QUESTION ⁉️ “My husband want quits. He complains about my accusations of him cheating and he doesn’t think he can do it anymore. How can I save my marriage from divorce ? ”
Most people think of infidelity from an actual act. What if it’s pure 100% infidelity spirit in the form of accusations as a result of insecurity.
So you are traumatized with the effect of infidelity and cheating from childhood. Then you carry that baggage into brand new marriage in the form of insecurity.
What’s the effect?
In this video, you will discover how to save your marriage from divorce when it has suffered from insecurities derived from old infidelity
QUESTION ⁉️ “My marriage has been a long journey of ups and downs. And for some reasons my wife keep texting other guys behind my back.
Anytime I catch her, she says sorry and promises to stop. What can I do to make sure she won’t do it again?
I have been there by her side supporting anything she wanted to do. Married for 10 years since she was not even 21.
She has a child from a previous relationship and kept that from me. I’m the one that don’t want to leave her because she is my whole world.
She makes me feel I am the reason why she is doing it.”
In this edition of how to fix a broken marriage, you will discover how to handle a situation where a married woman is texting other men outside the marriage.
Is it appropriate? Is it allowed? Is this another sign of a broken marriage. In this video, we answer that question with precisely why a woman feels it’s okay and exactly how dangerous it is if dangerous at all.
QUESTION – “What can I say to my wife to stop a divorce?”
In addition to what to say to her to stop the divorce, you also need to learn how to say what to say.
Believe it or not, there is not much to say other than “I UNDERSTAND”. You can’t afford to start begging or apologizing once a woman get to this stage.
It doesn’t have to be her idea to stop the divorce but it needs to feel like it’s her idea to her. If she feels smothered into stopping the divorce, that will become a confirmation that continuing the divorce is the right decision.
When a woman asks for divorce, she has lost respect for you and no longer values the marriage. Any manipulative move will further decline the value of the marriage from her perspective.
Watch the video for more insights on how to talk and relate with a wife who has asked for divorce.
On August 16th, 2016, Popular YouTuber and Influencer Jacki Aina @jackieaina published a video titled “Unpopular Opinions: Marrying Young and Societal Pressures | Jackie Aina”.
In the video, she expressed how she is very happy with the new wave of women who do not feel pressured into the ideal or old ideal of a woman to submits into the pressure of being a 2nd hand in a marriage.
Apparently, she had not so pleasant experience being married in her early 20’s.
Recently in her early 30’s, she just got engaged to be married again.
Another Nigerian popular YouTube Influencer Dyna Ekwueme @dynaekwueme has chosen to take a seemingly polar opposite stand on the issue.
On August 20th 2019, She published a video response or reaction to Jackie Aina’s video titled “UNPOPULAR OPINIONS: MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR JACKIE AINA.”
Inside her video, she expressed reasons for the societal pressure and encouraged young marriage.
She out rightly said married does define women.
She in fact said it can make or break a woman.
Since then, she has received lots of backlash on this issue.
Lola and OLA find it interesting that 2 people with no extensive experience in my marriage have so much opinions about it.
The are both either right or both wrong. Find out in the special edition of GET MY MARRIAGE BACK which one is it.
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In this video, you will discover how to stop divorce using 3 tools that you probably already have.
It’s a painful place to be when you are being rejected by your wife.
But that can also be your greatest tool… PAIN.
Watch this video and learn from other people’s story. Enjoy it
