A marriage counselor is professional, sometimes licensed, to ensure fruitful communication between a married couple.
Their job is not to decide for either of the two.
What’s the Success Rate for those who used the services of a Marriage Counselor?
Roughly 50% of distressed couples will have an improved, more satisfying marriage for 4+ years after counseling.HusbandHelpHaven.com
But according to Psychologytoday.com, the success rate is now roughly around 75% for counselors who use Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT).
That’s good news because it means you can have thriving marriage just working as a team on emotional control.
Therefore as a platform here for you, we focus on the emotions of marriage and relationships.
A marriage counselor can help with infidelity, infidelity recovery and trust issues if the session is not blame, guilt and fault focused.
Go there to figure out why it happened from a psychological standpoint and see if it’s possible to avoid it in the future.
WARNING! This is easier said than done because we are humans and naturally seek to blame something or someone for misfortunes.
Even people find themselves blaming God.
“What is infidelity in a marriage and why does it happen outside of the fact that it is not your fault?”
That is a question you need to get a marriage counselor to help you find answers to with respect to your particular relationship.
Well… As I just said, it is not your fault even if you are the offender; it’s not about faults, guilt and blame.
Let me explain…
Don’t get me wrong.
A Marriage Counselor May Help with In-Depth Understand of this…
A choice was made and the transgressor will help haling and recovery faster if he or she owns responsibility.
But there is a difference between taking responsibility and leaving in guilt and playing blame games.
A marriage is something that we all say “I do” to when we clearly don’t know what we are doing.
That’s the #1 reason why you may have found yourself in a mess…
In spite of the fact that at least one of you two feels like you or he/she loves the other.
Below is a question for us to address with this lesson…
“I have done all the mistakes because my husband just stopped taking my calls.
Everyone in the family called and tried to talk to him.
We are separated for just a year and the husband just doesn’t want to meet.
And we have no common platforms to work this marriage out.
He is not ready to sit.
I have no other option than to file a complaint and sit and tell…
What does he want?
I still want to save the marriage but he is not ready.
So I even agreed to let go of him with mutual divorce.
But he doesn’t want that even.
Don’t know what’s on his mind. I’m so stuck.”
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What does a marriage counselor do?
Marriage counselor helps facilitates a fruitful communication between married couples.
What is the success rate of marriage counseling?
Marriage counseling has a 50% temporary success rate but increases significantly to 75% when focused on emotionally-focused therapy (EFT).
When should you see a marriage counselor?
You should definitely see a marriage counselor when at least one of the parties seek one and there are extended arguments. Don’t wait too long because every negative vibe adds up faster than you may feel.
How do I find a good marriage counselor?
A simple Google search will land you in from of a few marriage counselors in your area but be sure to check for reviews.
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