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The Insecure Man (ft. Funke Akindele & JJC Skillz)

News broke out that JJC Skillz and his superstar wife Funke Akindele are now separated.

Who is Funke Akindele?

With tons of awards, she is arguably one of the biggest actresses out of Nigeria’s movie industry which is the biggest by volume in the world and number two with respect to everything else.

She is featured in tons of movies on Netflix.  Just search her name.  She is also popularly known as Jenifa which is one of her most popular series and a movie version which if I’m not mistaking, she directed.

According to wikipedia, she got married to a British-Nigerian rapper popularly known as JJC Skillz. 

In December 2018, they welcomed twin boys as a couple.

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On June 30, 2022, JJC Skillz announces that they are parting way in a post I saw on an Instagram profile; instablog9JA

I want to share some wisdom with you with regards to this from a man who has been married for well over a decade.

But first… here is the announcement I saw…

And I quote!

“Dear Friends and family I need to let you know that Funke and I have separated. While it lasted we shared a lot of things together and have created 2 beautiful children. 

The last two years have been extremely difficult for us. I know I have tried my best to fix things but I believe it is beyond repair now. 

3 months ago and at Funkes insistence I moved out of the house and apart from AMVCA have not been able to get Funke to sit down in an amicable manner to discuss the future of our relationship. 

I’m making this announcement so that the public is clear that we both are pursuing separate lives. 

We still have issues that need to be addressed such as the custody and wellbeing of our children which is paramount as well as business interests which need to be disentangled but I have no doubt that these will be resolved one way or the other

Mr Abdul Bello”

The speculation from sources close to their camp is that Funke is proud… as in arrogant for those who do not understand Nigerian English.

According to an Abimbola on Clubhouse who claimed to know Funke, he said… “though JJC Skillz is not perfect, Funke is not an easy woman to deal with.”

A few months ago, JJC Skillz’s son from his previous relationship dropped some revealing information about their extended family.

It included allegations of child abuse… some serious direct “panel beating” on his son’s head while actually driving in the middle of London street.

As a step son, he also testified to allegations against Funke Akindele that… And I quote…

“She slaps her workers and calls them names. She accuses people of dating JJC Skillz.”

He went on to say Funke has cheated on his Dad.

On the day of the announcement, there were 300,000 Nigerians on ClubHouse arguing JJC Skillz’ financial status before merging life together with Funke.

But then I noticed that none of them was able to substantiate how he was making any substantial amount of money that we can match against what Funke Akindele had going for years before him due to her status.

But I guess that’s beside the point.

Apparently, JJC Skillz had his son live with them and many conflicts ensued that he clearly could not resolve.

But let’s talk about this condescending statement he made.

And I quote…

“I know I have tried my best to fix things but I believe it is beyond repair now. “

This statement is as typical as it comes when a man has just failed in a relationship or marriage (chop breakfast) and he is butt hurt.

It’s disrespectful to himself at best.

The least he could do is change all the I’s in that PR statement to include the mother of his kids.

That will reflect more self-respect than trying to play Mr Perfect who survived a failed marriage.

Is Funke Akindele Perfect or a Toxic Woman?

Apparently, there was a leaked video where Funke was accusing him of cheating and using company funds without proper accountability…

If you have access to that, please share with others in the comment area.

Are you noticing a pattern with high status women with regards to marriage?

Why can’t people be like Omotola Ekehinde (another actress) and her husband who is a  professional air pilot?

To me, it’s been clear that Funke and JJC Skillz’ marriage has been going through the mud and it’s very sad for the institution of marriage.

Here are the allegations…

I’ve heard people quoting a blogger called gistlover claiming the cause of separation to be:

1. Infidelity 

2. Mismanagement of Funds and 

3. Ego

I heard someone say they should have gotten married with a joint bank account.  I think that’s an ignorant suggestion.

The person said … and I quote “after all, he is the husband and why can’t he take money from their business account?”

First of all… that’s all speculation.

But let’s be clear. If you as a man choose to go marry a woman of higher status like Funke Akindele, the only joint document you should be expecting to sign is a prenup if her team knows what that hell they are doing.

You can check out Kandi Burruss and Todd of The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

So this guy had been posting a few proverbial songs on social media for a few days prior to his terrible amateur announcement…

This is all “unrealistic expectations” at best.

Funke Akindele is damn near the biggest actress in Nigeria. How do you not expect that to come with a healthy amount of ego that is not necessarily deliberate?

So even if she is guilty of the accusations of arrogance, that will be in addition to the natural.

As usual, this is a terrible version of unrealistic expectation mixed with egotistical pride on steroids.

Ok so apparently and allegedly, JJC Skillz and Funke Akindele lived in a 7 bedroom house but yet had to rent another house in town for his other extended family.

Is This What Funke is Guilty of?

So somehow, that 7 bedroom-family house is for the extended family and not a nuclear family?

Please… in the comment area… help me make this make sense.

I am in no way exonerating Funke here.

But my job on this channel is to hold the leader of the household accountable.

It’s not an indictment.  I am just pointing out your leverage point as a man which includes the choice to walk away and mean it when necessary as a leverage for best negotiations.

Gentlemen. We can’t negotiate desire.  We can’t afford to discount the power of desire, attraction, emotions and seduction in romantic relationships.  These are skills you must learn.

Funke is most likely not going to make a statement… that’s her track record.

But here we have a man who couldn’t wait to run to social media to make such a condescending announcement about his own family.  Your ex-spouse, especially with kids made together, remains your family for the rest of your life.

I have to be honest with you.  I expect to see more excuses for JJC Skillz outside of holding him to account for his decisions.

After all, you as a man can control your decisions more than you can control another human being who clearly has a higher status in society than you.

To be married to a Funke Akindele, a man will need to be 100% secured in himself.

Newsflash: That’s almost impossible.

Why can’t she just submit to her husband?  It’s not that simple.  

Even if she tries to submit, insecurities of a typical man will creep to the surface and attract disrespect from a typical woman of higher status.

We are not talking about people on salaries here.  There is nothing wrong with a wife making more money than you as a man… but don’t do it… especially if you think there is no such thing as an insecure man.

That’s precisely what you are with that belief system.  Don’t bother trying it.

Funke Akindele is a woman of a certain status and she’s been that… long before JJC Skillz came into the picture.

If you’ve been paying attention, sadly, these things are predictable.

That’s especially true in the modern age.

This is the actual reality that many men are having a hard time adjusting for.

I’ve noticed that they’d rather talk about their fantasies of going back to 1933 ways of doing marriage.

Good luck!

So the fact is that men need intensive coaching to marry in this time and age.

Also divorcees should definitely stay away from marriage until intensive 1 year coaching.

I offer all those things extremely affordably. The only excuse is ego.


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