blend in naturally, like a seamless part of the whole scene. The magic happens when it feels cozy, not like you’re waving a flashy sign around.

Remember that saving a marriage when only one person is trying is indeed possible. It’s not about forcing change or manipulating emotions. It’s about embracing the power of your seductive skills to subtly remind your partner why they fell in love with you in the first place.

By rediscovering your charm, fostering emotional intimacy, and practicing patience, you can recreate that safe space for your partner to be open to the idea of working on the marriage. Spark their curiosity, show them the positive changes you’re making, and re-create unforgettable moments that resonate with your shared history.

Ultimately, it’s about being the change you wish to see and leading by example. As you put these tips into practice, remember that relationships are a dance – sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow. And who knows, by being that irresistible force of positive change, you might just find your partner stepping back onto the dance floor with you.

So go ahead, embrace your role as the relationship magician and let your seductive skills work their charm. Here’s to rekindling the love, one step at a time.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can a marriage be saved if one person wants out?

Yes, a marriage can be saved even if one person wants out.

How do I save my marriage when my husband doesn’t want to?

You can save your marriage by focusing on open communication and seeking professional help if needed.

How do I save my marriage when my partner has checked out?

To save your marriage when your partner has checked out, invest in rebuilding emotional connection and seek counseling if necessary.

What to do when your spouse stops trying?

When your spouse stops trying, focus on self-improvement, patience, and encouraging open communication to reignite their interest in the relationship.

How To Save Your Marriage By Yourself – 2nd of 7 Keys

For the 1st 6 months, I searched everywhere to find out how to save my marriage by myself…

how to save my marriage by myself

Because she was complete shut down before I realized the marriage was over….

Then I discover what I am about to share with you…This secret.. The 2nd key…. saved the marriage when all hope was lost.

Question from an example of a husband who shut down leaving the wife to have to save the marriage by herself…

QUESTION ⁉️ “What if your spouse is always using the excuse of ‘not now’ for weeks when you are trying to have a conversation?

Doesn’t talk to you or check on you to see how you are doing but has time to chat…

…and some might call him ‘baby’ when you never hear him call you that in a long time.

And the only way he approaches you is by trying to intimate you and even that, he goes back to the mood fast.”


Key #2 of 7 – Purpose: How to Save My Marriage By Myself

Be sure to check out #1 – How to Save My Marriage at this Link.

Well, you have to have a purpose in life.

I know that you are asking what this has to do with saving your marriage if your spouse has shut down on you.

Stay with me.

If you’re depending on somebody else’s purpose, chances are, you are already lost?

So you have to build on your own personal purpose.

If you don’t know what your own purpose is, then you have to search for it.

You have to keep trying stuff.

There’s a reason why God brought you to this earth.

It’s not just to be married or have Children; God has a purpose for everyone.

And if you don’t know and connect to that purpose, you’re gonna lose your way; especially in a marriage.

So one of the secrets to attracting your spouse back when they’ve checked out on you is to go radio silence on them.

Some all it the NO CONTACT RULE… check it out with this link.

You have to basically give them what they ask for, which is “some space.

They may have asked for it in weird ways that you clearly didn’t understand until not; but you have to give them exactly that.

The number 1 key will enable you to do it; Remember Unconditional love.

If you love your spouse enough, you will let them go if that’s what they’re asking for.

It doesn’t mean that you guys are not gonna get back together.

It doesn’t mean you guys are not gonna fix the issues that you have at the moment.

So the 2nd key to guide and make that even easier is your purpose and our personal mission in life.

It will keep you busy enough to have the required patience to attract your spouse back.

Without a personal purpose, you will be lost and too weak to allow the necessary time and space to miss you.

You will become one of those people that do not feel a sense of existence and try to commit suicide because of a break up.

It’s a lack off sense of purpose.

I know you’ve heard about celebrities who did that before.

Being a celebrity and making millions of dollars doesn’t mean you are in your purpose.

It doesn’t mean you’re fully 100% in your purpose.

Many regular people do it as well; they just don’t have the media coverage that a celebrity would have.

You need to be connected to a personal purpose that may be only you understand, that you enjoy doing, that…

Even if you’re not getting paid, you do not mind to keep doing it.

To attract your spouse back and even beyond getting back together, your personal purpose must come before your spouse.

If whatever you call purpose right now doesn’t come before your spouse, it’s not strong enough.

If you put your spouse before your personal purpose, you will choke the marriage up.

You will smother him or her.

It’s only a matter of time; you will come off as needy.

You’re gonna be clingy.

You’re gonna be in their face all the time; the worst thing you want to do if you are trying to save your marriage by yourself.

You’re gonna basically be overwhelming your relationship.

You have to keep this in context; it’s about balance.

Putting your personal purpose and mission before your spouse does not have to become shortage of affection.

Remember that the idea is to help you attract him or her back and effectively grow an undying affection.

It’s just the wise thing to know when to back up.

By spending a healthy amount of time, energy and attention on your personal purpose, they will have enough room to come to realization.

“Listen, I’m about to miss lose my spouse to anger.”

On the next key guide to saving your marriage by yourself, check out “how to stop my divorce and save my marriage.

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“MY HUSBAND IS A JERK⁉️” ❤️ What to do to Save my Marriage

QUESTION ⁉️ “I told my hubby to start working on himself and to start moving in a positive direction. Next day, he moved out.

My husband is just a jerk. It’s usually just towards me. He is a great hard working man. We farm beef cattle and both work jobs in town.

We have been married almost 12 years. Since I was 20 and he, 24. We have a nice grounded life. We go to sports events and Church and are normal people.

We just don’t generally get along. I have almost accepted this as just how it’s going to be.”

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