It couldn’t possibly be that she is simply not happy about the relationship.
The only reason in this world why she could be angry is that she is or wants to cheat on you.
23, She opened a different bank account
Why can’t you just have one joint account as a married couple?
It must be because she’s a cheater and she wants to make secret spendings.
Or everyone still needs a level of individuality?
24, She cheated before
“Once a cheater, always a cheater.”
Ever heard that before?
If considered that people do grow from bad behavior, it creates a different angle for this conversation entirely… right?
25, She avoids your friends
It could be that your friends have already caught her in the midst of bad behavior and she’s avoiding them.
She could also outrightly not like your friends and can’t stand being around them.
26, Drastic change in Sexual Desires
If she suddenly gets turned off from being intimate with you, she must be channeling that to a secret boyfriend.
On the flip side, if she suddenly wants to start having sex like rabbits, she must be learning from somewhere… a secret boyfriend?
27, She removed her relationship status from social media
Of course, she did.
She wouldn’t want her secret fling to get jealous of the type of love you are showing her at home.
28, She attempts to spend important holidays without you
She is in love with a secret boyfriend so she’d rather spend valentine’s with the person she is in love with.
Don’t forget that she still loves you at least; she is just not in love with you any longer.
29, She gains sudden desire to go to the gym
Why must she look good and fit suddenly after all this time that she hasn’t cared to look good for you?
She must be up to no good.
She could also be finding and discovering her better self by investing in some fitness effort.
30, Replies your text messages in one-word
A woman who is in love with you tends to want to share everything with you even when they are not the talker in the relationship.
So if she just responds with one-word answers, you may find yourself wondering what she is up to with the rest of the time.
A secret boyfriend? Maybe?
31, She references friends you’ve never met
The real question is why won’t she just bring or invite them around for you to meet?
As a married person, do you really need to keep a separate life outside your marriage or spouse?
32, Her phone is always silent
If her phone rang out loud every time she receives those evil texts, how would she keep it a secret?
That can ruin the excitement she gets from her secret affairs.
So it makes sense that she would silence the phone so that you won’t randomly pick up and find out the obvious.
33, She claims to be too busy to talk on the phone when she is at work
This is similar to the one-word text replies.
What happened to the good ol’ days when she couldn’t wait to talk to you on the phone?
Clearly all that energy could be going somewhere inappropriate.
34, She asked you for space
What does a married woman need space for?
Married women are supposed to be virtuous women of God and never get tired or too lazy to carry the emotional weight of a marriage.
After-all, she is a supper woman.
35, She takes every opportunity to not be around you
She hates you now; she is cheating.
If you are in a state of reviewing this and actually find it as prophetic as opposed to the sarcastic piece that it is, you deserve a wife who is cheating on you.
There is a good chance that you have enabled her bad behaviors if in fact, she is cheating…
She may not be cheating at all; but she obviously is not in love with you.
You should focus on learning these terrible insecurity you have just displayed here
…and build yourself because you are about to push your wife away forever with your fear.
In life, you attract what you fear the most.
On the flip side, if you have paid attention to none or just a few of these 35 (many times just normal) behaviors, congratulations as you have a better chance of working on and getting your marriage back.
Don’t worry about blank suspicions and signs that are obviously not backed by facts. Focus on attracting her back in love with you.
A woman who is in love does not leave, and damn sure has no room for affection physically or emotionally with another person.
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Frequently Asked Question [FAQ]
How do you know when your wife cheated on you?
There are 35 signs we have identified but there is no single one that can be a good indicator. You will need at least 18 of the warning signs here to call a red flag.
What to do if you suspect your wife is cheating?
If you suspect that your wife is cheating, you need to seek counseling and find out why you would attract a cheater as a wife before doing anything else.
How do you tell if wife is lying about cheating?
It sounds like you have not caught her red-handed which means there is a good chance that you are showcasing insecurity. If you are so sure, refocus back on finding out why you would be attracting a cheater as a wife.